Engaging in a relationship is only one piece of the puzzle. To make it last and keep a man interested in a relationship is something else entirely.
No, you don’t have to change yourself completely (unless you feel the need), pretend to be someone you aren’t, or bend over backwards to make him happy.
There is no need for tactics and mind games. It could do more harm than good.
There are much simpler and more effective things that will make your man stick to you like glue. If you want to know more, keep reading.
There are a few secrets that might be useful to us and shed some light on the way of thinking of men, because no matter how often we hear that they are simple creatures, they have the gift to complicate things.
So, let’s start:
1. Make her want to be part of your life
The first relationship rule should be: Have a life outside of your relationship!
Most often, women in love leave their desires, their dreams, their hobbies, their friends and their aspirations, making man the center of their universe. In itself, this is the recipe for disaster.
By neglecting yourself, you will make a man do the exact same thing.
If you are constantly listening to him, and you live your life to please him, he will take it for granted and will not be able to appreciate it.
You have to know how to spend a lot of time with your spouse, but that doesn’t mean devoting your life to them.
Create a life of which you are proud. Take time for your friends, try something new and cultivate the old things you love.
This will allow him to appreciate you more and he will make efforts to be part of your amazing life.
2. Be confident (or at least try harder to be)
Yes, I know it’s a cliché, but that doesn’t make it any less true. Confidence and self-esteem are the keys to transforming your life into paradise and making it stick to you like glue.
Men have a sixth sense when it comes to self-esteem. They can feel it and they find it to be one of the greatest feminine virtues.
To see a woman who has her feet on the ground, who knows what she is worth and who is not afraid to show her off is extremely attractive.
Self-confident women are arrogant, playful, playful, attractive and easy to get along with, so that confidence becomes their main tool of seduction.
So if you miss in this area, do something to improve your self-confidence to ensure a better relationship.
3. If you relax a little, you will get better results.
It is as if something is incorporated into our female DNA that makes us strive hard to get the attention of another person.
We give too much, we care too much, we try too hard, and sooner or later it falls on us.
What we have to do is meet someone halfway. Make equal efforts.
Stop pushing, pulling and forcing; rather, let things evolve naturally. It’s simple, right?
4. Let go of it a bit from time to time
Understand that the male brain works differently from the female brain and that you may have disagreements.
Your logic is different and you won’t be able to see things the same way all the time.
Remember that it is not necessary to repair all wrongs. Choose your battles wisely and defend the things that are important to you.
Don’t allow arguments to break out over little things like the raised toilet bowl or taking out the trash; it is not all worth spending your energy.
5. Be playful (literally)
The truth is that – without wanting to offend those who accidentally come across this – men are sometimes like twelve-year-old boys wrapped in the body of an adult man.
They play video games, get involved in an activity or embark on a whole new hobby that has absolutely no meaning for you, unexpectedly, and you stay there, without knowing how to act.
The best thing to do is play the game, find common interests in all of this, or things to keep you busy while he pursues his childhood dreams.
Annoying him will only ruin everything – playing the game is much better.
6. Compliment her
Even though most men would never admit it, they love compliments. They want to know what you think and how you perceive it.
They want to know that they can seduce you with a simple smile, no matter how long you have known each other.
So compliment him, tell him that he’s cute, sweet, sexy, and everything you really think about at the time.
Do not hold back. Contrary to belief, men need affection and attention as much as women.
Another useful tip that will work for both of you is to be thankful and let him know when you appreciate something he has done.
No matter if he just took out the trash, it means you won’t have to! Tell him he’s great; it doesn’t cost you anything, but it will mean a lot to him.
7. Kisses, hugs and tenderness
Physical touch is important, even on days when you’re not in the mood for sex. It creates attachment with a sense of security and belonging.
It is intimacy carried to a higher level and it is important to maintain it.
So don’t let your daily obligations keep you from kissing often, hugging and cuddling until you fall asleep in front of the TV after a tiring day.
8. Shake things up a bit
The rut is large – it’s known and comfortable – but it can easily get boring and separate you from each other.
So be sure to shake things up a bit by introducing something new.
Organize a date, make him a joke, buy sexy lingerie.
From time to time, the change will be like a breath of fresh air that will make your relationship fun and remind you of why you fell in love at first.
9. Make sure he knows that you believe in him and that you support him
Be his support system. Tell him to take a risk if you think he’s on the right track.
Make sure he knows that even if he fails in something, you will be there.
He will never ask for your support, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t need it. He just thinks it’s not manly to ask.
By doing these 9 simple things, you build your friendship and create a more intimate relationship with your spouse. You get closer physically and mentally to him.
He will naturally want to be with you more often, confide in you and spend quality time with you.
He will never want to leave you too long because he will enjoy your company so much.
Most often, we forget the little things in life that make the difference.