It often happens that men and women talk on the phone for hours, but in most cases, they are lifelong friends.
However, if you’ve met someone recently and he’s never asked you out but calls you just to chat, this could be due to a number of reasons.
Keep reading to find out why.
He’s Shy
One of the most obvious reasons why a guy calls you just to chat could be that he likes you, but he’s too shy to take the next step.
Shyness prevents people from taking the initiative to develop a relationship and this often causes misunderstandings.
If you really like this guy, you should take the first step .
Just don’t be too direct and choose your words carefully.
You don’t want to put him in an awkward situation and make him feel even shyer than he already is.
Instead of directly asking him out, you might say that you need some fresh air and that you would really like to go out for a walk.
Why not keep talking outside?
This might be a good approach.
He Is Hopelessly Indecisive
Unfortunately, there are many guys who are always in doubt and do not know what to do.
They are incapable of making decisions and are always hesitant, indecisive, and overly cautious.
“Do I really like her?” “Is it a good thing to ask her out?” “Perhaps I should give this some thought.”
“What if she’s not the right one?” “Maybe I should just talk to her on the phone to understand better?”
He’s Still Not Over His Ex
He likes you, but he’s not over his ex-girlfriend yet.
Well, not much to say here.
You can give him a chance and wait or give up.
It depends on how much you like him and how recently he broke up with his ex.
If this happened a long time ago, then get the hell out of him.
You can’t wait forever.
If they’ve recently broken up, you may decide to give him some time until he’s completely gotten over you.
He Likes You, But He’s Going Through Very Busy Or Difficult Times
You can find this out easily.
Just ask him more about his life.
Maybe he just lost his job and is penniless.
Maybe he’s just started a new job that requires a lot of work and dedication and he doesn’t really have time to relax.
Maybe he has a difficult situation in his life, like a family tragedy he doesn’t want to talk about.
Explore and decide what to do.
He Considers You A Friend
Maybe he needs a friend or someone to talk to.
Maybe he finds you interesting, smart, and cool.
He likes to talk to you and share his opinions with you and he thinks you are a nice person.
But he’s just your friend!
Well, keep him as a friend.
Here it is.
This is basically what it means when a guy calls you just to chat.
I hope you found these tips helpful.