There is a closely guarded evolutionary secret that can help you understand how to attract men and make them want you instantly. And that secret we are going to tell you right now.
The science of attraction between the genders, complicated as it may seem, can actually be explained in some very simple lines.
Girls are more easily attracted to guys who look healthy and stress-free and who have a level of testosterone that makes them look and act more masculine.
Also, all the physiological signs of being a good provider and protector make your good prospects to be husbands and fathers.
Boys, on the other hand, are more easily attracted to girls based on their appearance or behavior. But that is not enough.
To truly understand how to attract a man and how his mind works, we need to dig a little deeper into the concept of attraction from a male point of view.
How to attract a man in an irresistible way?
A guy can like a girl for a number of different reasons. But when it comes to physical attraction at first glance, your appearance and behavior matter more than anything else.
So if you want to attract a man and make him truly want you, you just need to get his attention in the right way, and the rest, as they say, is history!
You have to take this into account: love and attraction are two completely different things. A man can find you extremely attractive, and yet never fall in love with you for various reasons.
But for love to flourish in the first place, you need to build a physical attraction first to make him fall in love with you. It is the most efficient way to ensure that you are going to fall in love and will stay that way for a long time.
Attraction: how a man sees a woman’s body
As we already know that physical attraction plays a very important role when falling in love with a boy, you need to understand what his mind tells him when he looks at you.
When a man looks at the physical attributes of a girl, he is unconsciously looking beyond your br**asts or your bu**t. The right bends in the right places tell a boy that a woman is fertile and at an ideal age for childbearing.
Besides that, he looks healthy and is a good prospect to perpetuate his genetic footprint in the world. Also, a body with female curves indicates that there are enough reserves to feed the young.
A man may think that a girl simply likes him, even though he has no intention of marrying and having children with her. But his reptilian brain is telling him that this is where he wants to deposit his genes.
Testosterone and men’s preferences
All men make testosterone and women also produce a small amount of testosterone in the ovaries.
The more testosterone a man produces, the more manly he looks and the more physically attractive he is. His facial features appear rougher and more angular, his jaws are wider, his musculature is more obvious, and his voice is deeper.
Many studies have shown that the more masculine a man is, the more attracted he will be to women who are more feminine.
On the other hand, a small percentage of men who produce less testosterone than normal may be more attracted to women who are less feminine and more dominant (controlling) in the context of a relationship.
So if you are trying to capture the attention of a typical guy, consider that most men have normal or high testosterone levels and the best bet is that you look and behave in the most feminine way possible.
The perfect woman for the real man: she is cute and sensual
A regular man who does not suffer from low testosterone will always find a feminine woman more attractive than a woman who thinks femininity is overrated and continually displays attitudes and behaviors that are traditionally considered masculine.
While the physical appearance of women is their greatest sign of femininity, it also helps a lot that they display more tender and feminine behaviors. And I don’t mean they put on a pink dress and have a chihuahua in the bag.
But there are always other great ways to look prettier and get a guy to look at you a second and a third time.
Why do men like pretty girls?
Men have always been the most aggressive of the genders of the human species. They are usually the ones who stretch their legs, stand up straight and project their chest trying to appear aggressive all the time.
More when they are in the middle of an argument or when they meet someone whom they somehow see as a threat.
But a cute and tender girl changes everything. When a woman behaves in a feminine and cute way, it brings out a man’s protective instincts.
Instead of feeling threatened by a girly girl, he feels the need to protect her. This makes him feel more masculine, and that is something that men love to feel.
When a girl reveals her vulnerable side, it is very difficult for any guy to ignore her or not notice that vulnerability. Instead, the protective instinct appears, which begins to create an emotional bond with her.
Instantly, your mind connects with your vulnerability and eliminates thoughts of any kind that cause you to be aggressive …
He feels a great need to be close to her, and consciously or unconsciously, he does everything he can to make her feel protected. He loses his aggressive and defensive stances, his voice becomes softer, and his shoulders drop toward her instead of widening.
And before you even take a second look at the things that appeal to you, you’ll find that you already like it quite a bit.
Feminine characteristics that drive men crazy
Many girls are against the idea of being feminine or behaving in cute and cuddly ways. They may come to think that behaving like this is a sign of weakness.
They are offended that men like tender, docile women much more than they like aggressive girls with manly features. And the truth is that they are right. There is absolutely no reason why you should be forced to behave like this.
But if you want to attract the type of man we are describing, that will be a move in your favor, it is that simple.
If you’re already girly, you really don’t have to try too hard to be cute. But you can always find out which traits of cuteness and vulnerability are going to drive that particular guy you like crazy.
To better understand this type of behavior, all you need is to interact with a couple of Japanese or Thai girls whose behavior is not yet influenced by Western customs.
They are not being childish or silly, and they are not trying to attract men with pink ruffles. All they have to do is exploit what makes them different: their grace and their femininity.
No guy with high testosterone levels is able to resist the charm of a sweet Asian girl when he is having a conversation with her. Everything that emanates from her makes her look more beautiful and feminine.
From the way she insists on taking care of how she dresses, her subtle makeup, the way she smells of perfume, her kind words, and that unconscious blink that makes her irresistible.
Femininity is something that comes naturally to many women. Not just Asian girls. But for those who don’t, it is an art worth learning, for sheer practicality.
If you want to know how to attract men, all you need to do is exude your feminine side while talking to them. And once you try, you will know what I am talking about and you will realize that I am right.
And remember, a pretty girl who shows off her feminine side will always have an advantage over other girls if she’s trying to get the attention of a man with a lot of testosterone.
How to exploit your feminine side naturally
Femininity is something that comes naturally. But cuteness has to be built by the way you carry yourself. There are many subtle and simple ways with which you can look much prettier and cuter.
If you are dating or would like to date a guy who appreciates women who are in intimate contact with their feminine side, here are some tips for you:
1.- Use soft colors
Dress in soft or pastel shades, like peach or lavender. These shades will give your skin a look of glowing health while instantly making you look warm and cute.
2.- Smile frequently
Just by smiling, you make your face look friendlier. You also project happiness and men love positive girls.
3.- Play with your hair
Playfully run your fingers through your hair. It always works with all the guys.
4.- Bow your face
Just as when we take selfies we always try to do it from the most flattering angle, the same with men. Use that tender angle that enlarges your eyes and graces your features.
They are very simple things that you do not lose anything trying and also do not have to go against your feminine ideology of equality.