6 things a loyal person would never allow themselves to do as a couple
Everyone makes mistakes in life, that’s okay, but it’s when we hurt the person who loves us the most, we cross the line.
Here are 6 things a good person won’t do in a relationship with someone they say they really love.
1. AVOID TALKING ABOUT IMPORTANT TOPICS
For a relationship to work, there needs to be a strong line of communication. If the person flees at the mere mention of an important topic that needs to be addressed, that is an immediate red flag. It shows an obvious lack of reliability and there is absolutely no place for it in dating and especially not in a marriage. If the person is too afraid to talk about the important things, it’s time to move on.
2. INVADE PRIVACY
Invading your partner’s privacy is an act that shows a lack of trust. Someone who is genuinely nice will never search your phone, your computer, or try to listen to your phone calls. A relationship without trust is not a relationship, much less a healthy one.
3. CHECK
Neither person in a relationship should control the person they say they love. A good person will never watch the time you spend in the store. He won’t feel the need to delegate who you can hang out with or what you can do on a day-to-day basis. This kind of behavior is unacceptable and a precursor to what lies ahead. Run while you still can.
4. INFIDELITY
The number one cause of divorce in many countries is infidelity. Whether the person is mentally or physically cheating does not matter. It is a betrayal of the heart and all that is dear to a couple. A good person will never cheat on their partner, because it is just not in their nature to do so.
5. ABUSE
It doesn’t matter whether it’s mental or physical abuse, it’s insanely bad and illegal for obvious reasons. A good person will never lift a hand on his / her partner in a violent way. Verbal and mental abuse are just as bad and leave scars that no one can see but the pain never goes away. No one deserves this kind of relationship.
6. PUSHING YOURSELF TO FAILURE
A good person will never want you to miss everything you do in life. The right partners encourage success and even help you along the way. Support is needed in any healthy relationship, otherwise, it will render the relationship worthless.
No one is perfect, but exhibiting any of these behaviors on a regular basis is a clear sign that you cannot have a healthy relationship with that person. Find someone who loves you, respects you, gets you involved in their life, and who only wants what’s best for you.
