We women often ask ourselves: how to make my boyfriend miss me? Especially when we feel that we are no longer the center of their attention or interest. If you want some infallible tips, keep reading our article … how to make a man think of you and look for you?
Here are 14 effective ways to make your boyfriend miss you and think of you all the time.
1. Don’t be available 24/7
The first thing to do is stop to breathe for a moment, relax, and avoid looking desperate to get that attention back.
How to make my boyfriend miss me if we are together all the time? Have you ever thought about it?
If you dedicate absolutely all your available time to him, it is very likely that in the end, it will start to feel like something “safe”, something that is always there. You don’t miss the people you see all the time either, do you?
This does not mean that I do not love you. But in any relationship, it is necessary that the parties have spaces to do their things, develop their projects and see their friends.
The objective is not that he wants to be close to you 24 hours a day, but that they see each other with pleasure and desire, also that they have experiences, stories, and news to share.
So point number one: don’t try to spend all your spare time hanging out with him. And point number two: don’t accept all their invitations either.
2. Go out with your friends
Just as it is important to give time to your relationship with your partner, you must make space in your agenda for your friends. And yes, that sometimes means stopping seeing your boyfriend and there is nothing wrong with it.
Going out with friends is good for you because they give you a feminine point of view that is good for all women. But having male friends also has its advantages, starting with the fact that it allows you to gauge their confidence level.
Without having to be unfaithful or disloyal, you also send your boy the message that he is not the only man in your life and that, if he is careless and stops procuring you, surely another boy will be able to conquer you with his attentions.
3. Post the good things in your life on social media
Don’t make the mistake of using social media to complain and post only the negative things in your life. On the contrary, try to make them a reflection of the good things that happen to you and the wonderful person you are.
Remember that, in some way, every news of yours that your boy watches on social networks is equivalent to some kind of contact. And to make him miss you all the time, you have to make all the contacts positive.
If you publish (for example) that you are in a bad way or very aggressive things, he will think that it is not the best time to look for you and deep down he will begin to think that you are somewhat conflictive.
Also, don’t post every five minutes. If you show everything that happens to you on social networks, you eliminate the mystery factor and the curiosity that he may have of calling you at night to ask how you were during the day.
4. Don’t answer their messages or calls right away
If you do this, you send a dangerous message: that you are glued to the phone all day. A person who is watching every minute of his cell phone tells the world that he has nothing more interesting to do.
This causes others to lose interest, either consciously or unconsciously. On the contrary, every second that you make him wait for an answer, you will have him thinking of you.
Nor is it that you take three days to answer. Just do your things in the normal way and, when you have a free moment, answer your messages; Instead of just answering messages and doing your thing only when no one is looking for you on the phone.
5. Put on your favorite perfume whenever you see it
The smell is the sense with the most evocative power that we have. It is easier to remember what someone made us feel through their smell than through an image or even a phone call.
To leave a strong olfactory impression on him, choose a very special perfume and wear the same whenever you go out. Thus, a firm neural pathway of association will be created in his brain and he will remember you intensely every time something evokes your aroma.
It doesn’t hurt that you “accidentally” leave your scarf or sweater in your car.
6. Make sure every moment together is incredible
The easiest way for your boyfriend to miss you outrageously is to make it clear that even though you’re not available all the time, every moment you spend together is unique, fun, and positive.
Always prefer quality over quantity. Decline invitations out of inertia and to old places, and make sure to do new or interesting things when you see each other. Also, try to project the best version of yourself.
This includes not only looking spectacular, but also avoiding arguments, baseless fights, and especially scenes of jealousy.
7. Have original details when they are not expected
The best combination to have 100% of a man’s attention is to stay “warm” with him most of the time, but occasionally to have super significant and romantic details.
Don’t pester him with messages every five minutes. Instead, keep busy all week but when you least expect it, drop off lunch in the office or in the classroom.
8. Getaway for a weekend with your friends
A perfect way to get away from your boyfriend without missing him, but he does miss you, is to organize a weekend outing with your friends.
While you are having fun on the beach, on a road trip or in a magical town near your city, he will be thinking more and more of you, especially if they usually spend those days together.
In addition, he will find that you have other options to have a good time, which will motivate him to try a little more.
9. Don’t be upset if he goes out with his friends
Obviously, all healthy relationships require us to invest time and attention in them. But if your boy wants to go out with his friends from time to time, instead of spending it with you, the world is not ending and it is not the best idea to create a drama about it.
The best thing you can do is take advantage of the fact that you have an afternoon or a night off to do something different and that you like. It doesn’t matter if it’s staying for a home beauty session or going out to girl’s karaoke.
Remember: it is important to send the message that you want it, but you don’t need it.
10. Invest in yourself
The more confident and content with yourself you are, the more attractive you will be to others. Invest time and resources in yourself whenever possible.
Groom yourself how you like it, not how you think others would like it. Do a sport that you are passionate about and fill you with energy. Go after your own style and not the one that is fashionable.
To make your boyfriend admire you more and think of you, the solution is not that you try to please him, but that you are always trying to please yourself, no matter what others think or do.
11. Never lose the mystery and suspense
On the one hand, trust and open communication in the couple are everything. But on the other hand, sometimes a bit of mystery and suspense goes a long way to sustaining attention and interest.
It is not about hiding anything, rather it has to do with not telling EVERYTHING of your life and your past right off the bat. Let him little by little gain the right to know you more thoroughly. Don’t give him everything about you on a “silver tray.”
12. Be independent
One element that immediately and sustainably triggers a man’s interest is the realization that a girl doesn’t really need him, much less depends on him in any way.
If he thinks it is your only chance to have a good time, feel loved, or simply have a partner, he will assume that you will always be there, try hard or not.
Let him see that you are enough yourself to be happy. Not with words, but with actions. I mean, it genuinely doesn’t affect you that he’s not by your side all the time. That will immediately make him want to spend more time with you.
13. Speak well of your past relationships
Your ex may not have been the best person in the world, but (believe it or not) speaking ill of your past relationships can make your current boyfriend less interested in keeping you happy.
This is because you send the message that your old partners were so bad that he doesn’t even need to try to be the best thing that ever happened to you.
Better talk only about the good. This way, he will know that your partner’s standard is high and will constantly try to measure up. The ghost of a “good ex” can do a lot for you.
14. Fulfill your craziest fantasies
This may sound a bit obvious, but it doesn’t hurt to mention it. Take off your modesty and surprise him in bed. Dare to fulfill a fantasy.
Make it clear that you are one of those loyal, independent, and daring girls in bed, and you will be the center of his attention permanently.