“Absence tenderizes the heart.”
In most cases, this is true and women know how to use this weapon to make a man “helpless”.
They have specific ways of making a man madly miss.
In truth, in this way, women do not deceive men nor do they trap them.
Let’s just say that they remind their man how exceptional they are and that they are really lucky to have them. It is completely innocent but very effective!
It can happen that we take different paths or even that we find ourselves on the verge of rupture.
And, in such situations, it is better to try everything for everything.
Better take out the heavy artillery because on closer inspection you will see that you have nothing to lose.
If he wants to break up with you, he will do it no matter what. So there is nothing wrong with using your jokers in a way that prevents the inevitable from happening.
When I say “all for all”, I mean you have to bet, take the risk.
If you are separating or if you feel that you are about to get there due to your relationship problems, try doing one of the things listed below so that you will miss him madly.
“Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”
1. Ignore him
When you love someone, it’s completely normal to want to be with them and communicate with them on a daily basis.
If you want to miss him, you have to cut off all contact.
Do a little less. It is normal that you want to spend every second with him but for the success of your “mission”, you will have to fight your urgent needs.
Often, many women cannot resist writing to their spouses when they really want to.
Yes, it happened to me too. I knew my goal but I couldn’t help it and I wrote to him.
If you really manage to ignore it, it will start (I promise) wondering why you are not responding to its messages and will probably do something about it. You will start to miss him.
Remember: be brave if you want to reach your goal.
2. Let go
You must stop looking at its pages on social networks. You have to stop letting him come to see you late at night after he’s gone out.
You have to stop hearing from him while he’s out with his friends.
You just have to pretend you’ve lost interest in him.
Pretend you’re not as mad about him as you used to be. Let him do what he wants.
He’ll probably even do some things to test you and see how far you are ready to go.
Don’t give in to pressure but try to endure what you started.
This will make him think. He will start to panic because he will think you are tired and no longer pinch for him.
And he will certainly do everything in his power to get you back.
3. Become the one who ends the conversation
After ignoring him and reducing your contact with him, he will contact you first.
He will send you messages or call you.
Whenever you speak, you should be the one to end the conversation – by hanging up on the first one or sending your message wishing him goodnight first.
I know it will be difficult for you since you care about him and want to talk to him but you have to stay strong in order to get what you want. You have to show him what his life would be like if you weren’t part of it.
4. Spend more time with your friends
Be careful, it’s not a question of pretending to have a good time by posting photos on social networks. It would be pointless.
You have to be genuinely happy and have a good time. Go out with your friends, just have fun and try not to think about him.
Try to get it out of your head and release the pressure.
Calm down and forget it for a few hours. You should go out and enjoy a few drinks, go to a concert – you should go wild!
Show him that you can have fun and enjoy life without him.
He is not the center of your universe (or at least he should not be) and you must make him aware of it.
5. Leave him in dissatisfaction
You should always leave him in a state of dissatisfaction.
It is not an easy game to play, especially if you are crazy about it but if you put all your cards on the table from the start, there will be no more mystery…
If you show him everything you’ve got, he’ll tire of you.
Reveal yourself little by little so that, when you are together, each time you can surprise him with something new. He will be completely bitten!
Ladies, in the end, what matters most is to show him that you love yourself and that you will be fine with or without him!
