How to Play “Hard to Catch” and Become Instantly Attractive

Playing the difficult woman works. No wonder smart women use this tactic.

However, you need to know how to use it correctly, otherwise, you run the risk of creating the impression of the arrogant woman that every man wants to stay away from.

The difficult woman concept is simple. How to play a difficult woman? Just act disinterested, even dying to date the handsome guy at the gym or the guy at work.

A man used to gain the attention of all women whenever he wants will find it strange that you ignore him… and it will drive him crazy!

Being a difficult woman is extremely effective in gaining men’s attention and also in keeping them interested in you. It’s no secret that men want what they can’t have.

The mystery is fundamental to human nature. Obstacles and difficulty are characteristics that men find attractive, a difficult woman ends up becoming a challenge.

If you want to know how to drive men crazy, You’re in the right place. When men don’t know what you really think about them and what you’re looking for, they end up obsessing over you.

Playing the difficult woman is a necessary strategy to see how strong your suitor is and how far he is willing to go to win your heart.

It’s worth remembering that you are “playing” with a person’s feelings, so be responsible.

1. Difficult Woman Gives the Impression of Being Friendly

The first tip for being a difficult woman is to be seen. Let everyone know you’re there and have the right body language to attract interest.

This means smiling, standing with your body open, with your arms uncrossed, head up, and spine straight. If you are single, try to show that you are single indirectly. If you’re not single, don’t pretend you are.

Don’t be afraid to flirt a little. When you’re playing the difficult woman, you’re not necessarily rejecting all men who are interested in you right away.

You have to create an initial attraction. Give men the impression that you are friendly and not the type of woman who plays games. You are selling your image.

No matter what kind of person you are, you will never want to come across as a thick woman just on first contact. A little class is essential.

distance yourself

Once you’ve created an attraction and are flirting with someone you like, it’s time to create some distance. You can do this by excusing yourself and simply leaving the conversation to go talk to someone else.

If he wants your cell number, be resistant. Don’t try to seem needy or desperate.

The secret is to pretend you have a full list of men at your disposal so that the guy you want so badly doesn’t seem so special.

2. Difficult Woman Is Vague In Conversations With Men

One trait that men find absolutely irresistible is the mystery woman. Don’t reveal your entire life at once. All questions asked by a man should have short answers.

Leave things to his imagination. Let him make all the effort necessary and expend as little energy as possible when he interviews you.

Show the slightest interest in him and his life, as if you’re a trophy he must work very hard to earn.

Don’t give him what he expects to get from you

If a guy is nice and does nice things for you, like buying you a drink at the bar, say thank you, but don’t feel like you owe him a debt.

The vast majority of men have ulterior motives when they are nice and you should never assume that a guy did you a favor just because he’s nice.

If you find that, men will take advantage of you. Pretend he always owes you a favor.

3. Difficult Woman Lets The Man Make Effort For Her

If he really wants you, he’ll know how to deal with all the dumps you give him. The key is to show him that his time is not worth much to you.

Being a difficult woman means getting men to fit their schedules into yours.

Never let him think you’re an easy woman. You should always reinforce the fact that you are a woman of great worth with a very busy social and professional life.

establish your worth

Never put his life before yours. New relationships should be one of your lowest priorities, because you know boyfriends come and go in the blink of an eye.

Don’t sacrifice your valuable time for someone you just met.

Every man should change his schedule to fit yours because his time is more valuable.

put him in his place

If he ever finds he’s too comfortable in the relationship, look for ways to change things up every now and then. By canceling and rescheduling dates, you are making him respect your time.

Be a woman of your word and make your intentions very clear to ensure he doesn’t get the wrong idea about you.

4. Difficult Woman doesn’t need any man to have a happy life

You need that mindset when playing a difficult woman. Your life is important enough without a perfect boyfriend.

Make an effort to ingrain that belief in your mind. By doing this, you increase the chances of finding a man who respects you and who you love and respect as well.

you are the priority

Living your life without dependence on anyone else is an effective and powerful concept for winning over the man of your dreams.

By playing the difficult woman, you are showing everyone that you are perfectly capable of being single.

Being single is not an excuse to scream your need for a relationship. You should always be satisfied with things the way they are and men are just a bonus.


Men want the tallest apple on the tree. If he just “reaches out” to have you, it won’t take long for him to get sick, lose respect, and maybe even become a bad boyfriend.

That’s why playing the difficult woman works so well.

Now, don’t be the impossible woman! You can drive a good man away once and for all. That’s why tip number 1 is so important.