What secrets are hidden in the head of your loved one? I’ll tell you how to find out everything you need to know about your partner!
I will show you how you can know what your partner sees and looks for in you, his past, the plans he has in the relationship and how to ask questions naturally without making it feel like an interrogation.
KNOWING YOUR FAVORITE COLOR AND FOOD ARE THINGS THAT COME NATURALLY
But there are things that are really important to know if you want to grow your relationship.
There is much that you can discover about your partner that will make you appreciate the relationship and feel closer to him than ever.
By knowing his way of thinking and seeing things in depth, he will know that you know a little more about him, increasing that feeling of comfort that he feels so well with that special someone.
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR PARTNER: WHAT HE SEES IN YOU!
If there is something very important that you should know about your partner, it is what he sees in you.
With that you can also discover what it is looking for in you; all those qualities that you can use to conquer him every day and be irresistible to him.
Knowing what your partner is looking for in you is essential to keep your feet on the ground in the relationship.
Offering your partner just what they want will ensure that they will be more than happy by your side.
Think of all the qualities and purposes that you would like your partner to see in you.
QUESTIONS LIKE THE FOLLOWING CAN BE VERY HELPFUL:
- What fascinates you the most about me?
- Is there something that I do that you love?
- What are the things you saw in me that made you want to be together?
- Do you think I’m a good girlfriend / wife?
- What do you feel when you see me?
- How would you describe me?
- How would you describe me as a couple?
- What do you think is my best quality?
All the things that you see in yourself and would like to know if your partner sees them too. Just ask!
For example: depending on his answer to “Do you like that he has a strong personality?”, You might know if he really perceives that, if he likes it or would like to see some changes in this regard.
When you begin to discover everything you need to know about your partner, you may be surprised to learn that he sees you as the best in his world.
KNOW YOUR PAST TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE PRESENT
It is clear that each relationship is unique. Something you should never do is compare your relationship with past relationships or with other couples; This will only make it difficult for you to fully enjoy and live yours in the present.
But taking reference of what we have lived in our loving journey can be very useful. The past is not there to hold onto; just to learn.
Many of the experiences in our previous relationships allow us to recognize which are the experiences that we find pleasant and which we would not like to live again as a couple.
The past is something that shapes us; Knowing the experiences of your partner in his past relationships and his opinion of them, will help you know what things to do that will make him recognize that you are the right person and what things you should avoid if you do not want to take him away from you.
Knowing the mistakes that his past partners made, will help you not to fall into the same failures, even guiding you to exceed all the expectations that he has of you driving him crazy for always being with you.
By making your partner feel that those bad experiences from their past relationships will not happen with you, you will see how trust and commitment in the relationship is present.
Making him feel like you can take those good experiences in his past relationships and take them to another level, you will melt his heart and watch him fall at your feet every day.
LEARN A BIT MORE ABOUT THEIR PAST LOVE LIFE WITH QUESTIONS LIKE:
- What was it that ended your past relationship?
- What was it that bothered you the most about your ex?
- Is there something your ex did that let you down?
- Is there something that happened to your ex that you would never forgive?
- What have you enjoyed the most about your past relationships?
- How was your first relationship?
- Is there something nice that you never forget about any of your exes?
- What is the most valuable thing you have done in a relationship?
DISCOVER THE PLANS YOU HAVE FOR THE TWO
Where is the relationship and where is it going? Those are questions we’ve all asked ourselves at some point.
After all, it is nice to confirm that you are investing your time and effort in a person who plans to stay by your side doing the same.
Of everything you should know about your partner, the plans he has for both of you, he can give you a lot of information about how committed he is in the relationship, seeing how much of the future he sees with you.
It will also show you if their plans are like yours; There is nothing more beautiful than knowing that your partner walks with you in the same direction.
Questions like these can help you understand what plans you have.
Someone who gives answers that describe things in the long term or in the future is very likely committed to the relationship.
- What do you imagine we will be doing in a few months?
- Would you like us to travel together soon?
- Have you ever thought how long you would like to be with me?
- What would you most like to do with me?
- What would you like to see happen between the two of you?
- How would you live your perfect relationship?
- How would you like this relationship to be?
Depending on how far the relationship has progressed, you can ask more specific questions about your plans such as: what do you think of the marriage, if you want to have a family or not, etc.
IF YOU HAVE AN AGREEMENT WHERE THINGS ARE GOING IS AN EXCELLENT SIGN!
If with these questions you realize that there are certain things that are not compatible with what you expected. Now you have the knowledge to work on it and improve it!
THE TIMES TO ASK: DON’T WORRY YOUR PARTNER
Of course you are dying to know everything about your partner; Now that you know how to ask and what to observe, you may want to spend the rest of the day on top of it knowing even the smallest detail.
But you need to be careful not to do that. Try to take a good time to get to know your partner, but do not neglect to take advantage of the present with him and enjoy the moments together.
Continual questions can have a bad effect, even making it feel like an interrogation.
If so, you will probably feel uncomfortable and will begin to shut down to respond. If that happens, take some time out of the questions and dedicate yourself to simply enjoying it as a couple.
Feeling too many uncomfortable questions can also cause him to think something is wrong, making him anxious as to be an inconvenience between the two of you.
Take advantage of certain conversation topics that allow questions to be asked naturally and match what they are talking about.
For example, speaking of what they would like to accomplish for the day, it is a good topic to ask questions about future plans.
Speaking of those things so characteristic of his friends and acquaintances, it is a good time to ask what he sees in you. So just ask in a casual and relaxed way; Getting to know your partner deeply is something that takes time.
Similarly, you can come up with fun questions for your boyfriend.
Questions can help, but living moments with him defines everything.
In this case, the role of healthy communication as a couple is fundamental since it defines understanding in the relationship.
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR PARTNER: THE RIGHT TO THEIR OWN WORLD!
I KNOW YOU WANT TO KNOW EVEN THE SMALLEST DETAIL
Maybe even the darkest secret, everything you think that can help you know who he really is and will give you security in the relationship.
You will find that there are certain topics or questions that make your partner uncomfortable, so you must recognize things like male body language the secret to conquering .
It is necessary to understand that even sharing life with someone, we all have the right to a little privacy. That personal space, unique to each one, is very important to maintain.
Even when your partner moves away it can be related to this.
If there is something very important that you should always keep in mind, it is this: respect the privacy of your partner.
There will be things that he will tell you the moment he feels is right; That degree of openness will change as the relationship progresses and the state it is in.
A sense of open and honest communication will always make him feel comfortable, so that you will notice that on some occasions he will say those difficult things to say without you having to ask.
There will be things that he will not tell you, with his personal and valid reasons that you will have to respect as a couple. All in the same way that you would like him to respect your privacy.
After all that, it’s a lot about relationships, understanding each other. Respect each other to make love grow.
Of everything you need to know about your partner, never forget that he is a person just like you, with his own sunny days and storms.
The important thing for him to see you as the ideal person is not what you ask him, it is the support you show.
GETTING TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER DEEPLY
Everything you need to know about your partner will help you take your relationship to the next level.
There are things that you will be able to know simply by asking, others that you will discover through their decisions and actions.
Wanting to know everything you need to know about your partner is the destination we all want to reach, but never forget to enjoy the trip.
Really knowing your partner is something that takes time, participating, and living the relationship to the fullest.
You never want to meet by force, because you feel like you are your property or want to calm your insecurities.
KNOW YOUR PARTNER FOR LOVE: FOR HAVING A MEANINGFUL CONNECTION
These topics and questions will help you start that beautiful journey in the best possible way.
All that knowledge will be your support to work on your quality as a couple and in any detail that the relationship needs.
So take advantage of the connection that you are creating. I wish you the best of trips with your partner.