Have you ever fallen in love so deeply that you never thought you could live without this person again?
You were so in love that you were ready to do everything to keep him with you because you were sure that he was the man of your life?
And that even if he did not have the same feelings, you continued to believe and hope that one day he will still feel the same for you?
Well, you are not alone.
Very often, we get carried away by our feelings and we think that we will succeed in achieving our ends, and that this man (indifferent) will recognize our value and will sooner or later fall madly in love with us.
That said, love doesn’t really work like that, which is why you have to know from the start that you can’t force someone to love us or have deeper feelings for us.
No matter what we can do and how much we try to get closer to this person, after a while it is inevitable to accept the harsh reality.
The more you tried to get closer to him, the more it repelled him?
You gave him everything and along the way, you got lost yourself.
Are you tired of having to prove your worth and love to someone?
Are you tired of chasing after someone who will never be able to appreciate everything you have done for them?
Well, you are in the right place. In this article, I will give you some tips that will help you forget about it and move forward in your life.
1. You weren’t made for each other
When two people are made for each other, neither of them should run after the other. It’s that simple.
If you were really meant to end up together, then you would never have needed to chase after him.
And if you have to pursue him, then that means he’s not the man in your life.
So there is only one thing left for you to do: let him go.
The ideal man will come one day and show you what true love is.
You will not even need to put in so much effort to keep him because he will choose you and you will be chosen from his heart.
This is why you have to give up the one that is not the right one for you. You deserve someone who will love you and choose you no matter what.
If you keep chasing the wrong man, you’re only going to suffer even more because he won’t change, I guarantee you.
If you don’t want to spend your life suffering because of a man, you have to let him go.
2. Pursue self-love
Remember your worth and never let anyone disrespect you.
If you show disrespect for yourself, you allow others to treat you the way they want and without any respect.
On the other hand, if you respect yourself enough, you will be able to get away in time or leave the people who make you unhappy or who make you feel unloved.
3. You deserve to be chased after
You deserve someone chasing you.
If you are able to show a man that you love him every day, is it really too much to ask that he do the same for you?
You are a unique girl of your kind and if someone is not able to see him, then too bad for him, it is his loss and not yours!
Do not even try to prove it to him, because he will realize it himself once he has lost you. And then he will find himself heartbroken.
You deserve someone who chooses to stay in the best and the worst.
Someone who will love you with all his heart even when it will be difficult to love you.
4. Never belittle yourself
By running after him you will always look desperate and pathetic.
I know that losing him and being able to do nothing about it drives you crazy, but that doesn’t mean you have to show him how desperate you are for his love.
Be brave and stay strong. I know how it hurts to see a man you love leaving our life, but you have to keep your head up and smile despite all the pain.
Don’t belittle yourself for someone who doesn’t even deserve you. You owe yourself much more than that.
And you know that you are better than that and that you deserve more than that.
5. You can’t force him to love you
Pursuing someone will not make them love you more.
You only risk moving it further away. Between us, no one really likes pathetic people who don’t know when to stop.
There’s nothing wrong with you, but you have to face the truth and understand that you’re never going to be able to make someone love you.
Love is not something you can force; if you really love it, all you can do is wait.
Stop chasing him and see what will happen.
Maybe it will make him understand that no one will love him as much as you do, and that he will end up appreciating everything you have done for him.
Maybe that’s what will open his eyes and he will run after you.
But if he doesn’t, it’s high time to let him go forever.
Accept reality and move on, even if it is painful. Time will eventually heal all of your wounds.
6. You will end up brokenhearted
Pursuing it will only break your heart. And your own expectations will be the only ones to blame for this.
Whenever you expect something to change, and ultimately end up liking you in the same way, you run the risk of ending up disappointed.
And each time, it will be your expectations that will lead you to disappointment.
Disappointment after disappointment, you will gradually begin to lose hope. You must realize that you can do much better.
You have to appreciate yourself enough to know when to stop. You have to drop it if you don’t want to lose yourself.
Chasing the man you love won’t do you any good. This will only lead to emotional suffering.
You will end up having self-esteem issues and will not be able to move on for a long time.
It is not by pursuing it that you will conquer it or succeed in keeping it in your life.
Some things are done to happen, and others just are not.
Just as some people are just not meant to be part of our lives.
No matter how hard one tries, it’s hard to fight fate.
