1. Everything revolves around him
He is only interested in himself. He ensures that his needs are met, regardless of the people around him.
He likes to say good things about himself and he is often arrogant. He tries to cover up the fact that he lacks self-confidence. His behavior has narcissistic notes and it will only get worse.
If you’re involved with someone who fits that description, run to save your life. His current behavior gives you a glimpse of how he will treat you in the future.
He’s one of those self-centered men who will always put you last.
He will most likely play mind games and make you feel like you should be thankful to be with him.
2. He says one thing, but does the opposite
He will promise you the whole Earth, he will tell you the most beautiful stories but he will never support them with actions.
He just talks, but when it comes to making real efforts or investing in the relationship, he doesn’t move a finger. In the end, you can’t trust him.
If he shows this kind of behavior from the start, he won’t change much in the future.
Before you know it, you will be sucked into a one-sided relationship and you will be the one to do all the work.
So pay more attention to his actions than to his words. If he lies to you about the little things, he will surely turn into bigger lies in no time.
This is a warning that he is a man who lacks self-confidence and with whom one cannot build a future.
3. His feelings are his like a secret which he keeps preciously
Men in general have a hard time expressing their feelings.
But over time, it is certain that they will still have a certain emotional expression, if not in words, then in actions.
The thing with emotionally immature men is that they think they are losing their power by showing their feelings.
They do not want the hunting game to stop and above all they are afraid of becoming vulnerable, they fear being hurt if they open up to love, which is why they hide their feelings.
In most cases, an open conversation would solve everything. But you can’t really talk to an emotionally immature man.
He will skillfully dodge the subject for as long as he can.
As immature as he is, if he really has feelings, his actions will show it even if he does not have the courage to say what he thinks.
If he makes no effort to show them, I’m sorry to tell you, but that means he probably doesn’t.
4. The word “engagement” does not appear in his dictionary
No matter what his age, he always feels like he is not ready to take on responsibility or anything long term.
As soon as things in the relationship start to evolve into something more serious, he will try to move away.
He is not in a place where he can see himself engaged in something long term.
You will recognize the symptoms by his inability to make plans for the future, he will avoid presenting you as his girlfriend, you will not get to know the important people in his life, etc.
This is something he has to solve on his own. It may pass over time, but his emotional immaturity and fear of commitment may follow him until his sixties.
So be careful with your time. Don’t let him waste too much.
If you think you have already given him enough time and understanding, it may be time to stop waiting and let him go.
5. He goes to see his mother for every little thing or still lives at home
Is there anything more that screams immaturity than a man who goes to see his mother for every little thing?
There is nothing wrong with a man having a good relationship with his mother, but it is too much when she meddles in everything and decides all aspects of her life, especially when it comes to your life together.
He will always compare you to her, whether they have a good relationship or a bad one. He will want you to be more like her or his opposite.
In any case, it’s too exhausting and you will always feel that there are three of you in the relationship.
6. He is too needy
He counts on you for everything. Whatever the situation, he is counting on you to resolve it. He needs you to reassure him that everything will be fine.
He needs someone who will stimulate his fragile ego all the time because he doesn’t trust himself and his abilities.
Soon, you will feel like his cheerleader and not like his girlfriend.
You may also run out of support because they will be too focused on their needs to care for yours.
You will spend days and nights hearing about his unnecessary dramas. But when it comes to listening to you, it will not be found.
7. He has a false savior complex
He pretends to be your knight in armor, when in reality he finds your bad days comforting.
Your misfortune lets him know that he is not so bad after all because there is always worse.
He puts aside his own problems and deals with those of his wife, which makes him more virile, more powerful and stronger in the process.
His intentions are not pure. Her heart is not in the right place. He is not there to help, he is there to make matters worse.
This is why a woman who encounters a predator so should run as fast as she can and as far as possible.
8. He’s too jealous
Not only is he immature, but he is also deeply anxious. This is why he is jealous of everyone around you.
He will be chasing you all the time and he will want to know your every move. He could also use other women to provoke your jealousy.
If he was really confident and mature, he wouldn’t have to go to great lengths to provoke a reaction and confirm that you have feelings for him.
Relationships with overly jealous people can be really overwhelming.
You will feel trapped inside the relationship and it will eventually make you unhappy.
Jealousy is one of the main characteristics of an emotionally immature man; he just doesn’t trust him and therefore doesn’t trust you.
Making you jealous really feels immaturity. A mature and confident man would never resort to such unnecessary games.
9. He avoids all serious matters
In general, immature men do not have real communication skills.
Everything is fun and playful and the conversation goes smoothly until the subjects get a little more serious.
He cannot handle an open and honest conversation. If he doesn’t want to listen to you, how will he know what’s going on in your head?
How will he know that something is bothering you? Or even how will you know something is bothering him if he doesn’t talk about it?
The truth is, he won’t know it, and neither can you.
Communication is the key to a good relationship and that is what keeps it alive and improves it, especially when it comes to a romantic relationship.
Unfortunately, he’s too immature to know – that’s why your relationship will be stagnant and never change.
10. He never takes responsibility for anything
He is never to be held guilty and his way of doing things is always the right one.
A man who does not take responsibility for his actions and who cannot listen to or recognize the opinions of others is downright immature.
With him there will be no future. He far prefers to play the victim rather than admitting that he did something wrong.
Everything will always be your fault and you will be to blame.
An immature man will never admit that he did something wrong and you will almost never hear him say, “I’m sorry.”