Did your ex really move on?
A great relationship can be very interesting, fun-filled, and definitely takes you into a completely different world. But what happens when this great and perfect relationship starts to fall apart, what happens when he doesn’t call you for two days and doesn’t get upset and doesn’t show any remorse. You have started to notice some strange signs that you are unsure of and actions that you are not comfortable with. But deep down you think that at a certain stage he will return to his senses and will be that sweet boyfriend you’ve always known. Love is like a blindfold, the more you love your partner, the more you fail to see the signs that tell you that they have moved on. You can spend all the free time you have praying for a sign, looking for signs that he hasn’t moved on. Well, It’s imperative that you also know that the more time you spend looking for signs that she hasn’t moved, the more you won’t see the signs that tell you that she has really moved with her love life. It’s probably time to start listing the signs to watch out for that tell you that your boyfriend has moved on and that you should move on with his life as well.
1. Your ex has stopped contacting you
The first sign is when he stops contacting you. It is not okay for a guy not to call, text or message his girlfriend after a long time, such as 1 week. You could argue that 1 week is short, but a week is a long time for your boyfriend to be completely isolated. This is the first of the signs you have been looking for and this sign never lies. You should think about how often he called you; Calls you a minimum of 3 times a day. He calls you every morning to wake you up or to be the first person you talked to. He calls you during the day and asks how you are, how work is going and how he wants to see you and he just wants to hear your voice; and he calls you right before you go to bed and makes you laugh and they both tell each other what happened that day. Then he doesn’t call you for a week and you think it’s okay for him not to call, if you start making excuses for him like his phone is bad, remember that he can always use a public phone. I could text you if I was so busy that I couldn’t call but didn’t. However, you never think about the possibility that he is calling someone else. If he does not contact you, it is a sign that your ex does not want to talk to you and that means that your ex has moved.
2. Show signs of comfort around you.
Seeing a face that you know and did not expect can take you by surprise and you can give a lot of information through your face and body language. You can tell if someone is feeling sorry or bad, good or happy just by the way they react. Let’s say for example, you went for a cup of coffee and you had coffee and your ex came out of nowhere and said “hi, how are you?” Your head is lowered but you recognize the voice. You are so glad to hear your ex’s voice and you quickly think what answer to give him, whether to tell your ex how great he looks and that you are happy to see him again or ask him why he left you and he should come back so you can give him another chance. You are praying because it is a sign that he has come back for you, but you don’t want to lower your guard; you only give three words. “I’m fine”. He nods at her answer, He says “see you later” and goes out with his coffee, keeps everything simple with you. This is a sign that he is completely above you, so that he doesn’t stutter or try to avoid it, and that he is very calm and comfortable with you is a very good sign that he has moved on.
3. Has cut off all contact methods
Developing emotions for someone doesn’t take time, but having an emotion strong enough to bring you down takes some time and bonding. And if your ex is quick to shut down all the ways you can catch him, then this is a sign that you’ll want to pay attention to. Another sign that your ex has moved out is that your ex will stop going to a restaurant you both always go to when you were together, or will stop going there when the two of you were. Did your ex not follow you or remove you from their social media accounts not because they stopped using them? And also, your ex has blacklisted your number so you can’t even call or text him because he doesn’t want you to contact him again.
4. He has asked you to move on
When the time comes when you start saying that you don’t know your ex anymore, you fear one thing and one thing only, that he won’t break up with you. Romper is the worst night mare of any girl who is deeply in love with her boyfriend. But now that it has happened, you are still thinking that your ex is most likely stressed or has so much going on with him and needs some alone time. You have been looking for signs that tell you that it has moved, do not miss this sign. If your boyfriend is gone and completely over you, he will try to tell you not to expect him. It may be the way you keep everything simple, you don’t smile much and this is a good sign that you’ve moved on and that you should definitely move on too. Your ex will be hoping that you don’t think the situation is temporary and when your ex finally tells you to get on with your life, you must go on with your life. You definitely need to accept that your ex is no longer interested in having intimate affairs with you.
5. Your ex is always with someone else
You were going to buy some things from a nearby store and you see your ex leave the place with this girl you saw him with in a restaurant a fortnight ago. It doesn’t end there when it ends is when your ex boyfriend keeps bringing the girl with him to the parties you were also invited to and this is a sign you don’t want to see. If you keep seeing your ex around this same girl then she could be your ex new lover and this sign says your ex has moved on with their life. If your ex is still interested in you, they don’t want to give you the wrong impression that they are with someone else, so this is a very strong sign.
6. Your ex shows no signs of happiness around you
You already know that one of the ways to reach someone you care about is to pretend that you are happy and get their attention. But in this case, your ex is just acting natural, he doesn’t care if you think he’s happy or not. He sees no reason to prove to you that he is happy without you. Although this sign can be very complicated, it says a lot if your ex has moved on.
7. Your ex doesn’t start conversations
Remember vividly that when your ex was still hitting you or when you and your ex were still together, your ex was talking about their days at work or how they spent their day or what happened in class. Your ex will ask you for your favorite colors and quickly show you the theme, but this time he acts like you’re not even there. This sign tells your ex that they feel no obligation to talk to you because they are planning to move or have already moved.
8. He returned things you gave him
You gave your ex a necklace or ring that he always wears and a picture of the two of you that you gave him hanging on his bedroom wall. All of a sudden, ex returns all these things and tells you that they no longer need or want them. Your ex at this point is obvious about your advancement and is trying to erase it from your mind. This is a very clear sign from him that he doesn’t love you anymore and that you should seriously forget about your ex and move on.
9. Gives you signs of reluctance.
If you still have your ex’s phone number or a means of contacting your ex and you do, it takes forever for him to respond to your texts and messages. This is a sign that your ex has moved on and that he sees your calls as a nuisance and will quickly try not to get in touch with him again by being reluctant to calls and texts. If your ex has moved out, contacting him is of no use as it is an obvious sign that you should move on as well.
10. Doesn’t blame you for the breakup
If there’s one thing that’s common in every relationship, it’s who to blame, who should be apologizing, and all that. Your ex has told you that they don’t blame you for the breakup. He has completely forgotten about everything and is not blaming you because making you apologize will not change anything and you should probably take this as a goodbye sign and a sign that you should move on with your love life as well.
It’s always better for him and you to move on
If you are reading this now, it means that you are beginning to accept that he has moved on, that the chance of him coming back to you is as small as the chance of threading a needle blindfolded. It’s good that you’re considering that he has moved on. And this is why you should get together, go out and live the life you want for yourself in hopes of meeting someone who is more loving and caring. Let go of all the weight of heartache and see everything that happened as a good thing and move on.