Don’t tell your secrets to those who tell the secrets of others!
To find out if we can trust a person:
you just have to observe how she behaves with the people around her.
If she is used to gossiping, talking behind the backs of people she meets, if she shares their secrets just to have a conversation or to be validated.
We must choose well the people with whom we share certain secrets of our life, because some people are not always well-intentioned, and may want to reveal them to harm our happiness.
Usually, we reveal something intimate about our life to a friend, coworker, or family member, naively thinking that he will keep it to himself. We believe he will be happy for us, but sometimes we find out that our secret has been revealed publicly and it can impact our bottom line and harm us.
In reality, there are often a few people who really deserve our trust.
Even if we live with them, it is necessary to set limits, that is, to determine how far they can go into our life so that they cannot harm us. Analyzing their behavior towards others is a good way to do it.
If someone tells you about other people’s secrets, then you can be pretty sure that they will do the same with yours.
This behavior is disrespectful, this person does not fully deserve your trust.
To build a mature and positive relationship, the foundation is trust, we have to make sure that the other person will be able to keep our secrets.
Unveiling other people’s secrets is never a good thing, it can create a lot of problems for those who have trusted someone by trusting their privacy.
To know if we can trust a person, it is enough to observe how they behave with the people around them.
If she is used to gossiping, gossiping, talking behind the backs of people she meets, if she shares their secrets just to have a conversation or to be validated.
We cannot fully trust a person who tells us certain secret things about others.
Because as soon as we leave, there is a good chance that we will become the next topic of conversation, and we will receive a lot of negative energy, which could shatter some of our dreams.
The energy of gossip is particularly negative, so when we move away from it we move closer to greater peace and fulfillment.
So, don’t tell your secrets to people who tell you other’s secrets. If possible keep your distance from negative energy and focus on your own growth with more healthy and balanced relationships.