First of all, I want to say that I’m not generalizing anything… But I’m going to tell you from my experiences and the cases I’ve seen where the man wants to take a break!
I know, you could be being very clingy in the relationship, super jealous, controlling, and of course, the poor thing, he wanted to take a break,
Claiming that you suffocate him, leaving you hyper-mega guilty of the situation!
It’s okay, you might even have a little guilt in the notary.
But the part you don’t know is that:
What does it mean to take a break?
We, women, think it’s cool down, think about life, take a long shower, watch some movies to relax…
So far ok, everything is beautiful!
But do you know what it’s like to take a break in a man’s head?
Being very direct: “I’m going to scratch around a bit, while you stay there quietly waiting for me to come back…”
In other words: “You’re going to be grounded for thinking about what a bad girl you are… I’ll be back later”
And what do most women do? They look like a fool waiting for the guy…
They deprive themselves of everything, while they are chilling out at the club, drinking with friends, and sometimes even with others…
And there are still the bad guys, who take advantage of the woman’s feelings, ask for time, and, as usual,
You always feel guilty and end up running after asking to come back… (aff, what a humiliation)…
Then they lie down and roll over and the time he could look for you extends even further…
After all, if he was already sure of her feelings for him before (because of course, a woman who is super jealous and insecure, the man thinks he’s the last cookie…) imagine after that!
And do you know what happens? He will always ask for time…
And then you ask me why there is yo-yo dating…
So my friend, if I have a very loving piece of advice to share, it is:
If the boy asks for time, give this answer: “The watch gives time… If you want, we can finish now…”
And if you’re there anguished waiting… wondering why he doesn’t come soon… calling to talk… depriving yourself of living life…
Do not do this!!!
You have a life worth living, don’t stop for anyone!
If he feels suffocated, you need to review your attitudes and change, but if they broke up, then nothing fairer than you also have the right to do what you want!!!