You may not have thought it could happen one day but there you are, wondering if you should stay with him or go in search of your own happiness.
You think and still think, but you don’t think of anything constructive. One part of you still loves him, while another is extremely hurt by his behavior.
In order to help you find the best solution, here are some of the painful signs that it’s time to give it up.
I hope this will open your eyes if you realize you are going through this kind of thing on a daily basis but just refuse to face reality.
1. He makes you doubt yourself
If your partner does not accept you as you are and you find yourself doubting your worth in this relationship, it is time to give it up.
A man who truly loves you would accept you with all your faults and never ask you to change. But if you feel bad and feel like you’re not enough for him, something has to change.
You can try to confide your feelings to him but if after that he persists, everything you can do will be in vain.
2. When you are with him, you walk on eggs
Do you feel like you have to be careful about what you say or do in front of your partner? Are you afraid that he will hurt you if he finds you doing something he doesn’t like?
If the answer is yes, you should think about your situation and ask yourself if you want to be in the same place in a few years. You cannot put your life on hold, just to satisfy it.
You also can’t always put it first. When did he last do this for you? I never know.
So why would you sacrifice yourself for a man who couldn’t care less about you?
3. He demeans you in public
He sees it as a joke but in reality, this joke hurts you a lot. He always ends up saying something derogatory in public and he never shows concern for you.
By putting you down, he feels superior and has the impression of dominating your relationship. You have to tell him that what he is doing is not nice and that he must pull himself together if he wants to stay with you.
4. Nothing you do is good enough in their eyes
Do you know what it feels like to feel like you’re never enough in the eyes of the man who represents all of our world? Whatever you do, it’s never good for him and he always wants more.
Maybe it’s time to sit down and think about your feelings for him. Maybe you don’t like her behavior either, but just fear being alone.
I tell you, it is better to be alone than engaged in an unhealthy and toxic relationship. I am sure you will come to know what is best for you.
5. He’s not interested in you
Do you have the impression that he lives his life without making any effort to include you in it? Do you feel that the spark has gone out and that it has lost interest in you?
If these are things you are thinking about, it is time to give it up because obviously it is not giving you what you dream of.
And even if you think you can never meet someone else, someone who will know how to treasure you, you are wrong. A man who can see your worth will come.
But you know, Rome was not built in a day.
6. You beg for his love
If you have to beg him to receive the love and affection that are part of any normal relationship, your couple no longer deserves your efforts.
If you are the only one to love and make an effort, there is no reason to continue. If a man sees that you need him and pushes you away, it is a sign that he is not the right one and that you would be better off without him.
7. You hope he will eventually change
If you suffer in silence, hoping it will change, your relationship is not worth fighting for. Obviously, your companion does not cherish you and does things in his own way, without thinking of you.
Then, when you will have realized all that it makes you undergo, you will forgive him by love and you will pray to God so that he changes. Honey, let me tell you one thing: it will never change.
If you let him do it, he’ll take you by boat and not even have the slightest remorse.
8. Your gut tells you something is wrong
You know, that little voice inside you that tells you what’s wrong? What is she saying to you now?
Nothing good, is it? She’s certainly whispering to you that it’s no longer worth fighting for and that you should leave him and find someone who really makes you happy.
She tells you to abandon this man who abandoned you long ago and finally make yourself a priority. If I were you, I would listen to her because she is never wrong!