We’ve all wondered if the guy who approached us wants us for a little while or if we really get your attention. It’s the million-dollar question: how do you know what a man wants from you?
There are ways to filter out the guys who just want to play with you to attract the right men. But first, you must identify them. If you want to know how to achieve it, keep reading.
How do you know what a man wants from you?
Sometimes you can be in a very confusing stage with a man because it is not clear to you what he wants with you. To know this, you must know some basic behavior patterns. See if it does the following:
1. He only contacts you at night and always touches on an intimate topic
This is a bit of a no-brainer, but worth mentioning. If you are dealing with a male vampire who seems to only come to life at night and talks about inrimate topics or activities, he is probably not interested in anything other than what he says.
Simple, but true: a man who is romantically interested in you looks to you to see if you are okay, invites you to lunch, or talks to you during the day.
Men who just want physical intercourse are mostly night prowlers. They tend not to be available to you on the weekend, not only during the day but also at night. Bluntly, they’re probably with someone else.
2. Seek to talk with you about interesting things
A man who is interested in you wants to talk to you, wants to learn more about you, and make space in your mind.
When a guy is only interested in physical intercourse, he pressures you to see you, but he doesn’t care about your life, your interests, or your tastes. Nor will he seek to engage in interesting conversations or ask you on the phone or messages how your day is going.
If you want to confirm a boy’s interest, you can ask him something that requires a minimum of time and thought. A simple “How was your day?” It will probably scare someone who just wants physical intercourse, as they don’t tend to share information about themselves.
A man who is genuinely interested in you will take time to chat with you on a wide variety of topics.
3. If he is interested, he will seek to be free for you
If a man is interested in you, no matter how busy he is, he will find space to spend time with you or even to talk.
Men who just want physical intercourse don’t have time for serious dating. Have you ever heard of waiting until your third date to be physical with someone? It has to do with this. It’s not set in stone, but it’s useful for weeding out those who only love you for a little while.
It is true that successful men are almost always busy, but you would be surprised to see how quickly they can readjust their schedules in order to get to know the woman they are interested in.
Someone who really likes you will go all the way, but you will notice how much they enjoy spending time with you and want to meet you.
4. A man who really likes you is proud to be seen with you
If a man is comfortable with you and feels that you fit in as a couple, he will not be ashamed to show you to the world as his partner. On the contrary, he will be proud that you are with him. This shows that he wants you for a serious relationship.
He will not mind if they cross paths with his family or friends, because the simple act of thinking of you and him together is pleasant for him.
A man who just wants physical intercourse won’t want to be related to you outside of a bar or club. You will always be looking for the typical “Netflix and Chill”. They will always see each other in isolation, with the ideal conditions to have a physical intercouse.
Be careful with this. Intimacy is part of a relationship, and yes, even if you are dating the most chivalrous and respectful man, he will physically desire you. But if it is the only interest they show, perhaps you should look for someone who does want a connection with you beyond the physical.