Discover the reasons why men like older women and find them more attractive than younger women.
Here are the top 10.
Use them to your advantage!
You might think that being a sassy, younger woman would be more attractive to men than a woman who’s been through many springs, but there’s definitely something about older women that drives men crazy.
If you know the secrets, however, you don’t have to be an older woman to appeal to a man’s desire for physical and emotional maturity… On the other hand, if you’re not sure whether to date the younger guy, maybe our top 8 reasons will explain better why men like older women (and they do).
1. Older Women Are In Control Of Their Hormones
Obviously, we’re not talking about women going through menopause, but an older woman is less likely to have the irrational emotional outbursts of a younger girl.
This means less emotional pressure on the guy because he can trust the older woman to be responsible for his own feelings.
This is why men are attracted to younger women who are mature for their age.
No guy wants to feel responsible for a girl’s emotions, it takes the fun and sensuality out of the relationship and makes things seem less equal.
Advice for younger women: don’t be emotionally vulnerable, control mood swings.
2. Older Women Are Not Obsessed With Having A Perfect, Slim Body
Men are attracted to the real curves of an older woman.
These are women who are confident in the way their bodies were built.
Many of them have already had children and therefore are not obsessed with perfection.
They know they have flaws, but they also know that it doesn’t affect the pleasure they can give or receive.
Advice for younger women: Stop trying to look like a bug, be proud of your feminine features.
3. Older Women Don’t Want To Tag A Man As Their ‘Boyfriend’
When there is less commitment pressure, a man can focus on having fun.
An older woman is more likely to have had a lot of long-term relationships in the past and therefore is less likely to want to jump right into someone else!
Who wants to go through all this emotional trouble again and again?
Advice for younger women: enjoy what’s in front of you and stop trying to define your relationship!
Go with the flow.
4. Older Women Are More Independent
She probably has her own successful career or a family to take care of… basically, she has her own life.
A guy will find it attractive that a woman doesn’t “need” him.
An older woman won’t let her life revolve around a younger guy, she has her own priorities but he’s a welcome addition.
Younger women: Stop focusing on him and focus on YOU!
5. Older Women Know How to Show Authority
Men like the fact that an older woman won’t let him walk all over her.
She knows what she wants, knows where and how she wants it.
When a woman takes control, she’s attractive!
Advice for Younger Women: Where’s Your Confidence?
If you want something, stop complaining to your friends and go out there and make it happen!
6. Older Women Appreciate Their Younger Lovers Instead Of Nagging Them
He might be dating a mom, but she’s had enough of scolding and pestering her own kids, she won’t want to add another one to her list!
After all, younger men have more stamina… Advice for younger women: Stop complaining about what you don’t have and appreciate what you do have.
7. An Older Woman Has Her Own Money, Possibly Her Own Car, And Her Own House
There are no expectations placed on the younger man because she pretty much has everything she needs in life.
It’s not likely that she wants to live with him and won’t trust him for everything.
It’s an equal playing field.
Advice for younger women: Stop expecting too much from your man.
Take care of your own needs and you will be a much more attractive woman.
8. Older Women Have Experience
Older women have experience in love, life, relationships, careers… you name it.
This creates an intelligent, interesting, and stimulating conversation!
Guys like to be challenged in a debate.
Advice for younger women: you may or may not have your own wealth of experience, but you do have a choice in how you come across; therefore, do not be naive, do not be insensitive, and stand firm, and of strong opinion.
He will respect you for that.