Every girl on this planet would like their romantic relationship to last, but unfortunately, that is not always the case.
Some girls have high expectations, and when they come across a man who doesn’t match the ideal man they dream of, they become disappointed.
On the other hand, there are the kind of girls who think that they don’t deserve love, and for them, it is enough that a man loves them for it to be good enough.
The most important thing in a relationship is whether the man you are with is really your soul mate or whether you are simply living in denial.
I know it can hurt to let someone go, but it’s better to do that than to live in terrible conditions.
For all of you who are not sure if this is the love of your life or just one more man in your life, here are some signs that the man you are dating is not your soul mate, even if you believed differently.
1. He doesn’t put you in the first place
A man who doesn’t put you first is certainly not someone who is worthy of your love.
If he doesn’t consider you a priority, chances are he will never love you the way you deserve.
A man who really loves a woman will put her first and his happiness will be more important to him than his own.
If your man continues to do things you don’t like and always puts you last, it may be time to sit down and talk to him about your plans for the future.
At least you will then know if he is serious about you or if you are just an adventure for him.
2. There is no s**xual attraction
S**xual attraction is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you feel that there is no s**xual attraction between the two of you, it means that something is wrong.
Couples who love each other can’t take their hands off each other, but if you feel like there are no more sparks in bed, you should worry.
Maybe your partner sees another girl who gives him what you don’t give him.
Or maybe he wants to break up with you, and doesn’t want to sleep with you anymore to prevent you from becoming even more attached.
Whatever the reason, it’s not good, and you should be completely open with him about it.
3. You are not comfortable with him
Even if you constantly tell yourself that you are made for each other and that you should feel comfortable with him, this is not the case.
When you come back and he is there, you have the impression that all your positive energy has dissipated and you suddenly lose your moral.
You also have the impression that with him, you cannot be who you really are and that you feel much better when he is not there.
It is a red sign that you are not made for each other, the faster you break up with him and the happier you will be.
4. You feel that he is no longer your person
If he is not the one you will call when something bad happens or when something good happens, it means that he is not someone so important in your life.
And we all know that our partner should be the most important person in our life.
If you think you can’t trust him, and you can’t share your secrets with him safely, then you should talk to him openly.
You should tell him everything that is bothering you and if he is not ready to change, tell him that you have nothing more to do with him. If he does not react to this alarm signal, pack your bags and find your happiness elsewhere.
5. He makes no effort in your relationship
If you feel that you are the only one making an effort, this is certainly a bad sign.
Both partners should invest equally in a relationship and if one of them does not, there is clearly a problem.
A man who does not want to make an effort for you and for your future is someone who is not interested enough in you and who does not take you seriously.
Maybe he doesn’t want to get involved, and the only things he wants are s**x and fun. If that’s what you want too, then okay, but if you want something more, then it’s time to talk to it.
6. He never compliments you
If you feel that your man never compliments anything you do, it means something is wrong.
A man should praise his wife from time to time, especially when she looks good or when she manages to achieve success.
If your man never does any of this, but wants you to compliment him, you can conclude that he is just narcissistic and that a relationship with him is a waste of time.
He will never give you the love you deserve and you will never be a truly happy woman with him.
7. You think of another man
If you are thinking about another man and all that he could do for you, it is certainly a sign that your current partner is not your soul mate.
You are just stuck in this relationship and are afraid to turn the page.
You may think that it is better to stay with him because he will change, but that will not happen.
If he doesn’t realize you’re in pain, it’s time to move on. Stay away from him and show him what he lost by leaving him.