1. He sends short and effortless responses
You really make an effort when you text him, make sure they’re not boring, that they show how interesting and funny you are… and he responds with just one word!
He does not participate. Sending text messages is a two-way street. The efforts must be mutual or you will not get anywhere.
This is the first little indicator of bias that you want to avoid at all costs.
2. He’s too busy to answer you
Most people are on the phone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, so it’s really weird if someone doesn’t answer your text immediately.
Certainly, people take showers, eat, sleep, work, etc. without their phone.
However, if he’s too busy to answer during the day, you don’t even have to keep texting him.
No one can be so busy, and it makes you walk.
3. He forgets to respond to a text
Ask yourself, “Have I ever forgotten it?” The answer will probably be: “No.” It’s because you like it and you care about it.
If he’s so absorbed in his day that he can’t find a minute to text you, he’s just not attracted to you, and that’s the hard truth.
4. He talks about s**x far too early
A man who has not taken the time to get to know you, but who at the first opportunity mentions how he will take care of you in bed, is not a good man.
He’s not the man you can build a relationship with.
He has only one thing in mind, and he told you that all he wanted was fun. He doesn’t want to get to know you on a deeper level.
So remember that sending out s**xtings, nude photos, and every mention of early s**x is a huge wake-up call that he’s not interested in something more serious.
5. Delaying your response is part of your game
He thinks the only way to keep a girl interested is to muddle her mind. It all starts with texting.
He will send something and wait for hours before responding. It will ignore your last message as long as it thinks necessary.
If you are attracted to it, it will work. You will be on your guard all the time, wanting his next message.
However, he is openly showing you that he has PLAYER written on his forehead.
Stop answering his texts, you don’t have time to play.
6. He forgets to mention that he is already in a relationship
It must have “escaped” from his mind. Yeah that’s it, as if we could forget that we are in a relationship, whether engaged or married.
Unfortunately, nowadays, dates are filled with garbage like that.
Needless to say, don’t even consider answering him. The best thing to do is to block it on your phone and your life.
7. He doesn’t respond to your text
It goes without saying, but it is still worth mentioning: it is useless to send a text message right after the other, if your first has had no response.
You will have the impression of communicating on your own and not with him. You will look desperate and that will not make him respond any faster.
All in all, it is useless, if your text message has not been answered, drop it.
8. He gets angry because you didn’t respond immediately
It is a great warning sign. You have your own life, name of a dog, and there are hundreds of possible reasons why you couldn’t answer right away.
If he gets upset, it may be a warning that he shouldn’t text him at all.
Getting upset over something as trivial as that is a sign of control and jealousy. So be on your guard.
All in all, there is one rule you should apply when it comes to texting that will get this mess in order: Imagine your friend was in a similar situation and that your advice would be “Don’t answer him”, then say the same to yourself and – don’t answer.
In general, we get more results with an ignored text than with the one we send.