When a man starts to fall in love with you: 21 intuitive signs

Is there a man in your life, who you think is falling for you, but you’re not sure?

Maybe they’ve already been on a few dates. It would seem that the first signs that she is falling in love with you are emerging. But you still wonder if it’s love or not.

Many times I have sat down with my friends to talk about this same topic. We have come up with endless signs and theories to find this out.

But what we didn’t realize was that our analyzes were excessive. 

We simply had to observe the things a man says, how he behaves and how he makes us feel. 

That is why if you are having the same dilemma, we have prepared this article that will help you see if he is starting to fall in love with you. 

21 signs that a guy is starting to fall in love with you

1) Always the first to text or call

If he is always the first to contact you, it means that he is starting to have feelings for you.

Whether you’re in the early stages of your relationship or just friends with benefits. A key sign that he is falling in love with you is when he never gets tired of talking or texting you.

This is also true if he texts you first thing in the morning and late at night. It reveals that he doesn’t stop thinking about you for a second.

2) The way he looks at you

You can tell a lot with a look.

For example, intense and passionate eye contact conveys silent messages of love and affection. 

Or also the way a smile forms on his lips when you say something silly, but sweet.

These are all indicators that he is starting to fall in love with you and he cannot hide it. His facial expression gives it away naturally. 

3) Ignores other women

Another obvious way to know that he is in love is when he is completely oblivious to other women.

The hottest girl in town can walk by and her eyes won’t leave your side. 

So, you can be sure that you have it enchanted.

Men don’t always choose women for logical reasons. They don’t want a girl who “checks all the boxes.” They want a real girl, who attracts them deeply and intensely.

4) Sometimes he seems nervous

Sweaty hands and flushed cheeks are signs that your man is starting to fall for you.

Nerves are natural. Her voice will tremble, she will look at you out of the corner of her eye. He may even feel too shy to tell you what he really feels.

Just as you can feel an inexplicable emotion in your chest, so will he. 

These are reactions that happen when certain chemicals are released and we begin to fall in love with someone.

These include adrenaline and norepinephrine.

5) He wants to share his passions with you

Another clear sign that he is starting to have feelings for you is if he wants to share his life with you.

This means that not only is he opening his world to you, but he also wants you to be a part of it.

Especially if you share things you’re passionate about or hobbies you normally do alone.

The truth is, if he’s sharing all this with you, it’s because he wants to be close to you. Otherwise, he wouldn’t bother to do it.

6) Your dreams are important to him

But it’s not just about sharing their passions with you. If he starts to fall in love with you, he will also want to know yours.

Everything from your goals and dreams to your doubts and fears will help him understand you and strengthen his connection with you.

Do you both have late-night conversations, delving deeply into each other’s minds and pasts? 

Then you can be sure that deep feelings are arising in him for you.

7) He is eager for you to meet his family

Ah, the dreaded first family reunion. It is inevitable to go through it.

But knowing his family means he takes you very seriously. He also wants to know what his family thinks of you.

Do your best to make a good first impression on your loved ones. 

Seeing that his family loves you too, will be a great comfort and peace of mind for him.

8) He cares about your opinion

And just as his family’s opinions are important to him, your opinion will quickly become important too.

You can realize this in that:

He asks you for advice when he has problems in his life

Want your opinion on something personal

Pay close attention when you talk about any topic

Remember what you say and act accordingly

Additionally, it is the last point that will really reveal how much your opinion matters to him.

It’s one thing to listen to what someone has to say. But another is to take your advice and act on it.

9) Your friends know about you

Talking to his friends about you is another sure way to know that he is falling for you.

When my partner first thought that our relationship could become more, the first thing he did was talk about me with his friends.

Also, he told them everything he couldn’t tell me because he was indecisive and nervous.

So you should be on the lookout if he ever mentions that his friends know you or want to meet you.

After all, when women start falling in love, we naturally turn to our female friends to process our emotions. 

It may surprise you to know that most men do the same.

10) You always have their full attention

Have you ever had the feeling that someone is only half listening to what you are saying?

Or does he lose interest even before you’ve finished a sentence?

Guys who are only physically attracted to you tend to do this. Especially if they are focused only on their ultimate goal: getting you into bed.

But a guy who is starting to fall for you will hang on to every word you say.

Even if your favorite team is playing on TV or you are walking through a crowded shopping mall, your attention will never waver.

11) Use “we” instead of “I”

This is one of my favorite signs. When it stops identifying itself only as “me” and begins to include you in “we”.

It is the ultimate sign that he wants to be in a serious relationship with you.

It shows that you are comfortable seeing them as a couple.

And it also lets you know that he is thinking of you and considering you, instead of just thinking of himself.

12) He mentions them in the future

And if that continues into conversations about the future, there’s not much question left as to whether or not he’s falling for you.

Why do I say this with such confidence?

Because a guy who is just faking it, wouldn’t think and plan the future together that much.

13) He makes you laugh

Laughter is a very important part of any relationship. It brings people closer and releases endorphins that make us feel on top of the world.

And, when we find someone funny, we find them more attractive. Naturally, we gravitate toward him more than we would toward anyone else.

This happens when you are falling in love.

They never tire of each other, and the jokes they share are a way to joke around, have fun, and flirt. All these things are what creates a bond that goes beyond friendship.

14) Has an affectionate nickname for you

A nickname is a great way for a guy to express his emotions. Especially if it’s something cute or an inside joke you share.

For some, it’s their way of showing affection or trying to make you laugh.

Also, a nickname is a pretty personal thing to give someone. Insinuate that there is more to your relationship and that he feels comfortable and confident with you.

15) He makes time for you

Finding time for relationships isn’t always easy in today’s busy world.

That’s why if you want to form a connection with someone, you have to make time for it.

And if he does that for you, there’s no sign that he’s starting to fall more and more in love with you.

You see, no man would bother to do that if he wasn’t falling in love.

He would only have time for you when he is free and it is convenient for him, or he is bored.

16) He spoils you

Does he have the nicest details with you? 

Does he give you flowers, invite you out to dinner, or organize special activities?

So, feelings of love for you are blossoming in him.

Even if he doesn’t like material gifts or the traditional way of pampering a lady, he will make you feel special by paying attention to the things you love. It can be something simple, like watching your favorite movie over and over again.

It may not seem like much to some. But this is a way of showing that you mean a lot to him and that he is starting to develop strong feelings.

17) He will try new things to please you

It could be watching your favorite romantic comedy for three hours. Also going for a run together at 6 am This will do it for the sake of making you happy.

When people start to fall in love, there is excitement and joy.

You feel like they can do anything, fired up by the hormones of happiness.

Everything is exciting, and even the things I’ve never considered doing seem like fun. This is due to the feelings of love, which are beginning to appear.

18) He is there for the good and for the bad

Another undoubted sign that he is falling in love with you is when he stays with you. Even regardless of your mood or situation.

A guy who’s just there for fun will get upset when you’re having a bad day and walk away.

But a boy who is falling in love with you will want to be with you, even in your worst moments.

He will want to make you feel better when you are sad and laugh with you when you are happy.

19) You perceive him through his body language

If your guy is falling for you, his body language will reveal it much faster than his words.

Here are some signs to watch out for:

There is a lot of sustained eye contact.

He always wants to be near you or sit next to you.

Find ways to touch yourself, like holding hands or putting your arm around him.

He may seem nervous or shy at times.

Of course, not all men reveal their emotions in the same way. But there will be little hints in his body language, which will show his growing affection for you.

20) He emotionally opens up to you

He is certainly falling in love if he can open up emotionally and let you see his vulnerabilities.

This only happens when someone begins to trust you and feels comfortable sharing intimate details about themselves.

Also, he might start expressing his feelings for you in a roundabout way. Complimenting your personality or letting you know how much he likes spending time together.

21) He always wants to make you feel comfortable

He goes out of his way to make you feel relaxed and comfortable around him.

If he is falling in love with you, he wants you to feel the same. So he takes care of making you feel good, every time you are together.

This can also happen in situations that are uncomfortable for you, which have nothing to do with him. He will do everything to make your life better.


One lesson I’ve learned over the years is to trust my gut. But also be attentive to the signs.


Because people, no matter how clever or manipulative they may be, can’t help but reveal their true feelings or intentions. 

This particularly applies to love as well.

Don’t spend hours and hours overanalyzing everything he says and does like I used to. 

Better use these signs to find out how he really feels and find out if love is arising in him for you.