He might seem charming at first, but try to imagine him without that first date charm.
If you don’t use a little thought, you could end up hooking up with one of the 16 types of men every woman should avoid.
Dating and dating can offer valuable experiences to get to know what kind of men and guys there are out there.
This helps you to basically figure out what you like and don’t like about the relationship and your partner.
However, the search for that “special someone” can be frustrating.
You might even get to the point where you’re willing to settle down with anyone without noticing certain qualities you really don’t like just so you can finally say you’re in a serious relationship.
However, if you’re a smart enough woman, you’ll know that there are some critical things you don’t accept.
Certain types of men you should stay away from.
You may or may not have dated one or more of these types of men in the past, either way, it’s time to change your path towards having a happy and lasting relationship.
Types of Men You Should Avoid Getting Involved With.
Life is too short to date guys you don’t like.
So here we cut to the chase and give you a definitive list of the types of men you shouldn’t date.
In fact, you should even run far away from them.
1. The Man Who Has Phobia Of Commitment.
He can be charming, mysterious, friendly, and fun.
He can be everything you ever wanted in a guy.
The only problem is that he is afraid to take a serious relationship.
A part of you wants to change him, wants to be that woman who was able to open his heart to him, but he keeps saying he’s happy the way things are.
“Let’s live life,” he says.
Well if that’s not what you want then it’s time to get off at the next stop.
2. The Psychotic Controller.
He buys you a fancy dress and tells you to wear it on your next date.
You admire it as if it were a romantic gesture until he tells you what to order at the restaurant, what to talk about, what to say, how to act.
Well, girl, you got yourself a psycho controller.
He’s the guy who will order you around and throw a tantrum if things don’t go his way.
This type of guy can be abusive, so it’s best to sneak out.
3. The Lazy.
He doesn’t get off the couch, he’s sedentary, he lives with his mother, he doesn’t have a job, he doesn’t have plans.
You know this guy.
He’s the type who will get out of bed just to pee and then come back to lie on the couch for the rest of the day.
He doesn’t have any hobbies except video games.
It also has no skills, aspirations, or future.
Trust me, stay away from this guy.
4. The Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing.
He will get your attention.
In fact, it will catch every woman’s attention.
He’s that dreamy, charming, interesting kind of guy… that prince you’d love to show off to your family and friends during the holidays.
However, once you get to know him, you realize that he’s actually a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
No matter the problem, it really shouldn’t even be your business because you shouldn’t have anything to do with it!
5. The Alpha Idiot.
He stands out among so many other men because he is usually the leader.
At the gym, at the club, at work, or basically anywhere, he’s the alpha male… and he won’t let anyone forget that.
He can be so arrogant as to be disrespectful and annoying.
He might even get into fights and argue with anyone he thinks is stealing his spotlight.
6. Mama’s Boy.
They say you recognize a good guy by the way he treats his mom, but if he’s mommy’s boy, then you have to say “no.”
He can’t make a decision without consulting his mother, and if you’re in a relationship with him, you’re sure to feel like you’re the outsider in the relationship.
7. The Compulsive Traitor.
Needless to say, he’s the kind of man to avoid at all costs.
He will lie, cheat and manipulate until he lowers his skirt, just like the skirts of every woman in town.
If you meet a guy who already has a girlfriend, but he cheats on her with you, gets real.
If he cheated on you, he will probably cheat on you too.
Do yourself a big favor and don’t even get involved with him.
8. Womanizer
Although this guy doesn’t take more disappointing actions, the fact that his eyes are always staring at other women is enough to make you want to walk away.
You don’t have to compete for his attention.
And if he’s making inappropriate and perverted comments about other women, then what kind of things is he saying about you behind your back?
Have courage and give him a foot.
He’s not worth it.
9. The Leech.
He’s always impeccable: nice clothes, nice shoes, all of that.
However, the leech is a “maintained man”.
He is actively looking for women who pay him for everything, just as the lazy, talentless guy would.
He will enchant you only for you to fall into his trap.
After that, he will make demands while waiting for you to arrange things for him unconditionally, without asking anything.
10. The Hard Bread.
Unlike the leech, this guy even pays… but only for himself.
He’s the type who will ask you out on a date, but then suggest splitting the bill and might even use a calculator for that.
You don’t expect him to buy you flowers or any other gifts.
It’s not that he can’t take you out to dinner or to the movies, he’s just a cheapskate.
11. The Manic Ego.
He is a self-confident boy. In fact, too self-confident.
He cares exaggeratedly about his appearance, and his reputation and always wants to be the center of the universe.
He doesn’t like it when your opinion differs from his, because his opinion is the truth.
Honestly, it’s exhausting to be on his side.
12. The Bachelor.
He can be attractive, educated, and successful… a confirmed bachelor. He’ll make you wonder why no woman hasn’t hooked him yet.
Then you’ll start dating and he’ll think that maybe you’re the right woman he’s been waiting for.
Turns out… you were wrong.
There is no right woman for this guy, and there never will be.
He’s committed, committed to being eternally single.
13. The Child Man.
He may be in his 30s or 40s, but he still acts like a big boy.
He still goes out in his sweatshirt and flip-flops and plays video games and cards for a shot of tequila.
He can awaken the child in you too because he is a child.
If you go through any difficulties, don’t expect to count on him. He’s already far away from you.
14. The Needy Man.
He shows up with flowers on every date, texts you from morning to night, cooks for you, and seems like the perfect guy in general… until you notice that he’s actually a clingy man.
Deep down, he’s insecure, so he needs you to constantly reassure him that he’s worth something.
Yes, gestures can be nice, but can you imagine having to cuddle your man 24/7 for the rest of your life?
We neither.
15. He Knows Everything.
He turns every conversation into a debate just so he can hear himself speak.
He tells you that he has read all the books you mentioned and that he has studied this and that.
But if there are things he still needs to learn, he won’t take it.
He will put up the biggest fight to ensure that he, in fact, knows everything.
What if he loses?
Get ready for days of tantrums and frowns.
16. The Married Man.
This is an absolute “no!”. Bad idea.
First, he is already committed.
He assumed a relationship with one in health and in sickness, in riches and in poverty, until death does them part.
Second, how exactly do you think this is going to work for you?
What if his wife finds out?
It’s a lot of drama and you don’t have to be a part of it.
There are a plethora of interesting single men out there.
There are still good, honest, intelligent, ambitious, hardworking, and socially balanced men out there.
So don’t lose hope.
It can take some time to find the good ones among all the idiots, traitors, greedy, needy, and lazy people you see out there.
Don’t settle for any of those mentioned, because you deserve so much more than they can offer.
This guy is out there waiting for you, he might even show up in your life when you least expect it.
There are good men, there are bad men, and there are men not even worth knowing.
Now that you know what types of men to avoid, remember to run far away from them to save yourself trouble and heartache.