I’m like that, take it or leave it.
Here are words that only an emotionally immature man would be able to say during an argument with his wife.
Psychology points out that one of the biggest problems is the fact that at the start of a relationship we try to present ourselves in our best light and that it is, therefore, difficult to decide on someone’s maturity. that time.
After much research on the subject, psychologists have compiled a list of the most commonly encountered types of immature men.
1. The insecure narcissist
His insurance is essentially based on his arrogance. He spends a lot of time in front of his mirror and only cares about what he looks like.
But beneath this façade hides insecurity and a fear of being with someone who would be more attractive and brilliant than him. He will tend to choose a companion who compliments him and feeds his ego.
As soon as she stops doing this, he will transfer her insecurities to her, complain and destroy her confidence.
2. The careerist
Her only goal in life is to be successful in her job. Everything else is just a waste of time.
Let’s be clear, we all have to be ambitious and pursue our dreams, but when this ambition pushes you to neglect the rest of your life, there is a problem.
He believes that his career is more important than the needs, feelings or dreams of others.
This type of man needs a woman who supports him in everything he does and who dedicates him and his career to his entire life.
From the moment she allows herself to become a priority and, God forbid, to ask her for affection, he will be offended and hurt because he sincerely believes that his career is more important than everything else.
3. The Savior
He is attracted to those being entangled in inextricable situations. Helping others allows them to forget their own problems and feel better about themselves. He is looking for a woman to show him his desperate need for him.
He will make her feel good, make sure to repair each of her injuries because he is trying to escape from his own problems and injuries.
When he helps someone, he will feel good for a while, but what will happen when you no longer need him?
He will be hurt, broken and go away in an even more lamentable state than he was in when your relationship started.
He is not devoted to you, but rather to the task of helping you out of your own problems. He is unable to truly love someone because he does not know how to love himself.
He is unable to resolve the problems that may arise in your relationship because the only thing he has known is flight, as soon as a problem arises.
4. The addict
Dr**gs, alcoh**l, games or food – the things he is addicted to bring him joy. He is looking for a woman who can give him his dose of adrenaline.
A married woman, her high school crush or even her ex can offer her this type of pleasure. Once he has had enough of you, he will move on to his next victim.
His biggest problem is his inability to develop in this way, he will always be dependent on someone and will never stand on his own.
5. Mom’s son
Everyone knows at least one. Her only true relationship is with her mother. Whether he loves her or hates her, he is the one he will constantly compare to the women in his life.
She is still the model and you will never be able to rise to her level. Whatever you do, whatever you give him, his mother has already done it and better.
He is looking for approval from his mother and you will never have the last word in your relationship.
The woman he is looking for is either copy and paste from his mother or his complete opposite.
6. The dissatisfied
Whether in terms of his work or his social life, this guy is never happy, never satisfied and in deep depression.
He always feels like the world is after him and bad things are happening to him.
He plays the victim because he needs constant attention and care. Finding a woman who gives him a shoulder to cry on – or better yet, who can motivate him and provide him with a life goal – is essential for him.
But for a woman, this type of relationship can be extremely toxic. This woman will give him everything he needs because she will love him.
But the more she gives, the more it will take and at some point, he will just get out of his life because now he is better.
If in one of these types of men, you recognize yours, do not try to convince yourself that you can change it. Its toxicity will probably poison you too.
Stop wasting your time with him and find someone who is mature enough and therefore deserves a woman like you.