Often in our lives, we tend to wait for other people to solve our problems or bring us what we lack.
We can start to wait on others unconsciously, because this addiction sets in very subtly within us, and when we realize it, we are already in a vicious cycle of depending on each other for good and happy lives.
However, depending on someone else will never bring us complete happiness, as we are the guarantors of our own destiny and we were not born to follow others.
Freeing ourselves from addiction is one of the best things we can do for ourselves.
When this happens, we learn to trust ourselves more and stay at peace so as not to meet expectations.
In addition, our relationship with ourselves and with the people around us becomes more real, strong, and honest.
When we learn to live without expecting anything from anyone, we let our lives unfold more naturally and surprise us.
We do not limit ourselves because of others, on the contrary, we live and we let live, we understand that everyone is responsible for his own happiness and that putting his life in the hands of others is a lack of self- respect.
When we stop waiting for people to solve our problems and start taking full responsibility for our life, we have more freedom to create the life we really want to live and create a more positive environment around us, this which increases our well-being.
We have to learn to put ourselves first and live in the way that makes us happiest.
It is part of everyone’s right to decide what to do with their life and to be happy the way they want, even if the choices do not match the wishes of others. Life waits for no one and every day we spend living a life we don’t like is a missed opportunity to be happy.
When we stop waiting, we live much better.
Things won’t always turn out the way we hope, but knowing that we are in control of our lives is better than being content to be guided by other people, who sometimes don’t even have our best interests at heart.
Let’s learn to be grateful and accept the lessons life puts in our way instead of feeling sorry for ourselves and leaving our future in the hands of other people.
Take responsibility for creating the life of your dreams, but first, accept your current life and go from there. Don’t be fooled into thinking that another person can solve everything for you in the blink of an eye.
Expect more from yourself and less from others. Start acting in this direction and you will find that the more you act, the more life gives you back.