I’m not going to lie to you and tell you that love should be the last thing you should think about.
No, far from it, I know that it is one of the most important things for every human being.
Whether you admit it or not, it is obvious that a healthy romantic relationship can significantly improve the quality of life.
And of course, it can make you happier and more satisfied.
But that does not mean that you have to chase after him at all costs.
This does not mean that you should make it the center of your universe or that you should ignore all of your other successes simply because you do not have a happy love life.
This does not mean that you should fight for it, at the risk of destroying yourself.
Because in the end, it’s always better to lose a love than to lose yourself.
Make no mistake: I am not trying to pretend that a mature relationship does not require time, patience and energy.