Before starting this post, I’ll warn you right away that there is a difference between being the woman a man wants to protect and between being the beast, fool, or doormat…
It makes a difference!
Come on, let me try to put my point of view so that it is very clear.
The man’s view of a woman for him to “protect”, is a woman who, first and foremost, is feminine!
She has her womanizing, she has her frivolous moments, her serious moments, but above all, she is firm!
That’s a big difference because women think that being firm, imposing yourself, is wanting to compete with men and that’s very different from the real meaning!
If you compete with a man, you can be sure, you will end up losing…
First, because his masculinity will speak louder, because you know he’s been the hunter since ancient times and that still hasn’t changed and will probably take centuries, or even millennia, to change.
Do you know that smart woman who practically doesn’t need to say anything to her partner?
She’s probably a woman he wants to protect…
She knows how to demonstrate the right fragility at the right times and that leaves him enchanted.
But I BET when it’s time to get serious, there she is, and he respects her.
When a man loves you, he knows when you’re serious and when you’re not!
And he takes the greatest pleasure in the world in feeling that you need protection…
That’s why he wants to protect you from the rain by giving you his coat.
Want to protect yourself from someone who didn’t respect you, and will always defend you?
Anyway, you can always count on him!
Now, don’t want to see the fury of a man who feels coerced by a woman.
First, they know that if a woman wants to rule, she wants and is doing it only for her ego…
Afterward, he can even do it for a certain time, but he will get tired…
And last but not least, he will feel obliged to show who will win the competition.
And that’s why you lose.
It loses because disputing strength does not lead to anything, only to an enormous expenditure of useless vital energy.
In the end, you’ll be at rock bottom, wondering why he was able to act like that…
So, my tip for today is: Be a woman, be smart, be feminine just the way you are, and you will have any man at your feet!