Making your girlfriend a priority in your life does not mean that you have to give up everything else.
This does not mean that your universe should revolve entirely around it, nor that it should provide for its needs 24/24 hours and 7/7 days.
This does not mean that you should forget your friends and relatives, or that it becomes your only concern.
Making your girlfriend a priority means respecting her and respecting her time.
It means being there for her when you promised her and not giving up on her. It means remembering the important dates she likes to celebrate with you.
Dates such as the anniversary of your first kiss, your first meeting, Valentine’s Day of course and all the other important events that allow him to feel loved and appreciated.
This means responding to her messages as soon as you can, rather than waiting the whole day to answer her only one word.
Responding takes only 10 seconds, so rather than escaping, just write that you love her and that you will get back to her as soon as you are out of work. It will affect her more than you think.
Making your girlfriend a priority means showing her that you’re here to stay.
It means calling her every once in a while, not just replying to the messages she sends you.
By calling her, you assure her of your interest in her, important enough to want to hear her voice and she will love it.
It means agreeing to be there for the wedding of your cousin you barely know, but it doesn’t even matter.
What matters is that it’s important to him and that’s all you need to worry about. By being by his side during the important events that dot his life, you show him your desire to be part of it.
What better way to show your commitment than spending time with your family and enjoying it?
She will be in seventh heaven and you will be happy to know that you are making her happy and allowing her to feel loved and appreciated.
Making your girlfriend a priority means being attentive to their wants and needs.
That means knowing what coffee to get him at Starbucks, without needing to call him to check. This means knowing that roses are her favorite flowers and that she is allergic to tulips.
This means knowing the names of family members and closest friends and who to call first in an emergency.
That means knowing what song it was that she couldn’t get out of her mind last week and what song upset her when she turned on the radio.
It means really taking an interest in what she says when she talks about her work and that annoying coworker she can’t bear, rather than just nodding, having no idea what she tells.
It means being present in her life, listening, hearing and understanding, rather than just listening and waiting for her to shut up.
Making your girlfriend a priority means really getting them involved in your life.
That means inviting her to the movies with your friends, because you want her to meet them and get to know them better.
You want your girlfriend and your best friends to be as friendly as possible, since they are all a big part of your life.
It also means knowing which kitchen she prefers, so as to surprise her occasionally when she comes home from work and brings her favorite dish back to the table.
She will love you for it! This does not mean to assume that she is not interested in something and therefore does not even bother inviting her.
No, on the contrary, invite her to do the things that you love and that are important to you. Even if it does not excite her, she loves you and she is ready to support you!
This is how it works. Make room for her in your life and she will do the same for you.
Very soon, you will find yourself enjoying these cooking lessons in which she has made you participate and she will begin to appreciate World Of Warcraft and become a real player!
This is what we do for the people we love. We make them take part in the things we love.
It will grow the love you have for each other and will bind you more deeply than you could have imagined.
