Do you want a relationship or not?
When it comes to men, we are all like an open book. From our body language, women can clearly tell if we are interested in dating them or not, if they are careful enough, of course. With that said, there are some typical signs a woman could use to tell if a man wants to be more than friends. Without further ado, here are some signs that may indicate that he wants to be in a relationship with you:
1. If you want a relationship, you will stay in touch
When it comes to a man who wants to be with a woman, they show different signs depending on who they are. Some may show some and some may not. For example, a girl may ask another girl this question: “He wants to kiss me; Does it mean that he wants to be in a relationship with me? The answer to that is unclear because it goes both ways. But signs like keeping in touch through calls, text messages, tagging funny memes, or sending smoke signals in his direction (especially if you’re from a village in Africa like me), could show that he’s interested in you. Why? Because men don’t keep in touch with women they don’t want to be with, period. Even if a girl is your best friend a man will always choose the girl he is interested in over the one he calls his best friend. So anytime you go to the river to fetch water and see a smoke signal, you may want to start preparing for some rigorous courtship rituals.
2. He wants a relationship if he is always making time for you
If he makes time for you, even at odd hours, especially if you need it, it could be a strong indicator that he wants to be more than just friends. Men were created to protect women and even more so when it comes to those with whom we want to have a relationship. They will always make plans for the future and always include them in it, which makes it more or less special. So it wouldn’t hurt if you took your time and tried to see how many men have been dying to spend time with you. If you do, you might find the Prince Charming you unknowingly locked up somewhere in the friend zone because you were busy mistaking his availability for just being a good friend.
3. Being patient is a good sign that you want a relationship
Another very important sign that you want a relationship is if you are patient. He sure wants to be more than friends if he doesn’t rush to make love or move in with you. The latter could be so because he wants you to go at your own pace, even though he’s ready to get down on his knees and propose the next second. Being patient also shows that he sees your worth and respects your limits, as well as your decisions. So the next time your closest girlfriend asks you “why doesn’t she kiss me?” Remind her that she’s waiting for the right time because she values you.
4. He trusts you because you have values that he likes
Instead of asking the annoying “why didn’t he kiss me?” you ask, I appreciate the fact that he trusts you. Ladies, this is one of the most important values to consider, especially if you are looking to be more than friends. He knows you have some amazing qualities and I would love to see you spend the rest of your life with him. So every time he calls you and you don’t answer, he won’t start overthinking like some needy guys trying to figure out if you’re cheating or not. They always think highly of you and will never break a sweat for the little things because they know you have value and that is why they want to be in a relationship with you.
5. Introduces you to key people in your life relationship
Another very significant sign that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with you is when he takes the time to introduce you to the people who matter most to him. And when it does, you will surely feel the warmth you receive because your good qualities have likely definitely preceded you. And unlike the crafty ones, he didn’t budge when you told him to “kiss” me in public, which is what they expect. If he was not serious about you, then he will proceed to play many games, including keeping it a secret.
6. He is your knight and your shining armor
When you have problems, the guy who is eager to have a relationship with you will always be there for you. When you have a problem that needs a solution, whether it’s a broken sink or you just need someone you can’t vent to and they sit there, quietly listening to every word you say, then they will surely be here to help you at the end of the day. Most of the time, he will feel like he needs help and it goes without saying that he will be at your service. The latter is one of the many sure signs that he wants to be in a relationship with you. If he didn’t want to be around you, he will always find excuses why he won’t be available. But he won’t do that. Most of the time, you will do everything in your power to make sure everything goes perfectly for you, even at your expense.
7. Keeps you informed about their future plans
So the guy you really like has plans to quit his job, move to Switzerland to become a goat. Guess who will be the first person to hear the news, as crazy and stupid as it is, it will be you! If a man sees you as a possible life partner, he will always handle things almost subliminally for you. It will be as if he wants you to know that he cares and that you are very important to him. Most of the time, he will do it because he wants you to be a part of it or help with decision-making. If he doesn’t mind, well, you’ll only find out when you see his photos on Facebook adorning Swiss goats and wonder what’s up.
8. He will make you his Rihanna
No, not the real Rihanna if you know what I mean. If a guy really wants you to be his better half, he’ll make you feel like you’re the only girl in the world, like that Rihanna song. He’ll spend less time with other guys and make sure you feel special by putting yourself on a pedestal. One thing about guys is that we don’t just wake up and put no one on the pedestal unless they mean something to us. So if you notice this quality about your man, then the best thing you can do is show appreciation if you are interested. You can also return the favor by not making him jealous when it comes to the other guys so that the two of you can grow stronger over time.
9. He will always be ready to be with you
If a guy really wants to be with you, you don’t have to worry about getting the “Can I think about it?” Speech. The moment you suggest, or he suggests and you say yes, it’s a done deal. One thing about men is that we always know what we want and we are not afraid to do it. Even if we are afraid of compromises and then we meet the girl who makes our hearts go gaga, then we will compromise and figure things out as we go along. And the good thing about all this is that we don’t even need to ask for anything because the writing is already written on the wall. You will know everything once the time is tight and from there you can make your decision as quickly as possible.
10. He might love you if he pays you extra attention
When a guy notices things about you, including the slightest changes, he probably wants to be more than friends. Why is this the case? Because for generations, men have always been known for their notoriously low attention span, especially when it comes to things they have no interest in. So if he realizes that his hair has been styled differently, or that he changed his nail police or lost some weight or vice versa, chances are he clearly wants them all for himself. The same also happens when he can’t help but overwhelm you with compliments over and over again. Complimenting someone shows that you not only noticed their effort but that you appreciate it. So if this is the case with that guy who’s been staring at you,
Women are always smart and much better at picking up body language than men. That being said, it would therefore be a very simple thing for them to notice all the above signs that make a solid conclusion. Once you’ve done that, it would be a good idea to clarify where you see the relationship going. If you like the guy, the best thing you can do is tell him in advance and move on without wasting his time and yours. The same should be the case if you don’t feel the same way. Always tell them not to end up making them hate you for wasting your time. Remember to be as polite as possible when you tell him you don’t feel the same because, well, bruised egos are the cause of a lot of bad blood. And since we don’t want that, Always make sure that you leave your crush as gently as possible and he will respect you for that. You can always look for other smart ways to distinguish the above and live a life in which you are making the right decisions, including being with a man and that you both have feelings for each other.