When you like a guy, what you want the most is for him to show genuine interest in you, to seek you out, and for you to feel that he really cares about you.
However, in many cases it happens completely the other way around, who shows interest, invests time, money, and energy in getting his attention is you and he seems not to notice it or does not care about all the effort you make.
Tired of that feeling? This time I will show you how to make a man look for you and drive him crazy with simple tips.
1. Don’t seem needy
Those men like to feel they won the lottery with the girl who had the side, they like to feel fortunate to have been able to conquer it.
But if you show that you are in need of affection or affection, your boy may think that you could be reached by any man when it really is not like that, however, it is the hidden message that many times we send even without realizing it.
Show that you are an independent woman, happy and in pleasure with your life, that if a man knocks on your door you can share your happiness but that you do not depend on anyone to get ahead.
2. Be nice and smiling
Men love to laugh and have a carefree time, if a guy asks you out it is because he wants to have fun with you, try to laugh at his jokes and learn a couple of good jokes to share at the right time.
Men, even if they do not express it openly, have a great fear of girls who are screaming, bitter or who project that their life is extremely boring.
They may date such a girl for the first date, but I guarantee there would be no second meeting, so try to be yourself, worry-free and go out with one purpose: to have fun!
3. Take care of your physique
Men are mostly shallow, don’t judge or blame them for it, they naturally react to a girl’s cute physique.
That is why you must enhance your attributes, put on makeup, take care of your clothes, fix your hair and take care of your physique, practice a sport or go for a run in the afternoon, regardless that you will automatically be irresistible to any man.
The fact of being groomed and with a good physique will fill you with security, it will empower you and will be of great help to stay healthy.
4. Leave him wanting more
When they are at the peak of the date, withdraw unexpectedly or when he calls you on the phone and they are in the best moment of the conversation, tell him that you have to leave him.
This will cause in him a feeling of emptiness and he will be left wanting to have been with you longer, consequently, he will call you again or ask you out to conclude that appointment or that talk that they left halfway.
5. Give yourself the respect
Respecting yourself does not go out of style, no matter that we are in the 21st century and have overcome the harsh era of women’s liberation.
When a man discovers a woman who respects herself, takes care of her, her integrity, and her convictions, he is immediately attracted to her.
Respecting yourself means taking care of some aspects, such as not sleeping with him on the first night, otherwise, he might think that you do the same on each of your dates and that you are an “easy” girl when in reality you are not…
Try to hold back the urge to be with him for at least the first month.
6. Be a good conversationalist
You must have something to talk about with him outside of the ordinary topics of the first date, learning to listen is part of being a good conversationalist too, that is if he talks to you about his favorite soccer team and how his performance has been in the last season.
Try to listen carefully, ask questions and tell him if you participated as a child in any team.
Your interest will show that you are a different girl and she will start to trust you quickly.
7. Eye contact + smile
These are the universal trigger for attraction and the combination of both is a guarantee of success if you know how to use them to your advantage.
It may be that they have gone out a few times or better yet to demonstrate the effectiveness of this technique that they have not even had a moment alone.
The first thing you should do is get his attention, look at him fixedly until he notices at this moment hold his gaze for 3 seconds smile at him and turn his face, from that moment you can continue your normal activities and it is only a matter of waiting for you he approaches you.
Your eye contact shows your power and your smile increases the level of attraction which will undoubtedly make him look for you at that moment.
8. Be attractive
Flirt with him as much as your personality allows, play with your hair, speak slower this will make your voice sound more sensual, walk with a unique style gently shaking your hips.
When he tells you something funny, make a delicate rose on his arm, taking advantage of the occasion, whisper something in his ear to gradually create more intimate moments.
Your body language transmits 3 times more than your verbal language, so pay close attention to your every move. If you can get his attention with your body he will look for your day and night.
9. Show him that there are guys after you
When you go to the mall and suddenly notice an uproar of girls “fighting” the same bag, this catches your attention and curiosity.
“Why are they fighting that bag when the store is full of other models?” and without an apparent explanation suddenly you find yourself fighting that same bag or at least you are left with the desire to have bought it.
The same thing happens with boys, when they notice that there is a boy or two who dispute your love, you create curiosity in him and he begins to pay more attention to you to discover what it is that makes you so special and the reason why you drive that crazy. pair.
This is a fantastic strategy since you believe in the need to get closer to you, get to know you and it happens exactly the same as in the previous example without realizing it, you will soon find yourself in the fight for your love.
This is a double-edged tool, you must use it very delicately and not spend most of your time bragging about the boys who are looking for you, as it could be counterproductive and would make you look like the typical heavy girl who thinks she fell from the sky.
Believe me, guys get bored with those kinds of people.
10. Make him a little jealous
Making a man looking for you, means in part making him feel jealous for you, but just a little bit this way he will call you and try to get to know you.
Do not feel guilty because the idea is not that you are cruel, it is simply to show him how valuable you are and that you are desirable for other boys as well.
You can make him a little jealous if he notices that you are talking with another boy or that someone else makes you laugh. Be very careful in this part.
Do not start flirting with how much boy is put in front of you because far from making him jealous you will make him feel that he has the battle lost with you and he will opt for a peaceful withdrawal, just show him that other boys fight for you and that he does not have the ground winning with you but if he has a chance.
No boy likes to lose, it is enough for him to know that he has a chance and he will start looking for you and fighting for you.
11. Dress attractively
Men are 100% visual, try to wear attractive clothes all the time, regardless of whether they are going out or not, it is enough for one of his friends to see you for him to find out how beautiful you looked that day.
There are times when you will have to dress more formally than others but this will not be an impediment for you to get the most out of it.
12. Make connections
To get a man to look for you, you must establish a physical, emotional, and intellectual connection, the physical connection is achieved by flirting with him, dressing conspicuously, the emotional connection when you awaken his interest in you, you make him a little jealous.
When you care about what he tells you and finally the intellectual connection showing that you are just as smart as you are pretty, regardless of whether their professions are different, they study different careers or if each one’s work is very different from each other.
You can always show that you are capable of maintaining an interesting conversation and that you can share topics that he may ignore while also always being willing to listen to the topics that he can share with you.
13. Make your life phenomenal
The fact of having an interesting life, a life in which you enjoy the simplest pleasures draws anyone’s attention, you will make that boy want to be part of your life, share each of those moments with you.
Regardless of whether you managed to get that boy to look for you, this is a positive change for your life since it does not matter who stays or who leaves because you will be able to stay happy without depending on anyone other than yourself.
14. Be patient
Remember that Rome was not made one day, you must wait calmly since not all boys act at the same speed.
There are boys more outgoing than others as well as some shyer than others, sometimes boys doubt the signals we send them, and until they make sure they have a chance is when they take action.
If you judiciously follow each of the tips described here, it is a guarantee that your boy will end up looking for you, also make sure that he is receiving the signals correctly.
15. Play with mixed signals
These consist of paying a lot of attention to your boy, flirting with him, looking at his lips from time to time, and from time to time diminishing that attention.
This in order to keep him intrigued and always alert to your movements, if you manage to use these signals to your advantage you will drive him crazy and he will become addicted to your attention and he will not stop looking for you.
16. Make your dates an unforgettable experience
Avoid at least for the first 5 dates going to a coffee, going to the movies, walking in the park, going for ice cream, avoid all those places that are typical on the first date, those places where they can only talk and talk.
Invite him to places where there is excitement such as: going to the fair, going skating, playing Gotcha, riding a horse, a balloon ride, etc.
Make the most of your creativity, what he wants is to have fun, have a good time, if you show him that you are a fun girl and out of the conventional he will not let you go.
17. Ask him to teach you something
Find out what his hobbies are and what activities he’s really good at, and ask him to teach himself, men like to feel like they are in control.
It is in this type of action where you will have to put a little more of your part because it may be that their hobbies are not your favorite activities, however, learning new things is always good and you will also make your boy feel special.
18. He will fall in love with you for who you are
Remember that you should not go through life pretending to be a person who you are not. When he decides to be with you, it will be because of what he saw in you.
Always act naturally and be yourself because if he decides to have a relationship with you and you pretended all the time soon the relationship will end because he will realize that you are not the personal one that he thought you were.
Follow these tips and see how he will not stop looking for you.