Infidelity is something we all hate and try to avoid at all costs so here are some signs to look for before you get attached to someone and suffer from it.

1. It’s strange when it comes to past relationships

He is full of hatred towards his exes and he refuses to talk about his past relationships. Maybe it’s because he was the “bad guy” and not them. In order to keep you close to him and prevent you from running away, he hides his past relationships from you.

2. All of his exes hate him

One or two girls hating their ex can happen, but if each of them hates it, it’s for good reason. To be hated, you really have to do anything.

A girl doesn’t come to hate someone because he didn’t want the same things she does, she comes to hate someone because he cheated on her and was shady.

3. He is jealous

He is jealous because he knows men, because he is one of them. He knows that men take advantage of women, since that is what he does himself. He’s not protective or cute, he just wants to make sure you only have him (although he has other daughters).

4. He “forgets” to invite you to parties

Or he says that you are going to be bored or that it is an evening between guys. A boy who really appreciates you or is “normal” will want to be in your company all the time.

Whether it’s a boring event or just an evening with colleagues, he will want everyone to get to know you and introduce you to his world. A fishy guy doesn’t want you around because he wants to be free to “charm” other women.

5. He’s a commitment-phobic

Do not trust a man that you have to lasso him so that he engages with you. If he is afraid to commit, it may be that he is doing anything or plans to do the same and it is easier then not to feel like a finished b**stard if you do not are not exclusive.

6. He needs – too much – privacy

He always keeps his phone with him, he never gives you details about his day or his week and you generally have no idea what he does when you are not together.

He asks you to respect his privacy or he leaves for almost the whole day as soon as you try to speak to him. What is the point of doing this if you have nothing to hide?

7. He’s a self-centered narcissist

Everything revolves around him, his needs, his feelings. He sincerely believes that the earth revolves around him, not around the sun.

Often self-centered people do not take responsibility for their actions, including cheating on their partner. He did it only out of need, so what’s the problem?

8. He lies

The little lies get bigger and bigger. If his stories don’t stand up or if you catch him lying (no matter how big the lie) and he refuses to admit it, he may have very big problems. What then could prevent him from lying about his “night activities”?