How to pretend to ignore a man to find you

Ignoring a man is the most effective procedure to make a man fall in love with you, men are extremely competitive and the more they are denied a thing or a person the more they want to have it.

You must ignore it in a subtle way so that it does not give up the war with you, using this technique is very efficient if you know how to apply it correctly, in this article you will learn how to do it with practical advice.

Making a man look for you with this strategy is fragile and you will have to find the right measure, you will not have to seem too disinterested or absolutely in love with him, you will have to find a balance point.

Physical appearance is essential, however, there are more essential things, a man can have a supermodel in front of him but if she begs him and makes an effort for him, he will not represent any challenge for him and he will end up being just one more.

1. Wait for the conversation to start

I understand that you are absolutely lost for him, that you are dying to tell him what you did the previous afternoon, tell him about your hobbies or just greet him with hope, that he continue with the talk.

However, this is not the best option, you will have to wait for me to greet you first.

2. Flirt with other people

At this stage it is not even the moment to give it exclusivity, if you are in an assembly of friends dance, laugh and talk with other friends, let them see that there are other boys who like you, that they do not have the simple way with you, this is what it will alert and cause him to increase his interest in you.

3. Show that you are an independent woman

The usual women who tend to change their plans for the boy they like, who change their habits or hobbies are kind of girls that men do not take for a long time.

You must show him that you are an independent woman, that you have goals, projects, and plans that are your priority, you must let him see that you are always busy and in all circumstances, and in this way he will value the time he spends with you and will strive to find activities that are of your interest to persuade you to go out with him.

Causes him to adapt to your schedule, if he invites you to go out at that moment always and at all times you will be able to tell him that you had plans for that afternoon, but that you can go out with him the day after night if he agrees.

Do not be very worried about denying him an appointment, he will ask you out again or admit your new deadline.

4. Give him space

If they met one afternoon and canceled because they moved their soccer game just for that day or it is the anniversary of a friend and he had forgotten, do not let that bother you much less reproach him.

Just show him that it really doesn’t matter much to you and that you can quickly figure out how to substitute that outing for fun that afternoon.¬†This will give you the perception that it is not essential for you and will try to get your attention more.

5.  Make him feel suspicious

An effective way to ignore who you like is by paying attention to other people besides him.

Arousing jealousy in a man is quite easy so you will have to be careful as you only want to make him a little suspicious but not separate him.

To achieve this you can: flirt wisely with other boys, laugh at the jokes of another boy, go to a bar with your friends, he will know that the chances of a man trying to flirt with you are high and this will make his psyche unhinged.

Having a best friend men always and in all circumstances ensure that your best friend wants to sleep with you and even if it is not in this way, we can always take advantage of the situation.

6. Let him know that you do not want a relationship that is too serious

Men par excellence fear commitment, so you must make it clear that at the moment you are not interested in a relationship that means a lot of commitment to you.

That perhaps you dream of getting married any day but for a moment is not in your immediate plans, that you appreciate your freedom too much and are not ready to lose it for anyone.

Even being a bit more explicit, you could tell him that you don’t like the little ones too much and that you don’t think of children, for each of your comments translates into the perfect woman that he had always and at all times been looking for.

7. Take your time to answer any request

If the boy you like invites you to have a coffee, to the movies, or simply says that he wants to go for a walk.

One option is to tell him that at that moment you are not sure you can go with him, but that he calls you in the afternoon to confirm, this will cause his interest in you to increase and that he must do a greater effort to win an appointment with you.

8. Wait a few minutes to respond

To get a boy to look for you you must cause him to want to be with you little by little more, when he sends you a message or makes a call, wait at least for the second call to answer him and his messages do not read them immediately.

In this way, you will give the impression of being a very busy girl and when he finally gets in touch with you, take it as a privilege to listen to you.

Ignoring your boy a bit always and in all circumstances is healthy for the relationship, men feel stressed if you are always, and in all circumstances, you must give them their space and not pay singular attention to them.

Men are hunters and they enjoy the process of courtship and seduction if you deprive them of it by showing excessive interest in them you will take away all the magic and they will lose interest.

If you try to be an independent woman, sure of yourself and with a magnificent life, she will want to be part of it and she will not stop trying until she conquers you.

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