A person likes you if they pull an eyelash off your face or wet a towel to clean a crumb on the corner of your mouth. You didn’t ask for anything, she just acted on her own. She doesn’t want you to look silly with eyelashes and crumbs all over your face. This person notices these little things because they are really looking at you.
A person loves you if they take care of you when you are sick. Not sure if someone really cares about you? Pretend you have poisoning and send her messages like, “I’m so sick. I need water. Depending on their reaction, you will know whether the person really cares about you or not.
It’s easy to hold on to someone when they don’t need you. It is easy to love him when he is in good health and does not need anything. When you’re sick, it’s different. Being sick is asking someone to hold your hair when you vomit.
A person likes you if they let you know when you are going too far.
She knows you well enough and cares enough about you to tell you to relax, blame you, and tell you to stop. She doesn’t watch your life passively, she has an opinion about your decisions and the things you say and do. She wants to be part of it and wants to be part of you.
A person loves you if they don’t mind going shopping with you or cleaning your apartment while listening to annoying music. There is no pressure, no need to fill in the gaps. With some friends, you need something to keep both of you busy to make sure there won’t be a void. It’s not love. It’s such a dream to find someone you can do nothing with. Whether you go skydiving together or stay at home and do different things, you’re always comfortable. That’s love.
A person loves you if they want you to be happy, even if it involves something that doesn’t benefit them.
A person likes you if they can order food for you without you saying what you want. A person likes you if they rub your back at some point. She loves you if she doesn’t care about your job or your salary. It’s a relationship where no one is selling something to the other.
Never underestimate the gift of understanding. There are so many people out there who are selfish and take relationships as something that absolutely must benefit them.
There is always someone who will love you. If you believe that is not true, take a better look around.