In a hurry? Here are our top five tips for making yourself irresistible to any Virgo man:
- Take care of your appearance; Care is important for the Virgo man.
- Show kindness and charity.
- Keep yourself clean; the Virgo man doesn’t like a foul mouth.
- Love your job (or at least pretend!).
- Never betray his trust.
Why Set Your Heart On A Virgo Man?
Culture and sophistication often go hand in hand with snobbery and even cruelty.
Not with the Virgo man, though: his sense of refinement is tempered by gentle, decent nature.
Conquering A Virgo Man.
The Virgo man is something of a perfectionist, particularly when it comes to matters of the heart.
In fact, he may have waited literally years for the right person to show up.
It puts you in a pretty difficult position because you are that person or you are not.
He will likely have a mental photograph of this woman, not to mention a detailed psychological profile.
So who is this amazing individual?
How to Attract a Virgo Man
Well, the chances are slim for this non-existent individual to even exist!
Your challenge when trying to win over the Virgo man is to make him forget about this perfect woman he has in his head and give you a chance.
First thing: your appearance.
The Virgo man is extremely picky about his own appearance and applies his own often pathologically high standards to others.
Nothing makes a Virgo man more pissed off than poor hygiene, or worse, lack of hygiene.
To attract even a Virgo man’s initial gaze, you’ll need to be clean, spotless, and without any hairs out of place.
It’s no big deal, right?
If you are impeccable by nature, no problem, otherwise you may have to make an appointment at the salon as a first starting point.
Look on the bright side, however, this gives you the perfect opportunity to have some quality “just you time”!
The Virgo man is a sidekick by nature, so in the workplace, you’re likely to find him in some sort of sidekick, helping someone else get things done.
A great way to talk to a Virgo man is to ask for his help: he’s happy to help.
However, he finds helplessness or, more accurately, cluelessness to be very unpleasant.
If you go to him for help, it should be because he’s the right guy for this particular problem and not because you’re in the mud and don’t know what else to do.
When talking to the Virgo man, try to include in the conversation anything you’ve done to help someone less fortunate than you, as the Virgo man is very charitable by nature.
Ask him to sponsor you for some fundraising activity and not only will he gladly accept, but he’ll also probably ask how he can participate in person!
Virgos love their work and are fiercely loyal to their professions and their employers.
The Virgo man is absolutely the wrong person to have “I hate my job” or “my boss is mean” conversations.
If you’re not happy with your current employer, it’s best not to say anything for now, because the Virgo man isn’t going to like anything.
How to Attract a Virgo Man
Another big ‘no’ when talking to the Virgo man is coarse language and profanity.
Your notion of cleanliness also extends to vocabulary, so you might need to check your foul mouth!
Talking to the Virgo man is never a bad idea as they tend to find it difficult to switch from ‘work mode’ to ‘leisure mode’.
In fact, they find talking about work at the end of a hard day extremely relaxing.
So, in a nutshell, talk about charity, work, work, charity, work, and more work, and you’ll be very connected to the Virgo man’s brainwaves.
However, the Virgo man isn’t particularly good at showing his emotions, so you might find it a little difficult to know if you’ve made an impact or not.
When in doubt, ask him out.
Just remember to keep it simple and unsentimental.
He doesn’t need to know what you think of him or how awesome he is: a simple, “Are you doing something Friday night?” Or better yet, “I’m going to this charity party on Friday night, would you like to come with me?”
The Ideal Encounter with the Virgo Man
I wasn’t kidding about the charity, by the way.
For the Virgo man, a night out to help less fortunate people really is the perfect date!
However, if you want to do something a little more romantic than helping out in a soup kitchen for a few hours, the Virgo man is quite cultured and will find an evening at the theater extremely satisfying.
The most important thing to remember when dating a Virgo man is to never, ever be late.
Not even a little bit.
For the Virgo man, punctuality is both a virtue and an inexcusable vice.
What to Wear for the Virgo Man
The Virgo man can be a bit prudish and likes sensible clothes in subtle tones, nothing bright and primal.
Creams and browns always feature on her palette when it comes to clothes.
As stated earlier, personal hygiene is of the utmost importance for the Virgo man.
So, instead of exotic perfumes, it responds to subtle, fresh scents that imply cleanliness.
Gifts for the Virgo Man
Generally, the Virgo man will appreciate a book as a gift.
They are not given to financial extravagance, so they will appreciate the monetary restraint of this relatively inexpensive gift.
When selecting a book, avoid anything useless; It is far better to opt for something that demonstrates good taste, such as a book of poetry or something literary or educational.
Cleaning-related products such as a beard trimmer are always appreciated.
The Virgo man doesn’t see anything effeminate in bath salts or a natural sea sponge!
Keeping Your Virgo Man
The Virgo man is not difficult to keep.
As long as you are kind and decent, the Virgo man will love you.
He likes his private life to be kept private and sees any breach of trust as a terrible betrayal.
He will also find it difficult to live happily with a slovenly or chaotic woman.
Even people who don’t put things back together make him mad with rage!
What are you getting carried away?
Okay, you probably got the impression that the Virgo man is some sort of obsessive-compulsive, and…well, that’s not far from the truth.
He likes it all that way and sees cleanliness as not just beside, but above and beyond godliness!
This obsessive temperament can manifest as nervous or even neurotic behavior.
You Might Find The Virgo Man Harder To Deal With If You’re From…
… Sagittarius, Pisces, or Gemini, and particularly challenging if you are an Aquarius or Aries.
But don’t worry: true love conquers all!
The Great Do:
A little kindness will go a long way.
The Big Don’t:
Avoid any kind of cruelty (even the scathing and strange remark, however ironic).
The Practicality of the Virgo Man
The Virgo man experiences life through the eyes of someone who believes in using good logic and common sense to overcome difficult areas in life.
He sees the world in an analytical sense, noting the interconnectedness and relationship between one entity and another.
In fact, the practical nature of any event, circumstance, or product is perhaps the most important aspect for a Virgo man.
The Virgo man tends to be overly critical of others, events, and life in general.
He finds it difficult to be satisfied or content with life, as everywhere he looks, he finds faults.
His own fault may be the simple fact that he finds fault with almost every human being, every situation, and every aspect of life.
He finds it difficult to perform in a situation that is disorganized and prefers order to disorder every time.
Spontaneity eludes the Virgo man as an unsuitable quality for any circumstance.
Unfortunately, the Virgo man is often critical of others, causing him to have a hard time finding a woman to form a solid relationship with.
Instead, he is selective in his choice of love, failing to find anyone for a long time, if at all.
His selectivity leads him to release a lack of control when dealing with the situation, as few women satisfy his demands.
Also, the Virgo man is reluctant to expose his inner self to another being.
Intimacy is not something he is comfortable with, as he is reluctant to become vulnerable and exposed to another.
Because he works on a rational rather than an emotional level, being intimate is an activity that is unnatural to him.
However, he desires to fall fervently in love with someone who is able to complement his qualities and personality.