If you feel that your energy and well-being are being stolen from you, stay away from those who do not bring you anything in your life. Although this can be problematic and difficult at times, you need to learn to look within yourself before meeting other people’s needs.
It is best to distance yourself from people who have stopped bringing things into your life and who today are not bringing you anything.
There are those who started by giving you energy but then wanted to absorb it.
They are sometimes called toxic people, or emotional vampires. What is certain is that these people are not doing you any good, and you feel like you have to walk away, but something is preventing you from doing it.
What is that?
But not all relationships have to last forever. And sometimes the best thing to do is take a step back. And give you a chance to breathe.
pretty Little Liars
Sometimes it is better to stay away from people who do not bring you anything:
Stay away from those who want to manipulate you
There are those who, once you try to walk away from it, start saying things to you that hurt you tremendously. Like for example, “You are an ungrateful person”, “Without me, today you would be nothing”, “Is that how you thank me afterwards for everything I have done for you?” “
All of these phrases hurt you and instill doubt in you, but you should know that those who say these words to you are trying to manipulate you.
A person who really loves you, who appreciates you would never talk to you that way. He would respect you and your decision.
You have every right to stay away from people who no longer suit you. Relationships change, so do individuals, and that doesn’t have to be a bad thing, as it can expose how the people around you operate.
Stay away from those who suck energy from you and who, when they have nothing more to take, disappear. Stay away from those who smile at you in front, but criticize you from behind.
Even if these people try to make you believe otherwise, even if you doubt yourself and your behavior, don’t let people make you feel guilty.
When there are more bad times than good in a relationship, the moment you feel uncomfortable, it is essential to put a distance.
We move away pleasantly from people who need to blame everything.
Quote from Anne Barratin; Along the way (1894)
Closing chapters hurts, but sometimes it’s essential
There are romantic relationships that we would like to see transformed into friendships. Sometimes that happens and it is very satisfying. But what if you try and see that it doesn’t work for you?
As a spouse, the other brought you something, but today nothing more. Someone has to motivate you, make you want to stick with them. She must feel that she enriches you.
If when you are with someone you don’t feel any of this and even worse, you think you would feel better if they weren’t there, why continue to be by their side?
You are not having an honest friendship relationship. It is complicated to close chapters because it hurts. The person was important and will remain important to us.
However, even if you see it as something negative, it is not entirely true. Closing chapters opens others and these will be even more rewarding for you.
Don’t be someone paralyzed by fear, unease, or beliefs about relationships. If you feel like you need to step back, do it.
Sometimes it’s better to take some distance and move away so you can grow taller
Sometimes we do not feel good in a relationship, and there are only conflicts, which do not bring us anything … But we continue together anyway.
We don’t realize that sometimes we have to step back in order to grow. Maybe we don’t bring each other anything because we are looking in the other for what we don’t have in us.
These are the relationships of dependence, in which without the other we feel empty. We are not able to feel happy if the other is not by our side.
In this case, there are complaints if the other does not meet our needs.
Getting away is essential for growing as an individual, and in the future, if feasible, try again in a much more rewarding way.
Stay away from people who have stopped bringing you or who are only bringing you conflict and bad times. Sometimes it can be an opportunity to grow or take the path you should have chosen from the start.
Don’t be afraid to take some distance to get away from people.