When a man cares about you, he acts so. He will have no trouble committing to you or giving your relationship a name.
He will have no trouble being clear about his feelings and he will make sure to show them to you in one way or another.
When a man loves you, he will tell you so.
He makes sure that you know you can always count on him, he works hard to gain your trust and he does everything in his power to show you that he is a reliable, mature man, worthy of you.
When a man cares about you, he makes an effort. He strives to prove his love and he does his best to make your relationship work.
He’s fighting with all his might to make it work and he doesn’t even think of abandoning you.
When a man loves you, he puts you first and gives you the place you deserve in his life.
He is never too busy to see or listen to you, his friends are never more important than you and he would never choose to be single rather than be with you.
He never makes you doubt his loyalty or loyalty and he would never choose temporary stories over long-term love.
When a man cares about you, he is stable about it. He doesn’t change his mind every day and he never makes you doubt his feelings.
He doesn’t make you doubt his intentions and you are always sure of his love.
There is no drama, no meaning hidden behind his words, no contradictory signals and no mind games.
He doesn’t look mysterious, he doesn’t force you to chase after him, and he’s not emotionally unavailable.
I know you don’t want to hear any of this. And you would like to find an excuse for your boyfriend’s behavior.
However, I also know that deep inside you know the truth very well.
Basically, you know that the things between the two of you are not at all complicated – and that it’s just an asshole who takes you by boat and who doesn’t love you enough.
Basically, you know it’s not the wrong time and he doesn’t need you to be patient for him to regain his senses.
You know very well that he is lying when he says that he is not good enough for you and when he says that the only reason he does not want to formalize things is so that you can find someone better.
When he promises that he will change and that things will be different in no time.
You know he only calls you when he needs you, not because you’re the only one he trusts, but because you’re the only one who hasn’t turned his back on you.
That her stuffed late-night texts are actually nothing more than an asshole, even if you always tell yourself that they are a sign of her hidden love for you.
Most importantly, you know you deserve better and more than that .
You know this relationship will never become a real relationship, you know this guy is an asshole who will never give you what you need and you know things will go on like this for as long as you allow.
You know very well that this man will continue to leave you when he gets tired of you and that he will come back each time he realizes that no one will ever love him like you.
He will never come to his senses and he will never be the one to end things.
You know that you will be trapped in this toxic and endless relationship until you regain your strength, look the truth directly in the eye, and turn your back on it.
You have to be the one going if you want to be able to turn the page.
You know very well that you have done your best and that you have done everything you can to make things better between the two of you.
You know there is no point in saving your poor ass and that, to change, it is time that you start to save yourself.