1. She has a strong sense of identity.
She knows who she is, just like what she expects from a partner.
She is perfectly aware of the type of people with whom she gets along and those who would make her want to take refuge in her burrow and stay there.
2. She has important goals to deal with first – and whose love would distract her.
She seriously believes that there are certain missions in life that she must accomplish and that she can only successfully complete if she is alone.
So if she is busy with one of these tasks, it is likely that you will find yourself in “waiting” for a little while.
3. She will be content with nothing less than her soul mate.
If she chooses to open up to someone, it will certainly not be for an adventure. What is more, your intentions must be sincere.
Fools are not welcome. She’s probably been alone for a while because a man treated her miserably.
Someone had to prove to her that she would be better alone than badly accompanied.
4. She doesn’t like acting.
And she will not participate in any way. She wants a sincere person, who puts all her cards on the table.
She needs to know that you are being honest and that you will not be playing comedy with her, because she has absolutely no interest in it.
She is an adult and therefore is looking for someone who treats her as such.
5. She has high expectations.
The fact that she has been alone for too long does not mean that she will be content with anything or anyone.
She expects a lot from herself and therefore expects just as much from her partner.
If you don’t want to make an effort and meet their expectations, don’t even bother …
6. She’s not sure she can trust you.
It’s because of its past and there’s nothing you can’t do about it. You will have to pass the test and prove to him that you will not harm him.
She sees the world through the lens of her usual glasses and they have already proven to her enough that she cannot trust people.
7. She probably thinks she doesn’t need you.
I can do it alone.
No, I don’t need help.
It’s okay.
You will hear this a number of times. It’s just that she got used to being alone and forgot about the feeling of having someone next to you.
It is for this reason that you will hear a number of versions of the above sentences. It’s your job to make him want to rest on you.
8. Loneliness is his shelter.
Staying alone at home, lighting candles, pouring a glass of wine and reliving the things that happened to her while trying to convince herself that forgetting is the best thing to do, has saved her a number of times.
Being alone saved her and made her strong – don’t even bother trying to take that away from her.
9. She is strong.
Because strength was the only option she had ever had.
When you are alone for so long, no one other than yourself is there to pick up the pieces and if you are not strong enough, the fear of ending up miserable can be overwhelming.
And being unhappy was never an option for her. It is for this reason that she is, and has been her own savior.
10. You will have to fight for it to open to you.
Abandoning your safety and inviting you to enter your personal space is a huge step outside your comfort zone.
She is one of those rare girls who do everything by themselves.
As soon as you get such a chance, you’ll see how wonderful it is because it doesn’t open as easily to anyone.
11. It may be strange at times.
She is very funny and her friends love her. Being with her is amazing as will be when she understands that you want more than a friendship.
She forgot the feeling of having a man by her side and she doesn’t really know how to behave because she also forgot what it was like to work in pairs and also because she is afraid of her feelings for you.
If you are not her type, you do not open her but if she likes you, it will be exceptionally obvious.
12. It is likely that she is trying to escape.
Rather, she has self-confidence, but perhaps she will not have confidence in your relationship.
Her feelings could scare her – the possibility of your heartbreaking her probably scares her and she may try to run away and ignore you.
Your task is to not let it happen. Your task is to prove to him that history will not repeat itself.
13. What you have to offer her should be better than what she had created by being alone.
She doesn’t need your money and probably doesn’t need anything hardware either. She was alone and her life works very well as well.
You can’t buy it. But you can make her want to have you by her side.
She will likely think that she does not need you and most of the time it will be true. But if she chooses you, it will be because she wants you.
And the only way to make her want you is by making her feel special when she’s with you.
Spoil her with your love, give her your time and make an effort for both of you, she will reward you doubly.
Bonus: It is definitely worth it.
If it is not really possible to use “traditional techniques” to seduce her, it is because she is not an ordinary girl.
What you get will be far more valuable than that. You will get an extraordinary girl.
A girl who, once you tear down her walls, will take care of you, give you her time as well as her attention and love you unconditionally.
She will make sure you get everything you give her back – with just a little extra.
She will not bother to play comedy, she will not make you scenes of jealousy and she will not ask you for the impossible.
You will have by your side an adult woman, one of a kind.
She knows her value and yours too. In fact, having it with you will only increase the interest in your life.
It may be a challenge but it is damn worth it.
