How to Make a Man Obsessed With You

Let’s start with the rather elegant ways a man can go crazy over you.

When you learn to make a man obsess over you, you have all the power in the relationship.

It’s not easy to get a man’s attention and keep him for the right reasons.

Of course, there is the elegant route and the not-so-elegant route.

Let’s follow the expert relationship tips closely and stay on the right side of the fence for now, anyway!

There will be times when you will really try too hard to make a guy go crazy over you and you will be totally ignored.

This sucks!

FACT – There are so many distractions in the high-tech world these days that making sure a particular guy is paying attention to you is anything but easy.

Lucky for you, men are easy to understand when you think about it.

Sure, they can have a variety of complex qualities, but when it comes to qualities or traits that men find attractive in women, it’s pretty much unified.

It’s not about the physical things, it’s about the valued qualities that tend to make relationships last, you know, the substance.

With these strategies, you should get their attention, and from there, it’s up to you to take the bull by the horns and make it happen when you’re ready.

Here are some proven tactics to help you capture the undivided attention of the man on your radar and make him want more.

Strategy One – Be Yourself

Now I don’t need you to roll your eyes and think it’s corny because it certainly isn’t.

Acting is hard and do you really want to have to act the rest of your life just to try to impress a man, try to give him what you think he wants to see and hear?

I think not!

The best thing you can do when you’re trying to win a man is to be yourself from head to toe.

That means the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Well, you might want to put off the ugly stuff for now, but you know what I mean.

When you are happy with yourself, you will naturally attract men who really want the girl you are.

Truth – Inner beauty trumps everything else.

Strategy Two – Let Your Confidence Shine

This is another one I’m sure you’ve heard before, but it’s important that you take it seriously.

Confidence in the right amount is totally attractive.

An excellent way to make men go crazy over you.

When you show your confidence, you are screaming to the world that you are safe to face the world positively.

What better quality is there than that?

Insecurities are gone because confidence will make you achieve what you want.

Strategy Three – Be Respectful and Love Yourself

When you can’t respect yourself, you’re telling every man you don’t deserve a second look.

Is that what you want?

Respect is an attractive trait, and when you show it to guys, they’ll want to pay attention to you and only you.

Try it because you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Strategy Four – Stay Strong With Your Beliefs 

A man likes a woman who knows what she wants to some extent.

There’s exaggeration in anything and everything if you’re not careful.

If the sweet gentleman you’re with wants to bed you after your first date and you don’t want it, just tell him!

If he wants to take you to dinner at a Japanese restaurant and you prefer Italian food, open your mouth and tell him so, please.

When you are silent, all you are doing is creating miscommunication and it won’t get you anywhere fast.

Plus, when you’re not afraid to tell him what you want, you’re also showing him that you’re confident and secure in yourself and that’s just attractive no matter what angle you look at.

Strategy five – Be generous and kind

You can never make a good second first impression, no matter how hard you try.

Even if you start off on the wrong foot and try to start over, you can never erase the first few seconds.

That means you need to pay attention and make sure you’re open, kind, and approachable right off the bat.

Keep your smile and use your good manners.

If you make a mistake, apologize, and don’t be afraid to admit when you messed up, to make mistakes is human.

Do that and the men will be in your hands, really.

Strategy Six – Let Him Know What You Want and Prefer

That doesn’t mean you start playing bossy, because a bossy woman is the last thing a man wants.

What that means is that you need to show him within reason that you are right in charge.

That you can move forward and handle things with confidence when needed.

Yes, men are naturally the ones who want to provide and remove all fear and worry, but there are times when they need a break.

When you show them that you can take a break, it’s beating their heart and they’re going to freak out over you.

Think about it for a minute or two and apply.

Strategy Seven – Take Care Of Yourself

What that means is that you have to put a little effort into getting their attention.

This does NOT mean you need to wear a lot of makeup or look like a model.

But that means you should have proper hygiene, dress well, and at least try to style your hair.

Exercising and eating healthy is also essential to show a man that you deserve him.

Smelling good doesn’t hurt either.

Have fun trying out a few new scents to see which one drives you crazy.

Strategy Eight – Don’t Be Pushy

If you really want a man to be obsessed with you, it’s important that you don’t put too much effort into making him notice your presence.

Sometimes, for whatever reason, it just won’t work and you have to walk away and say to yourself, “Next!”

Try not to put it on a pedestal, but don’t forget to lift it too.

This is a balancing act because you don’t want to overdo it with praise.

On the other hand, you want to stimulate him a little.

Make him feel important in moderation and he’ll have no choice but to notice you for all the right reasons.

Strategy nine – keep your door open

The only way to hook a man is to open up to him and let him in.

This doesn’t mean you have to put in the effort, but it does need him to know you inside out.

Talk about the now, what matters to you and you are on the right path for sure.

Let him know your goals, hopes, dreams, and opinions about things that are important to you.

Now let’s look at some tips that are a little less angelic when you’re focused on making a man obsess over you.

Strategy ten – find that one word that drives him crazy 

Experts report that men like endearing nicknames like pet names, but if you want to make him more obsessed, just say his name.

There’s something electrifying when he hears his name from your mouth.

That’s according to body language experts around the world.

Cosmopolitan experts agree that men need to hear their name to spark the desire to compete and that means they will chase you quickly – Get ready!

Strategy Eleven – He Doesn’t Want to be in the Loop

Men are quirky creatures and they don’t really want to know all the details of your life and they definitely don’t want to get involved in the drama.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t share it with him, because you should leave some unpleasant workplace drama out of the conversation, please.

Psychologically speaking, guys don’t really have the ability to handle a lot of details which is why they rarely, if ever, give you a narration of their life.

Best move – keep the conversations to yourself and save the important or “bigger” things to share.

Go to the end of the story in other words and you’ll give him a valid reason to come after you.

Strategy Twelve – Rewind Time with a Vivid Sensory Flashback

Depending on how far off your “relationship” is, it’s important to talk lively about anything physical between the two of you.

What does it do?

Well, that puts you front and center in his brain, because men buy with their eyes first, never forget that.

Strategy Thirteen – Be Mysterious

It’s in man’s nature to explore and when you act a little mysterious, he’s naturally drawn to you.

Don’t be afraid to be vague with your conversation at times and a little evasive when he’s pressing for details.

Letting guys wander around and ask themselves a little is a great tool to get them hooked.

Final Words

When you’re wanting to make a man obsess over you, it’s multifactorial, to say the least.

Take advantage of this expert information and don’t be afraid to follow his lead.

Read between the lines and don’t let your emotions trump logic.

Show him that you’re confident and not desperate, and the rest will fall into place.

Time for you to act and make him crazy about you.

Good luck!