The energy you spend hanging on to relationships that only hold you back in life prevents you from living your life to its fullest potential.
2020 is the year when you have to fall in love with yourself first, before you even think about love with someone else.
To achieve this, you will have to think about firing all the people who don’t make you happy.
There is so much love and so much potential all around us, and you are lucky to be able to experience it all. Because if you hadn’t broken up with your ex, you couldn’t live all the magic that 2020 has in store for you.
All these new magic things start with you! You have to decide what is best for you, and not worry about what the rest of the world will have to say about it.
Make up your own mind and find someone who deserves you.
Here are the types of relationships that must be said goodbye in 2020!
Send them up! You are far too good for someone to give you only half their love or half their life.
A person who is unwilling or unable to give your whole heart is not someone you should take with you until 2020!
Someone who is afraid to get involved and who is afraid to tell you and others what you mean to them should be removed from your list right now.
You deserve someone who will shout from the rooftops how much he loves you and who doesn’t care what others will think!
Never settle for someone who cannot feel as deeply as you do, and who is always afraid to commit. He’s an immature boy you don’t need in your life.
Let go of that shit and go find your match.
2. Apologies, excuses, and more excuses
He is afraid. It is broken. He died hard. His last break made him suffer a lot. It is not ready for the moment… er yes, we understand, and we are fed up!
Who says you haven’t gone through a lot? Who said that your last relationship was not hellish and that the landscape was not beautiful to see?
The difference is, you will never use it as an excuse to treat someone like shit!
We all had our own shit, and we manage it all in our own way.
But using that as an excuse to mistreat a girl and take her by boat constantly under false pretenses is a cowardly move!
Do not fall into the trap of this kind of man. Because when you find someone who really wants to be with you, they will make it work!
No apology will be required. He will love you too much to lose you.
3. With one foot outside
Many people don’t appreciate what they have until they lose it!
And that’s why they always keep a foot out, expecting something better to come and wasting your precious time all along!
If you feel like he’s not giving you all of him and you’re in second, release him. If you think he’s not 100% with you, stop wasting your time.
This guy will never be happy with a single woman. He will always be half present and the other half will be looking for something better.
These guys are assholes you can’t tame, and you have nothing to do with them.
They just project their own insecurities and faults onto you, and frankly, you don’t need this shit in your life.
4. Selfish relationships
We all tend to fall in love with these bad boys and are enchanted by their mysterious character and their dark personality.
We just want to sink deep into their unusual and alluring behavior.
When in truth, these guys are just manipulative narcissists.
They make us feel bad because of our feelings and our needs, because their bullshit is more important.
They are so “deep” and “confused”, that you should always bend over backwards for them.
Stop giving in to crappy excuses and get treated like you’re worthless. Recognize this pattern of behavior and read between the lines.
It sucks your energy and feeds its ego at the same time.
Don’t let it happen. Let him go and save your soul before he sucks it like a vampire.
You deserve so much better in 2020, so make sure to stop dating these assholes, and find a good guy with a good heart. And it will make it as pleasant as a summer breeze.