You have to keep your eyes wide open to locate love. The look is the first gesture that shows interest in another person and the best ways to capture who we like. There are multiple genres of love gaze, and in this article we explain the meaning of each of them.
The looks are not so difficult enough to decipher, you don’t need a cryptographer to do it. The essential thing is to know which are the key gestures that you must identify and how to interpret them. The nine genres of love glances:
Level -1: No eye contact on purpose
This is the lowest level of eye contact, due to the fact that there is none. It occurs when the person makes a conscious effort, even extreme, not to look at you. The absence being aware of the gaze affirms a lot about a person and what they think of you.
On the levels of s**xual intimidation, level -1 is the basement. It is the anti-intimidation. The non-verbal signal of a “give up.” It is the way in which a person affirms to you “Get away from me, weirdo”, without even having to open their mouth or gesture.
Lack of eye contact usually occurs when the other person feels uncomfortable, when they are not interested in you, or when they clearly dislike you.
Level -1 eye contact can happen in a chat. So just because that person continues to talk to you does not mean that they are comfortable with you. If we put it on the genre scale of love looks, this is a look without romantic interest.
Level 0: Zero eye contact (involuntary)
If a person does not involuntarily make eye contact with you, it is more reflective of their inattention to your presence. In most cases, it means that they either haven’t appreciated you being there or they don’t even know you.
Many times it can happen that the person does not see you because they are busy and their attention is focused on something else, or they simply do not seem interesting. Hence, this kind of gaze is not one of love, it is rather one of ignorance.
If you want to get their looks, and that they are of love, what you should do is find a way to put yourself on that person’s radar. It catches your attention, and more than ever you will see that his eyes avoid yours.
Level 1: Unconscious Glance
An unintentional glance occurs at that moment when someone looks at you and immediately turns to the other side, even if it is not even being aware of what they see. Essentially their eyes are wandering and, coincidentally, their gaze meets yours.
The key in such a case is that your consciousness does not register anything you see at that moment, since it does not pay attention to what you are observing.
As with level 0, this level of eye contact is neutral. Most people do not pay attention to what they see most of the time. You must find a way to transform yourself into something that takes him out of that distraction.
Level 2: Conscious Glance
This second level of eye contact implies that you have made an impression on that person. He knows you and takes a conscious look at you. This implies will: he wants to see you, even for a moment.
This occurs when their gazes meet and, practically immediately, they turn consciously, whether it be due to littleness, discomfort or disinterest. With so many possible options, how do you know why you looked away?
Studies of anatomical language indicate that the moment a person breaks eye contact looking at one side, they are indifferent (that is, they do not feel attracted). But regardless of where he turned, if he did it immediately, in general, one of these options is due:
1. He was attracted and for a moment bashful when their gazes met.
2. You are not interested and want to avoid making eye contact altogether.
Most people are not comfortable making eye contact with strangers. What is essential is not whether or not he turned his gaze, but rather what caused him to decide to turn and break eye contact.
Level 1 vs. Level two How to distinguish between them?
The difference in meaning between these first 2 levels of eye contact is subtle and quite difficult to tell if you don’t know the person. It is simple to confuse a quick glance for interest with a distracted and absent glance.
It takes time to get the ability to distinguish these genres of gaze. It is impossible to be one hundred percent sure of someone else’s claims, but experience allows your assumptions to be more likely to be correct.
A good exercise for someone new to the art of flirting or for someone shy is to never break eye contact with someone before that person breaks it with you.
When you go out for a walk, make eye contact with people who seem interesting or attractive to you. You’re going to feel uncomfortable looking strangers in the eye, but that’s the idea. Practicing until the moment that feels natural is one way to boost your confidence.
This way you will stop seeing shapes and shadows. If someone is interested in you, it will be easier for you to appreciate it.
Level 3: Glance and a Half
At this level we are already talking about obvious interest, although it is little. The one-and-a-half glance is subtle, quite difficult to appreciate without a lot of practice.
It occurs when someone looks at you and breaks eye contact as they usually do, but holds the gaze for a fraction of a second longer than normal. We talk about 1/4 of a second more.
While level two eye contact may last half a second, level three eye contact will last 3/4 of a second. The human psyche is programmed to spend more time looking at things it finds attractive, the look lasts fifty percent of the time because you caught their attention.
It is not to carry a chronometer watch with you, but if the look lasts longer than normal, you will notice.
Attentive! Any face-to-face eye contact of this level is a strong incentive to start a conversation.
Level 4: Double Look
Every time you make eye contact with someone attractive and that person looks away, hold your gaze for two more seconds. Most likely, a percentage of those people will turn to see you a second time.
In most cases, this is a clear sign of physical interest, and 95 percent of the interactions you start with that person are going to be well received.
It is curious that even at level four of eye contact most people are still unaware of the duration of their gazes.
Although they are distracted, the unconscious always and in all circumstances reacts to interesting, attractive or intriguing things. If their eyes look to yours again, that is a very good sign.
Level 5: The look
Here we say goodbye to glances. At this level we chat with direct and sustained glances for a while. It’s solid eye contact that is held for 2 to 3 seconds.
When the interest is not reciprocal, it is this kind of gaze that transforms into the vile “uncomfortable gaze” or “stalker gaze.” But in cases where there is mutual attraction, the sustained gaze is the ideal moment to take the initial step of a talk.
On the love gaze genre scale, the sustained gaze is a clear sign of interest and attraction.
Level 6: The smiling gaze
Has it happened to you that they smile at you and you think that with the person behind you? They claim that life is full of smiles that are not for you, but this is not necessarily true. You just have to know how to see what it is for us. It’s another great reason to practice your looks with strangers.
Level six of the love gaze classes is the gaze that is accompanied by a smile. If the look is already a clear sign that that person is interested in you, giving you a smile is announcing it with neon signs.
If someone you find attractive gives you a level 6 look, it is a great opportunity to approach a dialogue or let them seek to chat with you.
Level 7: The look that undresses
This refers to a sustained eye contact, accompanied by a smile and also a slight daring of those who do not feel ashamed to express their s**xual attraction.
The gaze that undresses is the first level of the gazes of love that makes a huge leap from a “simple interest, attraction or curiosity” to “wants to sleep with you.”
This level of gaze does not hide his claim. It is all the interest that can fit in one look. He is a person who leaves his doors completely open and with a “Welcome” sign for you.
But waters, when the interest is not reciprocal, this kind of gaze is uncomfortable. If you are a man and regularly naked with your gaze at the women that interest you, if they don’t touch you … stop.
Level 8: Dream Gaze
The dreamy look happens when there are feelings involved. It is that look that you find at the side of the bed when you wake up and your partner smiles at you between asleep and awake, when he is still close to unconsciousness.
It is the way in which 2 people look at each other between cuddles and caresses or when they make beautiful sounds while touching their noses.
The dreamy gaze practically never happens before they have s**x, it is a higher level of intimidation. It usually starts after one or a couple of months of relationship, although it can happen in just two nights together.
Assuming the feeling is mutual, the dreamy look is amazing. It is the most intimate and romantic eye contact a person can give you. Centuries of literature and film have prospered from what this look means.
Whether we like to accept it or not, it is what most of us strive for in the long run. With what when you find it, enjoy it. And if you wonder what is its place among the kinds of looks of love: it is the maximum romantic look that you will be able to find.
What if it is not reciprocated?
If the feeling is not mutual and this look is not reflected in the face of the other person, you may feel pain for a broken heart.
Unrequited love is not enjoyable for absolutely anyone. Making the eyes that looked at you wail that way makes the heart weigh more. You see them wailing and you get drowned.
If this is your case, stay calm. Just be sincere and tell them things up front, break the relationship they have with respect and dignity. Life recycles us all.
Level 9: Crazy Eyes
The last level of eye contact is not understood in its dimension until the moment you experience it. The moment it happens to you, that look continues in your head for a long time, even without that person being present.
It is a look that haunts you. It is everywhere and nowhere. They are the eyes of the guy who woke you up at 3 in the morning practically knocking down your door because you never returned his call. It is the look of the woman who pretends to be pregnant because she thinks that this way you will be with her.
Crazy eyes signify pathological illusion, overwhelmed emotion, and the complete loss of control over reality. This look often comes with a restraining order.
Meaning of the looks of love
Loving looks can have many meanings, from curiosity or interest to romantic attraction… You must be careful when trying to decipher the meaning of a look, it is fractions of a second that differentiate the claims.
A bad analysis can lead to misunderstandings or disappointments with other people.
What is the meaning of staring?
Stares signify interest and attraction. The longer you hold your gaze, the greater your interest. Even more so if it is accompanied by a smile.
Photos of the looks models
You do not need photographs of the different types of gaze, it is enough that you look at the time they are looking at you and if it is only once or if they see you again. The time they keep your gaze affirms much of the interest behind their gestures.
What does the steady gaze mean?
A steady gaze is a clear sign of interest. As a general rule, people repress ourselves when we look at someone who looks back at us, so if that person looks at you for a longer time than normal, it is a clear invitation so that you approach them to speak to them.
What does the deep gaze mean?
The deep gaze is another clear sign of interest. The longer they look at you, the greater the curiosity or attraction of that person towards you.
Although it also depends on who and at what time is watching you. If it is someone you know and in the middle of a conversation they look at you that way, you can be sure that they are paying attention.
What does it mean for a person to stare into your eyes?
A person can stare into your eyes for multiple reasons, some are conscious and others are unconscious. It can be interest or simple path of your gaze. If you want to know what a gaze affirms, check back our guide to love gaze classes.
What does it mean not to look into your eyes when chatting?
When someone talks to you without looking you in the eye, it can be for 2 reasons: they feel embarrassed or they are lying to you. Although you must bear in mind that not all people develop in the same way.
If you are dealing with someone very shy and their confidence level is not very high yet, they will continually look at the other side. If they are someone you talk to often and this behavior is unusual, they may be lying to you or hiding something.
What is the meaning of the look?
The look, or its absence, can have many meanings: from a clear “I am not interested” to a “You are the love of my life.” The meaning of each look depends on the claims that the person has. Take another look at our guide so you can interpret them.
What does it mean to make eye contact with a kid?
In principle, making eye contact with a boy can represent many things. More than the gaze, it is essential to identify how long they maintain eye contact and if it is conscious.
It can be from an unconscious and also involuntary glance to an invitation in order for you to approach.
When a man likes you, how does he look at you?
When the lips can’t tell you what they’re feeling, the eyes can. A man who likes you will look at you with great affection, attention and for a long time. Even when you don’t see it.
What is the relevance of the gaze?
Why examine the eyes? Eye contact is essential because it expresses emotions, especially when you go out with someone and you also try to measure the degree of attraction that person has towards you.
It is really helpful to have a basic understanding of what the eyes communicate. Their expressions can reveal attraction, affection, even annoyance. Knowing how to read what the gaze reveals is a good tool to attract people, avoid confrontations and improve your understanding of the rest.
Many things are affirmed without chatting, especially with the eyes. You can explain the cosmos with your eyes. You just need to know exactly what to look for to understand the message.
Whether it is disinterest or love in its expression, knowing the kinds of looks of love and their meaning can help you discover new romantic relationships or, at least, avoid many misunderstandings.