It only takes a split second for your brain to read a person’s body language, so it should be easy to read the body language of men in love if you pay attention.
Even if they aren’t using the three magic words, certain body language will reveal feelings.
If he’s doing these things, your man is in love and it’s in the best possible way.
You might not have noticed these subtle hints, but after reading them, they might stand out more.
Communication in relationships is much more than words and we can use our intuition to read them.
You can read body language to determine if it’s love or not.
This is an important skill that women must have in order not to hurt their feelings and learn to correctly interpret the body language of men in love.
1 . holding your hand
Is he the one taking your hand more often than you?
If a man holds hands with you in front of friends and family, he’s hooked.
He’s upside down and doesn’t even know it.
His body language will tell you before he even realizes how much he loves you.
If he’s been holding your hand in the car, at the movies, and especially across the dinner table, there’s no doubt about it, he’s in love.
When he gets vulnerable with you in public for holding your hand, he’s saying he’s proud of who you are and showing people that you’re a couple.
If you guys aren’t an official couple yet, it shows that he’s definitely flirting with the idea.
When your man starts to think of the two of you as a unit rather than separate beings, he will make gestures that show that bond.
He’ll try to stay connected to you even when you’re apart, sending you pictures, poems, checking in on your day, and assuring him that he’s looking forward to seeing you.
When he’s not avoiding you and is trying to remind you that he’s there, you’ll feel safer with him.
2 . Touches Your Hair
When men are trying to be sweet, they treat you very well.
They will try to make you feel special by praising your natural beauty.
When he starts noticing your freckles, dimples, and birthmarks, he’s noticing you and not just his idea of you.
When he is paying attention to the details and imperfections in you, it shows that he is trying to get to know you better.
Frankly, if someone who doesn’t love you touches your hair and it’s not the hairdresser, it’s weird, right?
The only time your man will touch your hair is if he’s trying to show you care.
Either that or he’s trying to figure out how his hair magically goes from curly to straight.
3 . He Opens Doors
Is he walking around to your side of the car every time you get in and out to open the door for you?
Is he opening the door for you when you go out to eat in public?
This is a sign that he is trying to impress you.
When men are being gentlemanly, it shows that they like you and want you to think well of them.
Men are generally not good with women because they don’t like them.
This is a sign that gives them away every time.
Even if he’s trying to play it cool, you’ll know he’s in love.
Even when men are very aware of women’s rights and support gender equality, they often act chivalrous when in love.
It’s like a part of male behavior that we all accept as a sign of respect.
Just because a man holds the door for you doesn’t mean he’s old-fashioned and wants to be the head of the family.
4 . He Sits On The Floor
There are certain signs that show that a man is comfortable with you.
When he sits on the floor, it shows that he’s not intimidated by you and wants to be more open with you.
If he sits on the floor and holds your hands, he wants to get to know you better and have deep conversations about the meaning of life.
Either that or he’ll ask if he can borrow money.
5 . He’s Affectionate
How does he act when you’re relaxing on the couch?
Does he pull you close?
Whether he’s resting his head on your shoulder or just acting like an adorable pet, the proof is in the pudding.
It’s written on the wall, this man’s heart has been stolen.
6 . He keeps his arm around you in public
When men haven’t decided if they want to keep you around for an extended period, they will usually keep a safe distance from you in public.
If he puts his hand on your shoulder or waist, that man is marking his territory in the most primal sense.
He’s telling other men not to consider you an option, even if he’s not aware of it.
7 . He Kisses Your Forehead
It has been said that a kiss on the forehead means only one thing; that he wants to keep her forever.
It’s a caring and respectful gesture, and when it reaches that level of sweetness, you win her heart.
Whatever you are doing, keep going because it is working.
Keep being the fierce woman you are because he likes it.
8 . He keeps getting up to get everything you need
Have you noticed your man getting up to pick up things you forget when you sit down to dinner or a movie?
Have you noticed he asks if you’re warm enough or if you need anything else?
Have you noticed that he’s paying extra attention to see if he can make you happy?
This is peculiar behavior for men and if he’s doing it, it’s a sure sign he’s going to be using the word love very soon.
9 . He Does Everything He Can To Make You Comfortable
Is he offering his jacket?
Did he buy you an extra blanket when you said you were cold?
Did he buy you gloves because he noticed that your hands often get cold?
If he’s being extremely considerate of your comfort level, he’s getting ready to surprise you in the best way.
Hope you’re ready because this guy is over the moon because of you.
10 . He Accompanies You To Your Car
If he makes a point of walking out his own door and walking to your car to say goodbye to you, it shows that he genuinely cares about you and wants to make sure you’re safe.
He wants to spend every possible moment with you because he can’t get enough.
You have his undivided attention and whether you realize it or not, this guy has a crush on you.
11 . He Goes Out To Meet You When You Arrive
If you ever showed up at a guy’s house and he didn’t get up to let you in, that was pretty disappointing, right?
It seems he doesn’t care if you’re there or not.
However, when he is waiting outside for you to arrive or leaves to meet you, it shows that he has you as a woman of high value to him, perhaps even a wife.
If he doesn’t respect you, he won’t fake it with body language.
Men are very transparent and women are very intuitive, if you think this guy is vibrating with you, he probably is.
12 . He Carries Things For You
If you’ve been traveling or shopping with him, he’s had another opportunity to show with his body language that he’s in love.
Is he carrying things for you even though you can do it yourself?
I find it kind of funny when guys do that, because a lot of times it doesn’t even make sense.
But if he’s gone into man mode, which is different from kid mode, he wants to prove himself to you, so why not let him?
13 . He Offers His Hand To Help You Get Up
Has he held out a hand to you as if you were Cinderella jumping out of the carriage?
That means he thinks of you like a queen (of course, you are one).
When he offers you his hand to make sure you’re safe or just to make your life a little easier, it’s his way of saying ‘I love you’.
He is trying to reinforce that he will take care of you and protect you.
The gesture of lending a helping hand dates back to history.
The hand is reminiscent of when a man kneels down and proposes marriage.
When a man wants to offer his hand, he probably wants to offer more.
He is knocking on your heart’s door and asking you to love him back.
Long before you two say I love you, you both will know.
14 . He Looks You In The Eyes
Gestures are a form of communication.
They say you can’t look someone in the eye when you don’t trust that person.
Don’t get me wrong here, everyone who looks you in the eye isn’t in love with you, but when you look people in the eye, it allows for a kind of mutual vulnerability.
It’s a very strong way to connect with someone and if they’re looking you in the eye a lot, they might be looking for confirmation that you love them too.
Pay attention to the way he looks at you.
If he avoids eye contact, he’s likely not sure how he feels about you, but if you notice eye contact frequently, you can bet there are deeper feelings.
The eyes are the windows to the soul and speak louder than words.
We often capture feelings that we cannot express in words just by looking into someone’s eyes.
So look into your eyes and see what your soul hears.
15 . He Cooks Epic Meals For You
Body language says it all.
Did he put on an apron and cut and season the steaks for you?
Did he bake, broil, braise and skewer?
If this man is trying to appeal to your senses, he’s trying to side with you for a reason.
If he wants to melt your heart with his rosemary chicken, he’s trying to get you to love him back.
He might want to calm down and have some treats with you too.
If a man is trying to impress you with his hands to buy food, build or repair, he is trying to show you that he is capable of being a family man and that he is capable of being a great husband.
The act of cooking for someone says a lot.
They are allowing you to enter their domain and telling you that it is ok if you judge them.
It also shows that they are willing to use their energy for you.
The art of reading body language is extremely interesting.
Actors study body language to sense the other person’s emotional state.
If you pay attention to this, you can notice when your man needs some emotional support, even when he isn’t saying it.
When his shoulders are slumped, he may have had a rough day.
When he’s on his feet, he’s probably proud of something.
When he turns his head to the side he is contemplating something, when he touches his chin he is reflecting on something.
You’ll get better at reading body language as you open your eyes and using that sense to improve your communication, just as professional actors use it to create intensity on stage.
Suddenly, body language becomes a strong and charged means of communication that can deepen your relationship because you are paying attention to each other and nothing else.