Let’s be honest.
How many times have you thought of texting your ex to tell him what you have in mind and making him regret not having behaved well towards you?
But at the last second, you decided not to do it because you had no idea what to say to him because of all those words that were screaming in your head and you couldn’t choose the right ones.
The next day, the urge to text him came back and became even stronger than before and even if you have already read tons of articles stressing the importance of the “no contact” rule, you cannot stop you from imagining what relief it would be to make him feel at least a minimum of the pain he caused you.
I understand you completely because I was this woman.
I was sitting next to my laptop, writing and then deleting messages in a loop.
I couldn’t decide which one to send or whether I should send one at all.
And then I took my courage in both hands and wrote a perfectly reasonable message that made him feel like shit and made him realize what an asshole he was towards me.
At that time, I felt like I had finally turned the page and that I could continue to live my life peacefully
So if you want your ex bastard to feel the same and find your inner peace, consider sending them one of these 5 messages:
To make him feel sorry for taking you for granted.
I just wanted you to know that I was well aware of everything you were doing to me, but I still stayed.
I stayed because I am not a wimp who gives up at the first obstacle.
I believe there is good in all of us and I wanted to believe that you would change.
But you never did.
And even if you replaced my smile with tears, and you kept me waiting for hours and you broke my heart, I’m still happy to have stayed.
I am happy to always see the good in others and at the same time, I am sad for you because you will never be able to do the same.
To show him that you’ve never been happier (without him)
As I walked down the street, I noticed your favorite restaurant and decided to order something like the good old days, but this time alone.
Before, I would never have dared to do something similar, because I always feared that I was going to feel alone and that everything would make me think of us.
I was surprised that it was not!
I realized that I have never been happier.
I won’t lie, the first days, I was really bad, but today I can say with certainty that it was the best decision of my life and that I never felt so calm and happy in all my life.
Thank you for that!
To remind him of all the crappy things he said or did to you.
As I write this, you are probably working on a plan to destroy another innocent person like you did with me.
You are probably devising the perfect plan to steal another’s happiness and feed on her selfless love and innocence.
I’m not going to try to stop you from doing it because I know you wouldn’t listen to me, but I want you to know what it’s like to be broken inside, and what it’s like to be left alone, with only tears and sleepless nights for friends.
Can you imagine what it feels like to be convinced that you are unworthy of love and that you deserve nothing better than a toxic treatment?
Can you imagine a heart tearing into thousands of little pieces?
This is what you did to me and this is what you will probably do to another.
But before you do that, think about these words that might save the life of this innocent person.
To let him know that someone else is treating you the way you deserve.
I must admit that I was afraid of never meeting someone like you.
I thought you were the best thing that had happened to me and that no one could ever replace you.
I was thinking all this despite the fact that you treated me like shit.
I realized that I was blind and that it was silly to believe that I had deserved the way you treated me.
I was wrong, my dear.
And you know how I did it?
I realized it because someone else is treating me like I deserve it.
Someone else shows me what true love is and I have to admit that I have never been happier in my life.
So thank you for treating me like you did because I finally see the difference between a man who is worthy of being in my life and one who is not.
To let him know it was just a mistake in the form of a painful lesson.
When we broke up, I thought the world was falling apart before my eyes.
I guess I needed time to realize that you were just a mistake and a painful lesson that I had to learn to open my eyes and realize that all this time I had taken for granted my own happiness .
Even though it may sound weird, I want to thank you for all that you have done to me because it has made me stronger and more courageous than before.
Thank you for that!