He Won’t Leave You In The Dark. Never.
Communication is the key to any strong relationship.
This is how we let others know how much they mean to us.
Since we all communicate our love differently, it’s important to keep the definition of communication itself a little vague.
But one thing is certain: if a man really loves you, you will know and feel his love.
Otherwise, you’ll be wondering all the time if he loves you or not.
So here are 10 things the right man will never make you think about.
1. Whether He Respects You Or Not
Love is a product of respect.
We can’t love someone we don’t respect.
Respect for your opinions, respect for your feelings, respect for your wants and needs.
A man who loves and cares for you will always consider you when making decisions that affect both of you.
He will ask for your opinions.
He will treat you as an extension of himself because that’s what you are in a relationship.
2. Whether or not he thinks you’re beautiful
Finding someone beautiful isn’t just about physical attraction.
The truth is, when you love someone for who they really are, everything about them becomes beautiful.
No man should let the woman in his life wonder if he’s attracted to her.
Well-placed compliments and attention to small details work wonders.
3. Whether He Values You Or Not
Under no circumstances and at no time you should feel unappreciated by your partner.
It’s understandable that life can get crazy and stressful and we often lose sight of other people’s feelings if we get caught up in our hectic daily grind.
But that’s why it’s so important to be willing to put effort into your relationship.
No matter how busy or stressed a man is, when he comes home at night, it’s important that he makes a conscious effort to show you that he appreciates everything you do for him.
4. Whether Or Not You’re Worth The Effort
You are worth every amount of effort a man has in his heart to give to you and the relationship.
The right man will never make you question that.
5. Whether Or Not He Foretells A Future With You
When a man is taking you very seriously, he will have no problem making plans together for the future.
Whether it’s an upcoming holiday or a vacation next summer, your willingness to use the “we” when talking about the future is a sure sign that when he visualizes a more mature version of himself, he’s also imagining you. thereby his side.
6. Whether He Supports You Or Not
When a man commits his love and time to a woman, there are no stipulations or circumstances necessary.
There will be good times and not-so-good times.
There will be challenges and unexpected situations that will arise.
But he will stay by your side and be your teammate through everything.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you can disrespect him, lie or cheat.
That doesn’t mean you can betray his trust and expect him to stick with you, just because he promised to commit to you.
This point is about the things the two of you go through together and that he has the integrity to not pull away when you go through hard times.
Any man can be by your side on sunny days.
The real test of character is whether or not he will hold his umbrella over you during stormy days.
7. Whether or not you can open up to him
Comfort in a relationship (the good kind, not the kind that stops you from trying) comes from the ability to be open and honest with your partner, and the ability to do that comes from knowing that you will never be judged.
A good man will encourage you to open up and share your feelings with him.
There should never be fearful of him getting out of hand or overreacting if you share something with him.
That means getting to be the most genuine, uncensored version of yourself on his side.
8. Whether Or Not He Is Dedicated To Bettering Himself
Whether it’s learning new things, developing a new skill set, reading a new book, or watching a documentary, a good man who prides himself on continuous self-improvement will always challenge you intellectually and keep your attention.
He will do these things himself, but the added benefit will be the positive impact it will have on your relationship.
9. Whether or Not You’re Safe Around Him
One of the best compliments a woman can give a man is that she feels safe with him.
Regardless of how attracted she is to a man or how funny he thinks she is or how much money he has if a woman can’t sleep soundly next to him at night, none of that matters.
10. Whether Or Not He’s Committed To Loving You
Love is not a passive emotion.
It’s not just something that explodes in our hearts like fireworks, to dissipate as quickly as it arrived.
Love is a choice.
It’s a conscious effort to look at past differences, to embrace how your partner can improve you, to embrace what they can teach you about life — and what you can teach them in return.
Love is not something you “fall into”; it’s something you get up to.
It is something where you come together, converging and combining your paths when you meet, and continuing together on a single road of life from that point on.
This road will have bumps, potholes, and unexpected obstacles.
It may not be the path you envisioned going, but you can take comfort in the fact that it’s the only path you’d ever want to take because the person you love is by your side.
The right man will never make you worry that he might take the next exit and let you travel alone because he’s committed to making the choice to love you. Everyday.