There’s a guy you like and you think he likes you, but you’re afraid to ask.
Women have stronger instincts and they usually know when a guy has a crush on them.
But sometimes we also get a little insecure.
So how do you get a man to admit he likes you?
That’s exactly what we’re going to talk about here today…
But before I start, I need to tell you about an extremely powerful strategy to get a man to admit he likes you…
This strategy is based on a curious aspect of male psychology and was scientifically proven not long ago.
It’s a secret that few women know, capable of activating a trigger in his mind (and making him give himself completely to you)
With that said, let’s get to today’s article!
How to Get a Man to Admit He Likes You?
- build trust
- Don’t just speak; listen more
- show interest
- discuss your feelings
- don’t push too hard
- Be yourself
- make him jealous
- don’t always be available
- Don’t share all your secrets
- enjoy it
- Find out more about their views on relationships
- Ask him directly
Some guys can give you a million tips, but they’ll never admit it right away. He might even be playing the role of a boyfriend in his life, but he still hasn’t readily admitted it.
If that’s the case, you’re going to have to give it a little nudge…
1. Build trust
It’s possible that the guy hasn’t said he likes you because he still doesn’t trust you enough. He may feel that if he says it first, you will simply reject him and may even make fun of him.
Just like women, guys like to feel safe before sharing their emotions.
If he finds you trustworthy, he’ll be more willing to open up. But keep in mind that building trust won’t happen overnight – give him enough time to trust you and make him feel comfortable putting himself out there.
2. Don’t just talk; listen more
Us girls can talk a lot, especially when we’re really attracted to someone. But, no one likes to be part of a conversation that is ‘me, me, me’ all the time.
It’s more than fine for you to talk about yourself, but it’s important that you take a break and listen to what he has to say.
If you talk non-stop, you will discourage him and end up scaring him away. After all, if he can’t get a word out, how can he admit that he likes you?
3. Show interest
This builds on point number two; you have to show that you are interested in talking and getting to know him.
If he texts you asking what you’re doing and you reply ‘no big deal’, that doesn’t show much interest and ends the conversation right there.
You have to encourage him to talk to you by replying with more content. Also, ask more questions about him and what he likes, and let him take all the time he needs to share what he feels comfortable with.
Good communication is very important in a healthy relationship, so start things right! Another positive aspect of encouraging communication is that it will help build trust – the more a guy opens up, the more he trusts you.
4. Talk about feelings
So, after you’ve had a nice long conversation about everything from the weather, politics, and celebrity topics, you can open up a little more and talk about feelings.
Moving things to a deeper, more intimate level where the two of you can share your feelings will help warm up the idea of saying ‘hey girl I have feelings for you’.
5. Don’t push too hard
Fact: Guys don’t like clingy, desperate girls who try too hard. They don’t want to feel suffocated by you 24/7 and they need room to breathe.
So think twice or even three times before sending another text or tagging it in another Facebook post. Give a man a chance to miss you (see point 8).
6. Be yourself
You, boo! Don’t try to be someone you’re not to make a guy like you. If it works out and you end up in a relationship, isn’t it going to be very tiring to keep pretending?
Or even worse, what if you show your true self, and the guy ends up not liking you and that leads to heartbreak?
Anyway, who wants to be with a guy who doesn’t like you? Your “other” personality may get and keep a man’s attention, but in the long run, it won’t do you any good.
If the guy is worth it, the real you will be more than enough for him.
7. Make him jealous
This is a little underhanded, but it might just be the nudge the guy needs to get you to say he likes you.
Try flirting with other guys in front of him, if he really likes you, you’ll see that it’s not making him very happy. But girl, stay smart. Know your limits and don’t overdo it.
8. Let him miss you
That saying ‘absence makes the heart warmer’ really is true. Don’t be available to him 24 hours a day, 7 days a week; think about it, if you’re always around someone, you lose some of the emotion, don’t you?
You want him to know that you have a life of your own and that your entire existence doesn’t revolve around him.
Letting him miss you will make him want you more and who knows, maybe even make you admit he likes you.
9. Don’t share all your secrets
The mystery keeps him interested, so don’t let the cat out of the bag right away, keep some parts of you a secret.
You want him to be curious and he will always come back wanting to know more about you. Share everything about yourself at once and there’s a good chance he’ll lose interest.
10. Appreciate him
A good ego stroke will go a long way toward getting him to share your desires. Men like to feel proud of who they are, and a simple way to do that is to show him that you’re aware of everything he’s doing for you and that you appreciate the effort.
11. Find out more about your views on relationships
As you get to know him better, ask him about his views on relationships and commitment. You want to make sure the two of you have the same opinions before committing to a relationship.
12. Ask him immediately
This can be very scary. Putting himself there first opens him up to rejection, but someone needs to take a chance.
But sometimes we don’t have the time or energy to decipher the clues he might be giving, so we decided to take the power into our own hands and ask directly, ‘Do you feel something for me?’
Guys can hide their feelings for a variety of reasons, or they just don’t have the courage to be honest for fear of rejection. So, in a way, you might actually be doing the guy a huge favor if you get him to admit that he likes you.