Why Men Pull Away When They’re Having Personal Problems?

Have you ever wondered why men pull away from relationships when they are having personal problems?

Perhaps he is having problems at work, financial problems and an illness in the family, etc.

Whatever the issue, many men will start to pull away from the woman in their lives when they face certain issues.

As a woman, you want to be there for your man when he needs you.

The problem is that when a man is facing difficult times in his life, he often prefers to be alone.

You shouldn’t take it personally; men and women are just different.

Generally speaking, when a woman has a problem, she wants someone to listen. You want to talk about the things that are bothering you.

You don’t necessarily want someone to solve the problem for you, you just want someone to listen.

Most men are just the opposite.

They don’t want to talk about their problems, they just want some time to figure things out and fix them for themselves.

This is a big reason why men pull away from relationships when they are under stress. They just want some time to figure things out.

If you are in the early stages of a relationship, the man you are dating may call, text or email less often when he has some issues he needs to deal with.

In a long-term relationship or even a marriage, your man may need some time to himself and disappear to figure things out.

Sometimes men need something to occupy their time for a while.

A woman might think a man is wasting his time when he’s playing video games or tinkering around in the garage, but a man who is dealing with issues in his life needs to do something he finds relaxing and enjoyable to get his mind off things.

For a while.

The last thing many men want to do when they are having personal problems is to talk about their feelings.

It’s important to give your man the space he needs when he’s having personal issues.

Eventually, he will figure things out and your relationship will get back to normal.

As a woman, it’s important to understand this about your man.

If he goes into his den, or garage, he really doesn’t want you to follow him there, trying to get him to talk about what’s bothering him.

If he tells you that things between you are fine and that he’s just dealing with some personal issues, give him the space and time he needs to work things out on his own.

Men pull away for many different reasons…but it might not be the reason you think!

So relax, because in addition to that, he can often also pull away momentarily to test you, especially at the beginning of the relationship, where he wants to see how much you are in love…

So, firmness always, always calm and confident that the best is for you!

 

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