Our common sense tells us that we should never tolerate someone who harms us.
If your friend was in a toxic relationship where a guy treated her badly, you would be the first to tell her and advise her to break up.
And no matter how much she likes this guy, as her best friend, you would be the one to tell her that her place is not by her side.
Why then is it so difficult for us to notice that the person we love is treating us badly, and why is it even more difficult to stop enduring this?
Love can make us blind, it’s true. When you love someone, it’s easy to idealize all the good they do.
And when he does something wrong, we always end up making excuses for him.
You were not born in this world to waste your energy, your good heart and your love with someone who does not appreciate you enough.
Start loving yourself and worrying about your own well-being, and things will start to work out for you.