I do not know what kind of girl you are used to and I do not intend to convince you that I am a unique and delicate flower, but the truth is that I am looking for things that are probably not ordinary in today’s world.
You see, I’m not the type of girl to have a night out.
Not the kind of girl looking for trivial adventures or short stories.
Not the kind of girl you can grab in a bar with no future.
Don’t get me wrong – I have nothing against those who do this kind of thing, and in no way do I consider myself above these people, but it’s just not my thing.
No, this is not a strategy for you to fall even more in love with me.
It’s not that I’m being tough or pretending to be different just to stand out from the crowd.
The point is, honestly, I get attached easily and the last thing I need is a guy who’s just passing through my life to break my heart.
I don’t care what is in relationships today – you may consider me old fashioned, but I’m not looking for something temporary and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
I just don’t intend to waste my time on a doomed relationship.
So if you intend to enter my life with an exit strategy already planned, do not do it!
If you plan to make me fall in love just to leave me, please don’t do it.
If you intend to invest yourself halfway and not give yourself entirely to this relationship, do not try anything with me from the start.
Call me a great romantic, but the truth is that I believe in love.
I believe in true and unconditional love that lasts a lifetime. And nothing less than that interests me.
I won’t settle for a guy who doesn’t know what he wants or an immature boy who doesn’t know how to make up his mind, a selfish asshole who is incapable of loving and who will end up killing my mind.
I’m not saying that our relationship must necessarily last until death do us part, but I’m just saying that I don’t want to start something that has a predetermined expiration date .
So please don’t come into my life except to stay.
Don’t come near me if you don’t believe in love. If you are not looking for someone to last and if you are not looking for a happy ending .
Do not seduce me if you are not looking for something special, something real and lasting.
Don’t go out with me if you can’t commit, if you can’t be faithful and dedicated.
Don’t do it if you plan to make me walk and play games with me.
If you just need someone to get you through the day or if you need a plan B until your ex or someone better comes.
Don’t come into my life if you’re gonna break my heart and leave me like that.
If you plan to leave irreparable scars and wounds on my soul.
If it will take me years to recover from the damage you have caused and if you will change me forever.
Don’t do it if you want to make me a negative person because I’m anything but that. Don’t do it if you kill my faith in love and my trust in people.
Don’t come into my life if you expect me to run after you or beg you for your love and care. If you will leave me in the dark through difficult days.
I don’t know – maybe I ask too much and maybe I will never find the man I am looking for.
However, I prefer to remain single rather than being in a relationship without love or with a man who cannot give me what I want, what I need and what I deserve.
At least I’m honest from the start, and the least you can do is do the same.
So if you think I’m too difficult to handle, or if you think I’m not worth it, go before it’s too late.
Save us unnecessary trouble and don’t waste our time together.