An intimate question to ask your boyfriend: 30 ultimate questions
If you feel ready to start a serious romantic relationship, it is imperative to know your partner well.
If you want to know more about his past and what makes him tick, you need to know what questions to ask.
At first, you may feel uncomfortable asking questions. For some questions, you will get answers right away, and for others, you will soon find out for yourself.
But, for a healthy and successful couple life, it is important to know, understand and accept your partner.
When you have the answers to your questions, you will know if you can tolerate certain things or not.
Some questions will reveal your partner’s goals, values, some will make you laugh, and others may shock you.
Whether you’ve been together for six days or six years, this list of questions and questions is the ideal way to open communication, create intimacy and get to know your partner better.
What did you think of me at first glance?
Everyone wants to know what others thought of them during these crucial first moments. Did your man have a good first impression of you?
Was he in love with your smile or chatting about something else? Was he love at first sight the first time he saw you? Maybe he liked your funny personality or your robust style.
What is the perfect date or day for you?
Make sure your man gives you more details.
His dream date should be able to paint a nice picture in your head and really give you an idea of the kind of man he is.
You may discover a hidden romantic side that you have never known!
How many serious relationships have you had?
Let’s face it: this is one of the questions every girl has to ask her man at some point.
And if you want to make your relationship more intimate, now is the time to ask this question.
Have you ever fallen in love? When was the last time you cried for a woman?
You absolutely must have concrete answers to these questions.
Whatever the answer, you must not be destabilized. If her last romantic relationship was recent, be prepared to be a little more patient.
How much do you love me
That she wouldn’t like to know? In addition, this question will give you a good idea of how seriously he takes the relationship and what he really thinks of you.
What do you like most about me?
This question arouses many compliments. So this is obviously an excellent question to ask (at any time).
Find out what drives him crazy at home!
What is the thing I do that excites you the most? What part of my body turns you on the most?
A little romantic and a little sizzling, this question will bring you both together and also tell you what else you should do.
What is your biggest fantasy?
This intimate question is not only intrusive, it is also completely fun.
Why don’t you know your man’s fantasies? This intimate question could put you in all your moods!
Where do you see our relationship in 5 years?
Is he here for the long term? Who knows, but you will surely know after asking this intimate question.
Do you want to get married one day?
This is certainly something that you need to discover from the start of the relationship, especially if you are both on opposite sides.
Do you want children?
Some love little babies, while others lose their smile at the idea.
This is another important question to ask yourself very early, especially if you are adamant on the subject.
I want to be the perfect woman for you. Is there anything I should change to make you happier?
Remember, he shouldn’t say anything about your appearance or who you really are.
But if he asks you to change little things like make him breakfast or be nicer with his mother, it’s okay.
Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend?
It is clear that this question needs to be asked from the start of the relationship.
If he says yes, run even if he had a “good” reason to do so. (They all say they had a good reason).
Do you have something to tell me?
It’s a great way to start the conversation and make him feel comfortable enough to tell you something he has in mind.
Is there anything you have done in the past that you cannot forgive yourself for?
If so, tell him you would be happy to help him make peace with the event so that he can move forward with a clear and healthy conscience.
When in your past would you like to return?
Maybe he had a great teenage year (childhood memory) that he would like to relive or maybe he is happier where he is right now.
It’s a great conversation that starts with a simple question for your man!
What is your definition of love?
Everyone has a different answer to this particular question, so why wouldn’t you want to ask it?
Are you a religious person?
Whether you are religious or not, it is always good to know what your man’s position is on the subject.
Will you always be with me if you find out that I …?
(You can put whatever you want in it, like having a criminal record, not being able to have children, having a contagious disease, whatever you want).
Hope your man will still love you, even in the worst circumstances!
Would you still love me even if I had a serious accident that ruined my physical appearance?
Your man had better say yes. And if not, it would just mean that he is just attracted to your physique!
Have I ever hurt you unintentionally?
Sometimes we do things that hurt our partner and we don’t even realize it!
Now is the perfect time to clarify things.
Are you completely comfortable with me?
Your man should be so comfortable with you that he is able to be himself and tell you everything.
And if it’s not there yet, then strive to have an open and comfortable relationship for the good of both of you.
Do you still have feelings for someone in your past?
If he says anything other than “no”, you may have a problem.
Your man should review his past relationships and focus only on you, otherwise he may be tempted to return to his ex-girlfriend.
What is your definition of the perfect relationship?
Here’s a great way to find out what’s going on in your head. You may discover things that make you happy or, in some cases, that make you angry!
How often do you think couples should make love?
He can be silly and say something like every hour, but seriously, how much love does your man really need to stay satisfied?
What do you think about Love making?
People are really divided on this subject. Some say it’s ok while others say it’s cheating. Find out what your man thinks and see if your thoughts line up!
How do you describe me to others?
Your man should have nothing but wonderful things to say to you.
But let’s find out what exactly he says to all his friends and family members! Again, prepare for an influx of compliments.
How do you react when you are in an angry situation?
Knowing the answer to this question is crucial and will help you learn more about his personality.
How did your last relationship end?
Another of these questions is that all women are dying to get the answers.
It is not only to rejoice, but it is also a way of knowing what to avoid during your relationship for it to work.
What is the job of your dreams? Where would you like to work? Do you have ambitions for the future?
These are really interesting questions that will surely have an impressive answer.
This will allow you to know more about your man.
Although these questions are a little too serious, you will discover how your potential partner thinks: if he likes to take matters in hand and ensure a quality future for himself.
How can we improve our s ex life?
Let’s be honest: men are motivated by s ex, so why not ask your man how to keep him interested and spice things up?
Remember that a bored man turns into a cheater, so make sure he is constantly satisfied.
Don’t forget to tell him what you need too! (You are just as important in this department, don’t forget!)
This series of questions can greatly help you in your married life.
You choose them yourself and you can now know how to start the conversation.