Have you ever wondered what kind of lover you are?
Or what kind of lover are you dating?
Read these 19 types of lovers and you will find your answer.
When you start dating someone, you can understand them as a person.
But it’s not always easy to decipher what kind of lover he would be.
But as time goes on, sometimes a few weeks or sometimes a few months, you would be able to clearly tell what kind of lover they are.
The signs are easy to see as long as you can clear the love fog and see your lover for who they really are.
Types of Lovers and Compatibility
First of all, not all types of lovers are compatible with each other.
If you are someone who is fiercely independent or who likes to be in control at all times, it can be difficult to maintain a relationship with a controlling partner.
On the other hand, if you are the kind of lover who wants to take care of you, you may find yourself completely incompatible in a relationship with someone who is selfish.
Before dating someone or trying to point the finger at them, try to find out what kind of lover you are.
This will help you to understand your own good side and your own flaws when you enter a relationship.
And once you understand each other better and realize what kind of lover you are, it would be easier to tell if there is a potential for a new relationship to work out easily or not.
There’s More Than One Kind Of Lover In All Of Us
There are many sides to love in all of us.
You would rarely find just one type of lover in a person.
Often, it is circumstances and relationships that awaken the different types of lovers within us.
Some types of lovers are never good for a relationship, while others are perfect for a long-term romance.
While there are many subtle hints of different types of lovers in all of us, there is one type of lover that stands out and defines us for the type of lover we are.
And that’s how your lover and the rest of the world would see you.
The 19 Types of Lovers in the World
Use these 19 types of lovers to find out exactly what kind of lover you are and what kind of lover your partner is.
Try to define yourself as one of these 19 types of lovers, and talk to your partner and ask him to point out the type of lover he sees in you.
And if you don’t like how the two of you see each other, talk about it.
After all, understanding what kind of lover your partner sees in you can help you become a better lover and work on your flaws.
And it will also help your partner to become a better lover!
1. The Giver.
This is the selfless lover who constantly gives in in the relationship, usually because they believe they are not good enough for the relationship or their partner, or believe they do not provide enough value to the relationship and try to make up for it by giving more to the relationship.
2. The Receiver.
This is the type of partner who only gets into the relationship, always wants things his way.
This person believes that they bring so much to the relationship just by their mere existence that they don’t have to do anything to make their partner happy.
People who consider themselves a trophy usually end up being this type of partner.
3. The Pleasures.
This type of lover strives to please his partner.
Call it unconditional love or pleasant love, but just watching your lover smile makes that person happy and fulfilled.
They take pleasure in pleasing their partner, even if it means giving up something they want or like.
4. The Controller.
The controlling lover appears very caring and loving, and seems extremely attentive to your needs.
But at some point along the way, you may start to feel smothered and overwhelmed by your subtle demands or restrictions.
They use emotional manipulation and blackmail to make you dependent on them, and before you know it, you feel trapped and isolated from the rest of the world.
5. The Selfish Lover.
This type of lover always thinks twice before giving or doing something nice for the lover.
They always ask themselves “what’s in it for me?” before doing anything.
And they (unobtrusively) want the biggest or best thing all the time, whether it’s the biggest slice of pizza you both pretend not to notice, or while planning your next vacation.
6. The Suspect.
This type of lover never completely trusts you.
You always have to work hard to make him feel safe and happy in the relationship.
They feel threatened by their friends or anyone else who seems to give them the slightest hint of attention.
They constantly doubt or try to snoop around in hopes of catching her in the act .
7. The Actor.
The actor is a tricky person to read because he behaves like he really cares about you when you’re around.
They constantly try to show you how concerned they are about you and your happiness, ask if you want something, but in reality, they never do anything to make you feel better.
It’s all small talk.
8. The Drama Seeker.
This type of lover wants to experience something new all the time, whether it’s a fight or a romantic getaway.
They don’t like comfort or monotony.
They’d rather have a petty fight or do something dramatic than just let the relationship run its calm course.
9. The Lost Lover.
This type of partner gets bored very easily and always wants more.
He may seem excited for the first few months of the relationship, but once the infatuation stage passes, they become distant or boring.
And he will seem more interested in impressing someone else.
10. The Observer.
This type of partner sees their flaws but decides to ignore them or put up with them because they don’t want to change anything in the relationship.
They prefer to be a punching bag dealing with their partner’s affairs or lack of affection by turning a blind eye rather than confronting or abandoning them.
11. The Helper.
The helper constantly tries to help his partner improve by supporting or criticizing him.
He finds his own meaning to life or happiness in life by supporting his lovers and helping them to achieve something.
This type of partner behaves like a martyr who sacrifices his desires to help you achieve it, but he always remembers the sacrifices.
And sometimes, they can even use it to emotionally manipulate.
12. The Undertaker.
This type of lover doesn’t mind giving in for the happiness of the relationship.
He easily gives in to any argument or argument just to please his partner, or to avoid a fight.
They may seem like they have no wants or desires and are happy to accept their partner’s decisions.
13. Possessive Lover.
The possessive lover may love you a lot, but he has a hard time trusting you.
He constantly feels like everyone in the world is trying to separate the two of you, and everyone of the opposite gender is trying to connect with you.
This type of partner may love you, but it’s hard to trust you unconditionally.
14. Jealous Lover.
Has your partner ever been jealous of your success or accomplishments?
The jealous lover may love you very much, but they always want what you have, or more.
If you buy some new expensive perfumes, your jealous lover would also like to buy perfumes.
And if you get promoted at work, your partner might start to sulk about how much less valued they are at work, even if they never felt that way before you got your promotion!
15. Material Lover.
This type of lover is more focused on wealth and luxury than anything else.
He wants everything the material world has to offer and they don’t care what their partner does as long as they have money and a good life.
16. The Loyal Lover.
A loyal lover is one who sticks with his partner in good times and bad.
They have moral principles and do not look for opportunities to betray their partners.
They are emotionally satisfied and don’t get lost at the first stolen opportunity.
17. The Thoughtful Lover.
The thoughtful lover is the kind of lover who gets lost in his own world most of the time.
They want space and love to be alone for several hours, and sometimes they can even get annoyed if they don’t get enough space to be alone.
They are distracted or lost in thought, and even if they seem happy in the relationship, they almost always seem bothered by something.
18. The Enthusiastic Lover
He is always excited and loves to try new things all the time.
He is not boring and sometimes even reckless.
He loves to create memories that is always involving his partner to try a new experience all the time.
19. The Romantic Lover.
This type of lover is a true romantic.
And he attracts and impresses you with romantic gestures all the time.
He is quite sweet and loving, and doesn’t miss any opportunity to show a grand gesture of love and romance!
So which of these 19 types of lovers do you see in you and your partner?
Talk about it, even if it feels painful or embarrassing.
If the two of you care about each other, this conversation will only bring you closer together!