There is no magic formula for a good serious relationship. There is no woman-type that men want to have by their side, and you don’t have to be of high value or have anything special for a man to fall in love with you and engage.
After all, all lasting relationships are different from each other.
No man or woman thinks the same, no one likes the same things and works the same way.
What I mean is that there is no mathematical formula for a man to fall in love and engage with you. It all depends on the person.
You have probably already started a relationship thinking that it was good, that you had found the one you wanted, but that in the end you were disappointed.
Either it was him, or it was you who didn’t feel the same.
You weren’t on the same page and what you wanted to be forever turned into a complete failure.
It is neither the fault of the man in question nor of yours. It didn’t just work because the two of you couldn’t make it work.
Maybe one of you didn’t put in as much effort as the other, but the fact is that it was easier to give up rather than trying to save something that was not worth it worth saving.
While there is no one-size-fits-all solution for getting love and commitment, some love tips can show you the way.
You may not have noticed, but the reason many men fall in love is the special traits that many women have.
How are women with whom men fall in love and engage with them?
1. They have a lot of different qualities
Here, different meaning opposite. They are not just one. They don’t always behave the same way.
They are ready to act depending on the situation. For example, these women have the facade of a nice girl, who would not hurt a fly, but behind that, there is a suspicion of a bad girl.
These women are the perfect fusion of the two. Men love these kinds of qualities in a woman.
For example, it’s like when you talk to a very intelligent woman but (unfortunately, because of the clichés) you don’t expect her to be s**xy or to be a party girl.
When a man meets a woman who has these contradictory characteristics, they immediately go mad.
Men don’t like women who can only do one thing and live a conformist life.
Similarly, if you are too s**xy or too nice, if you are generally only one thing, it reveals that you do not have confidence in yourself.
The perfect woman is a mixture of a little bit of everything, which shows that she has confidence in herself and that she can be anything she wants.
2. They have the maternal hand
You know that men are the most sensitive when it comes to their mother. And at the end of the day, that’s what they’re looking for in a woman.
I don’t mean that they are looking for someone to wash and feed them, but someone who is attentive and kind.
Of course, passionate s**x and languid kisses are good, but not 24 hours a day.
All the men, basically, want us to take care of them and to be pampered.
They want to be cuddled and want a woman who looks them in the eye when she touches them.
Men want to feel this maternal wave in a woman because they will feel safe.
And the women who know how to make them feel protected are the ones they love the most. Maybe they are not even aware of it, but they are programmed that way.
3. They are emotional
Their emotions have a power that you cannot even imagine.
If they want to, using their feelings, they can push a man away or bring him closer than ever. It’s all in the way you express yourself.
The main trait of a woman who is attractive to most men is that she can communicate her emotions in a mature way.
She is not going to behave like a kid if something is wrong the way she wants, and she is not going to get carried away when faced with a serious situation.
These women don’t suffocate their men. They balance their emotions to create the perfect environment.
4. They are vulnerable
Men love women who are honest about their feelings.
They crack if they see that a woman is not afraid to open up to them and show them what is going on in her head.
Even if they are afraid to open up, they will, because it is the only way to show a man what they feel and what they think of him.
Most women these days, and most people, keep things to themselves. They don’t want to expose themselves to someone because it makes them vulnerable.
When a woman confines herself thus, it can go too far and involuntarily, she will scare away a man who was interested in her, which is understandable.
If a woman is not vulnerable, the man cannot take care of her.
And when he has no one to take care of, there is a good chance that he will leave you.
5. They know how to give space and freedom to their man
When you are in a serious relationship, this does not give you the right to rule your partner and decide for both.
These women know this and they know that for a man to fall in love and commit, he must be given space.
Men work this way, unlike women. When a woman is injured, she will need to talk to someone about it.
She will need emotional support and understanding, but when a man is hurt or has a problem, he will shut down. He will try to find a way to manage it by himself.
That’s why you have to give it space. If he comes home annoyed and you see he has a problem, let him fix it for himself.
When it’s done, he’ll tell you about it. If you bother him with millions of questions like “what is it?” “, Or” why are you weird? It will only make things worse and you will not have an answer.
Let him lock himself in his lair and take care of his own business.
6. They are independent
These women know how to live by themselves. Make it clear, men like to be needed, after all who doesn’t like it?
But this need must stop at some point. You have to know how to distinguish between need and obsession.
Men fall in love with women who do everything by themselves but are not afraid to ask for their help.
These women will integrate a man into their lives but cling to theirs.
So before you talk about engagement, you need to show him that you are doing very well on your own, that you don’t need a man to take care of you. Men find it very s**xy.
It’s a bit contradictory, because they want to have someone to take care of, but if you just become that, someone to take care of, they’ll lose interest in you immediately.
Being needy is not an attractive trait, while independence is.
7. They know how to make a man happy
It doesn’t seem like a character trait but if you make someone you know happy, it means that you are someone pleasant, which is a personality trait, and very attractive. more.
These women know how to create a situation in which their man realizes that he is happy with her.
They will arouse deep emotions in them and if they leave, this feeling will be missed by the man in question. When that happens, it’s the engagement jackpot!
You have to do things that you both enjoy, you have to have fun with him. It is in these situations that he will feel happy and secure.
And if you leave, these are the situations that will remind him how good he was with you. In short, he will want to get involved.
8. They know how to value and appreciate it
Men need to feel appreciated. They need someone to help them do what they want.
They need the support of a woman, emotional and of all kinds.
The women who give them that are the ones they want to keep. It’s kind of like boosting their ego in a way.
If you want to enchant his heart once and for all, compliment him. Tell him that he is a successful man, that he is attractive, make him feel important. He will only love you more.
This will leave him with the impression that you trust him and his judgment, and that you are confident that he can do great things.
That said, don’t overdo it with compliments. They can quickly get boring if you keep saying the same thing.
Stay natural and from time to time, show him what you think of him.
9. They’ll never try to change it
He needs to know that you trust him and that you are comfortable with the person he is.
Women who know how to make a man commit do just that. They just give them enough freedom so that they don’t lose themselves.
They know that you cannot change people, and that every man they meet has some sort of defect.
It is up to you to see if you will make this defect an obsession that will spoil your relationship, or if you will learn to live with it.
After all, no one is perfect, not even you.
You have to make him think you like him the way he is. Affirm to him that he does not need to change who he is to meet your expectations.
He will appreciate the fact that you understand him and that you are happy with him for what he is.
Surely, that will make him want to engage with you, because frankly, a woman like that is difficult to find.
10. They know when to let them intervene
As has already been written, men need to feel useful, without being taken advantage of.
This is a big advantage if you are independent, but you should also know that, if you are too independent, he will think that you do not need him and he will possibly withdraw from the first stages. You have to play it fine.
These women know exactly how much independence to show a man.
They know when it’s the right time to let it happen and do something for them.
They know how to make him feel they need him, but just the amount he needs. Be smart and try to do the same.
Fortunately, these are traits you can learn, so it is not impossible to use them so that a man falls in love and engages with you.
Work on yourself and you will get there.