The chemistry is real, the feelings are there, the conversation is timely, and the lust is unstoppable.
Looks like you have everything … everything except him.
He says he is not ready for a relationship. It gives you crumbs and it always keeps you at bay.
He didn’t let you in entirely and he keeps his options open.
On the other hand, he can’t stand the idea of seeing you with someone else.
He wants you to commit, but he can’t give you the same in return. And it’s time to end it.
Cut him off from the boyfriend if he is not your boyfriend.
Yes, I mean sex above all. You don’t sleep with your friends, do you?
If you have more feelings for him than he has for you, you don’t want him to consider you as casual.
Think about it. Why would he be interested in a relationship when he gets it all for free?
The emotional connection you have with him could be your end.
Maybe not death, but an emotional slaughter is guaranteed.
Your heart breaks as easily when there are labels as it does when there are none.
You spend time with someone, emotions evolve, and you become attached to yourself beyond your wildest dreams.
You text each other regularly, hang out often, you have internal jokes, you know your thoughts and your morning smell.
It is not only a question of sex, it is much more. This is why the situation you find yourself in hurts you just as a breakup would.
You want more and the reality is that he may not have more to give.
So it’s up to you.
Remove him from the pedestal on which you put him if he is not ready to treat you like a queen.
He is your priority, your number one, the center of your universe, your king, but if he cannot treat you the same way, then he is not worthy of you.
If he is not ready to take hold of you and make you completely his, he is not worthy of your time.
Don’t let months or years go by without being truly happy.
Happiness comes and goes in life, but it never stays long.
You feel like he has power over you and all it gives you are moments of incredible joy, only to spoil them with even greater periods of uncertainty.
There are days when there is nothing that it would not do for you, and there are others where an SMS in return, a simple ”How are you? ”And making plans with you to see is too much effort for him.
Her mind and heart are inconsistent, and they mess up your messy life.
It gives you clues that things could change. He talks about his feelings for you. He talks about the future and you make plans together.
Then suddenly it is nowhere to be found.
He is “too busy”, he is with his friends night after night, he has no time for you until it suits him.
It is disrespectful to say the least and it must stop.
What you need to remember is that you deserve better from him, from life and from yourself.
Of yourself mainly because everything is in your hands. You have to have standards.
You can’t handle someone’s crappy behavior and low investment.
Love yourself as much as you want someone else to love you and everything will fall into place.
You deserve things from him if he expects to have relationship benefits. You deserve to be labeled as his girlfriend.
You deserve respect, loyalty and effort. You deserve more than just half your heart.
Life also owes you a thing or two. She owes you peace of mind and love in life. You just have to enter them.
You deserve a committed relationship where all your efforts will be reciprocal and where you are not the only one to do it.
You deserve to be loved in return and not to be the one who loves for two.
So if he is not ready to have a relationship, take away all the benefits and tell him that you are not ready to have a relationship either.