Love is not complicated. When we really love someone, it comes naturally to us to show our feelings and to fight for that person no matter what.
It naturally comes to our mind to make it our priority because we cannot imagine our life without it.
But when you don’t like someone, you do exactly the opposite. We treat them as we see fit because we don’t care about their feelings.
We keep them waiting because we don’t care about their time.
Let there be one thing clear: if he really likes you, he will make sure you know!
Yep. It’s that simple. If he really loved you, he would never have made you question his intentions and you wouldn’t have to think about a single little thing.
If he really loved you, he would not just have said it, he would have proved it to you by acting.
And therein lies the greatest difference between a love that is true and one that is not.
When we love someone, we don’t wait to tell them how much we appreciate their existence and everything they do for us.
When we love someone, we show them with our gestures and not just with words.
If he really loved you, he would have fought not to lose you.
When you believe in something, you fight with all your heart and all your being to get there.
If he really loved you, he would have found a way to make you feel special and to conquer you. And he would have found a way to keep you.
So do not imagine things or make excuses for his behavior, thinking that you are responsible!
You were there for him, but he didn’t want to see or appreciate him. He was not ready for love because he was unable to love. He never loved you.
And you weren’t in love with him either. You were in love with this idea of him. You hoped he would change and start noticing your efforts, but he didn’t.
You hoped that one day you would wake up, and that he would be there next to you, holding a flower in his hand, waiting to put it in your hair.
But, he never did! And do you know why ? Because he never loved you. I know it’s hard to accept, but it’s the only way out of this impasse.
You were expecting him to show you what true love is, but instead, he was only able to show you what love is not.
And it wasn’t your fault that you thought something was going to change.
You did the right thing. You waited, but he never came to his senses.
You were there, but he never bothered to do the same. He feasted on your pure love, while giving you crumbs of his toxic love.
And now it’s time to let go! It is time to let go of the idea that he loved you or that he would be able to because he is not and never will be. And do you know why?
Because he doesn’t understand what it’s like to love someone and who spits in your face.
He does not understand what it is to treat someone as his priority when we know that for this person, we are only an option.
If he truly loved you, he would understand it all and beyond. If he really loved you, he would never have made you cry or curse the day you met him.
If he really loved you, he would have knocked on your door and waited for hours if necessary, only to tell you that he is sorry for all he did to you and to express his indefinite love for you.
But he did not do it. He didn’t do it because he didn’t care whether you felt loved or not.
He thought only of himself and his wishes. And now it’s time for you to think about yourself!
It is time for you to focus on your own happiness and not just on the happiness of those who do not deserve your attention.
It is time for you to accept the fact that it was never intended to stay because it was simply incapable of loving you, and it was only a test to prepare you for something bigger and better.
Your bad choices don’t define you! They enrich your life and teach you valuable lessons, but they never define you.
You are a beautiful and strong woman who has gone through a lot and who deserves much better treatment than the one you had chosen.
You settle for less then deserve the moon and the stars.
You accept the lies then you deserve the pure truth.
You gave him your heart even if you knew he would break it.
And now it’s time to do it all backward. It is time to stop dwelling on the past because nothing can change it.
Your life will not change until you decide to.
Your life will change when you start to accept only the finest things it offers.
It will change when you start to accept a love that inspires you instead of a mediocre one.
Start changing it. Be the change even!