The alpha female is a strong and majestic female.
She can often be intimidating to those close to her and is not afraid to ask for what she wants.
She’s kicking in her professional life and has a solid group of friends to rely on.
There is nothing as brilliant as a woman with confidence and ambition.
She is not afraid to put people in their shoes, nor is she willing to tolerate being disrespected or mistreated by anyone.
She just doesn’t have the time.
A strong alpha female needs a man who is her equal, her partner, and her biggest advocate.
By definition, you’d think she should want an alpha male, but when they’re both alphas, he can only provide passion, because stability and security she already has.
She also doesn’t get along well with Beta Males because they are too weak to keep her or pique her interest.
So who is the right man for the mighty alpha female?
What kind of man can keep her grounded while still challenging her to grow up and be the best she can be?
Allow me to introduce Type Z: a man who is equal parts solid and charismatic.
He is her rock, her foundation.
He is not intimidated by her successes nor would he allow her to go to his head.
He is true to himself and true to her.
An Alpha Woman knows what it takes to have a solid partnership with a man who will be an ally, confidant, and best friend.
These are 18 qualities every alpha woman should look for in a boyfriend:
1. He is someone who can tease you and also be teased.
He would never be malicious or say something to hurt your feelings, but he can make a joke the best he can.
You know each other well enough to know when you’ve crossed the line, but your shared love of sarcasm and your knowledge of each other’s weaknesses make banter fun – never threatening.
2. He Challenges You.
He’s as strong as you are but more moderate.
He’ll push you to be the best you can be and challenge every decision you make – but you’ll love him for it.
Life with him is always exciting and never ceases to amaze her.
3. He doesn’t get jealous.
He’s confident enough to know that the moderate flirtations you have at a party and your unyielding friendship with your coworker are never a threat to your relationship.
He knows you are his and never feels the need to question you because your relationship was built on a foundation of trust.
4. He’s Not Waiting For You, He Has His Own Plans.
He has his own life and respects yours.
He will never complain or get in the way of you going to the club with your girlfriends.
Instead, he encourages you to spend time with them whenever you want, because he knows who you’re coming home to.
5. Does Not Air Your Dirty Clothes.
He has all your trust and you can tell each other anything.
You’re not afraid that your bad stuff will be told at the wheel when you meet his family or when you meet his friends for a drink.
What is said between the two of you stays between you.
Well, with the exception of your best friend; she knows everything from what he’s been doing without his clothes on to his latest promotion at work.
6. He Knows How To Deal With His Bad Mood.
He is a source of comfort to you.
You feel comfortable with him.
When you’re angry, he somehow knows how to handle you with more grace than anyone else.
Depending on how you’re feeling, distressed and emotional or overwhelmed and exhausted, he lets you have your space and knows when to hold you in his arms.
7. When He Says He’s Sorry, He Really Feels Regret.
If he did something wrong, he will always be man enough to admit it and apologize.
He’s not arrogant – he won’t do something stupid and turn the tables on you, and he won’t hurt your feelings and make you feel stupid for being upset.
He’s a man, not a brat – and a man always knows when he needs to apologize.
8. He’s Moving At The Same Speed As You.
Whether in his current career or his lofty life goals, he always seems to be moving at the same speed as you.
He knows what he wants and respects what you want.
He is never pushy or demoralizing – he just moves from one goal to the next with a very bright future insight.
9. He doesn’t look down on you, but he doesn’t put you on a pedestal either.
He is slow and steady, but never a doormat.
He doesn’t idolize you, but he doesn’t make you feel small.
He treats you like the fierce woman you are.
He also likes to spoil you, but he would never give you everything you wanted.
He will always keep you guessing.
He is your partner, not your provider.
He’s there because he wants you, not because he needs you.
10. He Is Someone Who Teaches You New Things.
The best partnerships are those where both people can learn from each other.
He is a connoisseur and enjoys providing new information and insights into things he is passionate about.
You learn from him in many ways, but you never feel like he’s pushing you or judging you.
The two of you teach lessons that make you better people and better citizens of the world.
11. He Makes You Laugh.
“If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” – Marilyn Monroe
If he doesn’t make you laugh, you’ll soon get tired of him.
Laughter is one of the most important qualities in a partner.
Their shared love of sarcasm and their sharp wit complement each other perfectly.
12. He Gets Her Attention When Needed.
He will never fail to tell you what you are doing wrong.
He’s not afraid to hurt your feelings and he doesn’t walk on tiptoe either.
He doesn’t let you care about nonsense, not because he doesn’t care about you, but because he doesn’t want to be caught off guard by these alpha female behaviors.
13. He Wants To Be The Wind Under His Wings.
He is a stoic man: strong, independent, and self-assured.
He prefers to let you lead, but he is always there to fully support you.
He has no problem being the background; he is there to be your strongest defender and your firm foundation.
He loves that you’re popular because you’re someone he’s proud of.
14. He’s Not The Life Of The Party, But He’s Always There If You Need To Be Taken Home.
It allows you to be the social butterfly that you naturally are.
He doesn’t care about your vibe or feel intimidated by your fiery, dynamic personality; instead, he embraces it all.
He is also a protector.
He always takes care of you.
15. Your Opinions Are Not Irrational, They Are Supported.
He reads a lot of books and stays informed about current events so he can have full opinions with factual bases.
Being polite and solid in his understanding of the world around him is very important to him.
16. He knows when to let go and when to act on it.
He will stand firm when he knows he is right.
Although he argues with you, he is not willing to admit it if it means ending a fight.
You’re strong-willed, and he knows when it’s worth discussing a difference of opinion or a questionable action, or if it’s best to let it go.
17. He Has Dreams As Big As Yours.
He’s as career-focused as you are.
You really care about each other’s efforts.
He doesn’t sit back and watch you make your dreams come true, because he has passions and goals of his own.
You two are a true power couple.
18. He Is A Great Listener, But He Also Expects To Be Heard.
He knows when to speak and he knows when to keep his mouth shut.
He calmly and patiently listens to everything you have to say but expects you to do the same for him.
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